Originally posted by Wyldfire
A very big part of having the ability to do that is to have incredible self-control and not "need" anyone to be happy. The less you need from those you get involved with the more they want you.
i agree with all of that.
what do i need from a 39 year old "playerette" who lives in somewhere in the world that i'll probably never even visit.
-but you made the call that you can play me?
even if i was getting things from you.
what are my needs? sex? money? fun? - i can't think of what else a playerette could offer me.
i know that i can have sex with many other people, and i know that even if i end up losing every girl that i know to date i can have sex with, i know that i can meet a new girl to have sex with in under a month.
money? if i need money, my dad is worth plenty. i don't get any money from him now. but if i needed it, no problems.
fun. well i find it extremely unlikely that i could have more fun with any girl then i have with my best mate and wingman. he was my best mate first when i was 9. and we've always stayed VERY close. of course there has been some ebbs. but right now its at its all time peak. 13 years of friendship. that being said, i'm also very able to have fun by myself, with my family, with other friends, and with other girls.
now, you made the call that you could play me, i'd like to know how?
if you get hit on by guys my age all the time, thats great. and to me, that suggests that i'd bang you, but i know there would be no future there, and it wouldn't be a future i'd want.
-for the record, many women of your age grab me on the ass - which is about as much of a hit as they make, although some do initiate conversations with me. and if i ever talk to one who grabs me on the ass, i'm virtually straight in..
but going through everything i've spoken about in this thread in reverse (for me to play you), i still wouldn't say i could play you, nor any random girl for that matter due to the fact that there takes the initial attraction, then the meeting, then the attraction to grow into a relationship before you can actually begin playing anyone.