Showing your Romantic side

[Gammergq]

Being Romantic and I mean my philosphy of life not just being able to create or deliver the perfect warm gesture which would melt a womans heart. When is the best time to display this side of my personality?

 

[Mr. Wolf]

If the Romantic idea is a classic Hollywood AFC tragedy, then never.

 

[LivA]

When you're trying to get laid.

 

[Bible_Belt]

When you're trying to get laid.

lol @ that

Where's the line between romantic and naive? Maybe the point at which it detracts from getting laid?

 

[LivA]

lol @ that

Where's the line between romantic and naive? Maybe the point at which it detracts from getting laid?

Call me air-headed, but how does romantic and naive relate?

 

[ready123]

what are your goals? are you going for a hook-up? or an actual girlfriend?

 

[sav]

Call me air-headed, but how does romantic and naive relate?

because women like players and *******s, not nice guys and romantics

 

[LivA]

because women like players and *******s, not nice guys and romantics

Yeah, it's an age thing. :yes:

 

[ValleyDJing]

Never works for me.

 

[potato]

Depends. It you think that you are going to get a woman interested in you by being romantic, it’s not going to work. If you have an ongoing relationship with a woman then romance is part of that game you play with each other.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Yes, part of the game, exactly. In the push and pull, romance has its place. The more of a Mr Perfect that you seem when things go well, then the more it hurts when she misbehaves and you freeze her out. It's a yin & yang opposites thing. The zen expression is that a wall and a window define each other, for one means nothing without the other - a window is a hole in a wall. Opposites define each other, and if you're too much of an ambivalent player all the time, then the freeze out card does not pack the same power.

 

[iqqi]

It you think that you are going to get a woman interested in you by being romantic, it’s not going to work.

This is so true. I hate guys that try to be romantic immediately. That cheesey crap is fake and a total turn off.

A common reaction to it is "awww, you are so sweet... I think we should just be friends." (woman-ese for please back off a little...)

It has its place later as you get to like each other more.