assobsessed said:
Good stuff Damage...never thought of the hugging thing that way. I almost always do the hand shake but sometimes a girl comes at you with a hug and you almost have no choice but to hug back!
If a girl is so willingly wanting to hug you then it doesn't matter what you do with her, it might already be a lost cause. You can tell by the way a woman hugs you as opposed to how she hugs other people, if she is interested in you or not.
assobsessed said:
I'm gonna put your method into action and see how it works..
A word of advice, ease into it slowly. It may sound simple enough (palm down, looking her in the eyes and smile) but over thinking about it or worring about how you will be precieved can damage your confidence and your approach. You don't want to come off as an unnatural, like a robot because you might creep her out. As soon as you are comfortable with looking in a girl's eye and smiling at her then incorporate the palm facing down handshake.
Cr1msonKing said:
Damn dude, I've been wanting to try to kiss the cheeks after meeting a girl, but I've never done it. I've seen my natural friend, he goes to a different school and he does it, and it just looks suave.
Like I said I've never done it, and I'm just afraid it might be awkward or whatever. But its just me being a *****, I'm gonna try to incorporate it in me.
Majority of the kissing the cheeks after meeting a girls (or guys) has cultural implications. Italians, Greeks and people with Latin background have grown up accustomed to this formal greeting so naturally they will come of as natural because its second nature to them (and to the women who also grow up in this culture or been around people from those cultures and are used to this greeting).
My thought is that if you aren't comfortable doing that, it ain't going to make or break your game. Work on the areas you know you are good at.