Should you hide being rich?

[zinc4]

Never flash money to anyone bro. It’s nobodies business how much money you have. Men and women will try to take advantage of you otherwise. Trust me, I know.

Nah man. Only hide it in poor 3rd world countries. I am going to let the whole world know once i hit my targets. If you find gold diggers just PND them who cares. I will promise them the world then pnd them for sport. Am buying some high priced property here in Panana right now. The title transfer time, payment process and paperwork is a ***** though. Then will fly back stateside and start building a small real estate empire and small stable of cars.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Nah man. Only hide it in poor 3rd world countries. I am going to let the whole world know once i hit my targets. If you find gold diggers just PND them who cares. I will promise them the world then pnd them for sport. Am buying some high priced property here in Panana right now. The title transfer time, payment process and paperwork is a ***** though. Then will fly back stateside and start building a small real estate empire and small stable of cars.

If work so hard, why waste it on worthless expensive assets? That's my opinion.

Been there, done that.

 

[metalwater]

The question here is - does advertising your wealth lead to hotter women?

Do Pua’s overplay game and downplay money as a cope?

usually, those with money don't complain about having money.

 

[BadBoy89]

The "lover/provider" dichotomy is more of a behavioral set, not a socioeconomic station.

The "lover" is the physically attractive and/or dominant, confident, "alpha" male that sexually attracts women.

The "provider" is the compliant, subordinate man who emotionally attracts women by appealing to her nesting urges.

"Lovers" can be wealthier, financially, than "providers." What makes a provider a provider is his willingness to, you guessed it, provide his resources. Not necessarily having more resources.

No, you should not hide your wealth if you have it. Wealth indicates status, and status is sexually attractive to women.

I have some assets and I really loved this girl and wanted to marry her. Unfortunately, my female lawyer told me I had to disclose what I had beforehand for a prenup.

I basically told the girl "I'll give you my entire salary and take care of you the best I can. I'll buy you a new car every 6 months. Only one caveat: you cannot touch any assets. In other words, while we are married if I pick a stock and it goes up, or if I bet on the hockey game and win, 90% of the money is yours. But you cannot touch any income-producing assets or income-producing stock I had beforehand.

The girl didn't go for it. Either I wasn't sexy enough, or she didn't trust my ability to pick Super Bowl winners.

 

[zinc4]

If work so hard, why waste it on worthless expensive assets? That's my opinion.

Been there, done that.

Assets, besides cars, are another investment. Are you planning to keep only fiat in a bank account? Very foolish. You have to diversify greatly. Real estate is good for passive income and slow growth of your investment and is fun. I want at least 5 good properties in 3 different countries so i can vacation and base at home whenever.

 

[Bigpapa]

Cool bye.

tryiNg to look cool hahahahah

You would have looked cooler if you would not have had responded anything at all , troll

 

[Bigpapa]

I have some assets and I really loved this girl and wanted to marry her. Unfortunately, my female lawyer told me I had to disclose what I had beforehand for a prenup.

I basically told the girl "I'll give you my entire salary and take care of you the best I can. I'll buy you a new car every 6 months. Only one caveat: you cannot touch any assets. In other words, while we are married if I pick a stock and it goes up, or if I bet on the hockey game and win, 90% of the money is yours. But you cannot touch any income-producing assets or income-producing stock I had beforehand.

The girl didn't go for it. Either I wasn't sexy enough, or she didn't trust my ability to pick Super Bowl winners.

dunno where you are based and how the law is there , but in Europe for example , whatever you had before marriage it is not divisible in case of divorce . Only asserts gained during marriage have to be splited 50-50

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Well. On Tinder I never put my job or university in my bio. I wouldn’t tell if I was rich.

 

[Bigpapa]

Well. On Tinder I never put my job or university in my bio. I wouldn’t tell if I was rich.

depends on what your expectations are . If you want just to deep it in , I do not really see why it would be a bad move .

even if you would like something long term , I still do not see a very bad reason on why you would keep it a secret .

I think that this idea to keep it a secret comes from the idea that the woman should like a guy for who he is rather than for what he is .

but as @rjc149 mentioned , women will always choose one way or the other guys based on what they can offer ( looks , status , hotness , smartness , money ,etc ) . I think that accepting this is part of becoming truly red pilled

 

[Bokanovsky]

Warren Buffett is a penny pincher. Nothing wrong with that.

People who work hard and work every day don't want to waste it on nonsense.

And I believe it is extremely "beta" and approval-seeking to spend money just to improve outward appearance, and especially just for females.

Edit: It also speaks volumes about females personalities that this is what they look for. Why even invite such parasites around you to begin with?

I am all for being frugal (within reason) but Warren Buffet is mentally ill. Anytime you see a billionaire or multi-millionaire who is a penny pincher, you are looking at someone who is struggling with a disorder. Why? Because when you are rich, trying to save money on small things is actually counterproductive. Time is money and it takes time to be a penny pincher. The time that he spends thinking about how to save $20 on a pair of pants could be used working on a $20 million investment deal.

Also, what's the point of having all that wealth if you are not going to enjoy it? He lives in an UGLY looking house that he bought...in 1957. He drives a crappy beige entry level Cadillac. The women he dated and married were all pretty average too. In fact, I doubt that in his 91 years on this planet, he has had with a hot woman even once. His quality of life appears to be on par with that of a second-rate accountant or government clerk.

 

[Bigpapa]

I am all for being frugal (within reason) but Warren Buffet is mentally ill. Anytime you see a billionaire or multi-millionaire who is a penny pincher, you are looking at someone who is struggling with a disorder. Why? Because when you are rich, trying to save money on small things is actually counterproductive. Time is money and it takes time to be a penny pincher. The time that he spends thinking about how to save $20 on a pair of pants could be used working on a $20 million investment deal.

Also, what's the point of having all that wealth if you are not going to enjoy it? He lives in an UGLY looking house that he bought...in 1957. He drives a crappy beige entry level Cadillac. The women he dated and married were all pretty average too. In fact, I doubt that in his 91 years on this planet, he has had with a hot woman even once. His quality of life appears to be on par with that of a second-rate accountant or government clerk.

but warren buffet is a brand , just as Bernie Sanders is

in reality , we do not know if warrant buffet is really like he is posting him to be

we always thought that bill gates is this nerd philanthropist , etc till the press released his ties with that pedophile who hanged himself in jail .

Or when the board of Microsoft pushed him out because he offered favors to a woman employee in exchange of sexual favors , or whatever the scandal was about

for sure anyone would not have thought about bill Gates actually being a sexual predator . Did not blend in with his image

same thing with warren buffet or Bernie sanders . Maybe they have a fetish for 19 years old and pay handsomely for it

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Never flash money to anyone bro. It’s nobodies business how much money you have. Men and women will try to take advantage of you otherwise. Trust me, I know.

Indeed.
Not to mention the potential security risk of people knowing you have money.
That should not be taken light heartily either. People can kill for less... Heck some have been killed just for wearing a pair of nice sneakers...

 

[MatureDJ]

I am all for being frugal (within reason) but Warren Buffet is mentally ill. Anytime you see a billionaire or multi-millionaire who is a penny pincher, you are looking at someone who is struggling with a disorder. Why? Because when you are rich, trying to save money on small things is actually counterproductive. Time is money and it takes time to be a penny pincher. The time that he spends thinking about how to save $20 on a pair of pants could be used working on a $20 million investment deal.

Also, what's the point of having all that wealth if you are not going to enjoy it? He lives in an UGLY looking house that he bought...in 1957. He drives a crappy beige entry level Cadillac. The women he dated and married were all pretty average too. In fact, I doubt that in his 91 years on this planet, he has had with a hot woman even once. His quality of life appears to be on par with that of a second-rate accountant or government clerk.

Warren Buffet's pinky mogs the sheet out of you.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Most beautiful women are going to want someone who is at least moderately successful and financially set. "Rich" is a bit subjective, but if you mean should you let the women you are seeing know you are successful, my answer is yes. It will get you laid more often. Women are attracted to men who are financially and socially connected. This doesn't mean to flaunt it in their face, but you can certainly "show" rather than "tell" them you are one of these movers and shakers.

Women aren't necessarily turned on by the money itself; they are turned on by the fact that if you have money, it likely means you have the qualities that every female wants in the man (leader, smart, financially savvy, etc.).

I agree with that and would also add that it's usually easy to fool women into thinking that you have money. Women notice things like the car you drive (which could well be used and cost a fraction of what she thinks it does), the watch you wear (which could be a fake), your clothing (not a big expense in the grand scheme of things), etc. I see guys like this all the time, with their used luxury cars, fake Rolexes and Gucci belts, and maxed out credit cards. And women think they are hot shots because they've blown their last savings on bottle service at some trendy club.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

tryiNg to look cool hahahahah

You would have looked cooler if you would not have had responded anything at all , troll

And you think I'm worried about how I look to you? Lol. Is your username based on some stupid hiphop song that was popular 20 years ago?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Assets, besides cars, are another investment. Are you planning to keep only fiat in a bank account? Very foolish. You have to diversify greatly. Real estate is good for passive income and slow growth of your investment and is fun. I want at least 5 good properties in 3 different countries so i can vacation and base at home whenever.

I never have lots of cash. It all goes immediately into home builds, where I double my money. Even if home prices collapse, I would just about break even so it wouldn't be a loss.

Rental properties are not a good enough ROI for me.

 

[rjc149]

I mean why purchase a 2K bottle of wine at dinner for no particular occasion when a $200 bottle is fine

And why purchase a $200 bottle when a $20 bottle is fine?

Aside from the obvious insecurity that comes through when men supplicate and try to impress women, and that no woman feels attracted to a man who thinks he needs buy her, any bottle of wine over $40 is a waste of money. Especially considering that a $200 bottle of wine at a restaurant costs $25 at the liquor store.

 

[metalwater]

Well. On Tinder I never put my job or university in my bio. I wouldn’t tell if I was rich.

why?

Not looking for an LTR from tinder just a short time or plate...

Not really much different than seeking or escorts. The goal is a nut and maybe some attention.

I get being anonymous, thats good. So exact job and university would be not shared, but general ability and affluence are ok. Being humble doesn't flag tingles.

How the mind of a woman works is just insane to most of us and hidden.

Don't lead with "i am rich", but letting it be known is ok. Make sure we know what equals rich in any environment, lots of silly men think they are rich because they have never seen the face of the rich circles or even the upper-middle class but only the middle class and lower.

Often rich don't really know how much they have, they only know it's more than they need and never worry about it. I often see the wealthy will keep children close while the poor will get rid of them or let them wander.

 

[zinc4]

I have some assets and I really loved this girl and wanted to marry her. Unfortunately, my female lawyer told me I had to disclose what I had beforehand for a prenup.

I basically told the girl "I'll give you my entire salary and take care of you the best I can. I'll buy you a new car every 6 months. Only one caveat: you cannot touch any assets. In other words, while we are married if I pick a stock and it goes up, or if I bet on the hockey game and win, 90% of the money is yours. But you cannot touch any income-producing assets or income-producing stock I had beforehand.

The girl didn't go for it. Either I wasn't sexy enough, or she didn't trust my ability to pick Super Bowl winners.

Damn. What a ***** haha. She is out to take someone completely. You need to choose more wisely.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Damn, you guys must be pretty poor in the UK if an "AMG Mercedes" gets you demi-god treatment.

I used to work in the auto finance industry. Poor people aren’t driving 70k plus cars unless they are in between jobs or suffering an unfortunate situation.