if you can't keep her interest lvl high enough don't matter if you wait 3 days or msg her a day after, she will still flake, the idea is always never take everyhing as a it is, you need to read, understand the idea and then put in practice with you own way and words.
Attraction is not a choice and cant be created, that stuff about "keeping her interest high" is still some relic from the dj bible times.
The foundations on the DJ Bible posts are still relevant. Not all of them of course, but the majority is. I like bondjamesbond's and Pook's posts. Another guy that helped me a lot was PlayHer Man!
Thank you for speaking truth.... The DJ bible was written in the late 90's/early 2000s before social media and OLD took off..... It was before the hyper imbalance in SMV between males and females due to social media and OLD......
A 3 day shelf life with even that, lol!
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
The early to mid 2000s was the pinnacle of OLD. You had better quality women and bigger selection of them and in general less competition. Now, with smartphones being the norm every man has OLD profile and so easy for scammers as well in addition to women making OLD profiles simply for validation and not actually seriously wanting to date.
I believe your mistake is to consider women to have the same needs men have.
Man you're not lying, Not only that, but they had their guard down because it was still relatively new and they hadn't had a bunch of bad experiences yet to make them super cautious and doubtful of everything like they are now. They were down to instantly meet up, and they ALL responded to basic one or two word openers. Do you remember tagged? I used to KILL on there, Myspace too... man those were good times. It'll never be the same
To be honest with OLD I seldom have ever seen any serious LTR end out of it from friends, coworkers, or family members, few who use it or very many success stories in general anywhere other than those stupid Eharmony ads.
So what is your plan? You don't seem to have a plan. You can't even get out of your little hick town in southern FL.
I don't know. If you go on any PUA website, and I mean allot of them are up from the last decade before social media existed, or existed on the level it is today, you'll find the exact same issues that you are finding today.
You need to be super-chad to be popular with women and get allot of dates with different woman or have lots of variety.
Improving yourself is hackneyed.Von said:
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
If you're a super Chad you wouldn't need old unless you never get out.
You can't apply that same logic to men because a lot of guys are just animals when it comes to looking for sex, we are biologically different from women. Do you realize that there are a lot of good looking guys who date down and have sex with women who aren't the hottest just because they are sex addicts and want a quick fix or just love getting head from a chick who's down to do it. These types of guys will use all possible resources to get what they want, and it has nothing to do with looks
If we are looking at LTRs then biggoal has a point. He gets thats my only interest in OLD so his reply to my posts may hit that slant. You would not want an online girl for LTR is she is a Chad *** dumpster. There is always a different market for marriage or LTR quality women. It sounds like there would be more escortcels if just relying on online dating for any other reason since most men are just priced out.
It might be the dating platform too. At least around here it seems Tinder, and Bumble have a lot of hookers, fake profiles, hookup type people on them. Really a waste of time. I don't want that type. OKC and POF seem to be the low income, uneducated landwhale types using. Low reply rate, get bombarded by hookers, fake profiles and overall some of the nastiest women I've ever seen. The ones like Eharmony and Match seem to have the best looking women, but are also older too and more post wall but seem a lot more picky on there especially about income, marriage, children etc and less focused on looks. Like match and eharmony have a lot less under 35 on their apps down here but better looking women. As I said the 40 year old ones are better looking than the 30 year old landwhales.
In the Christian-cafe profile I usually say "Up to God" as far as kids are concerned. Given all of the recent hype you've generated from online dating (i.e. most of which is negative unfortunately), it's something I might start up again quietly and see if any connections are made on it. However, with a sh1tty type of career (i.e. Real-Estate is "okay" but everyone's doing it and it's really a more sophisticated way of saying you are unemployed or have a lump-sum min-wage type of job unless you are actually making a ton of money on it to meet up with the demands of life), and no real passion towards this aspect, and no real church involvement I sort of feel it's going to be a weak profile that will go nowhere and I'll end up losing more money.
