so i met this unbelievably hot woman (looks liek victorias secret woman) i got a number off many months ago.. but literally few secs afterwards she rejected me cos i was too c0cky arrogant.. overplayed it. tried to be more humble this time. i got it off facebook under a different name. so i contacted her on whatsapp using a more recent pic and a change of name and she didn't remember me at all thankfully so i started from ground zero. i skillfully messaged her and suggested we get together for a drink this evening spontaneously. got the date she seemed excited all good. didn't start well she was 20 mins late even tho she told me she was gona be 10mins (she was on phone with her sister who just got engaged) also she's a bit crazy.. as in OCD and probably ADD too.. every 5 secs losing concentration distracted.. wiping the champagne glass of her lipstick.. she has def OCD.. then reapplying her lip stick.
as most typical women she knows she has a problem but believes someone has to accept her for the way she is not try to change her or try to understand her. she's so direct, the first thing she said to me was 'do you prefer me with panties or not?' when i asked her do i look better in my new glasses or not.. i didn't hear her the first time so she repeated.. i was thinking whoa i might be in luck if she so sexually forward. so later when we got drinks she wanted to move (OCD) fussy thing again so we moved to other side of bar. she asked me what i was drinking i said pineapple juice (i dont drink alcohol) and that in the carribean they use it as cleaning agent.. she said 'hmm dont they use it for down there..' i said what u mean.. 'down there' she said with a wry smile and i said oh yeah they do (basically if you drink pineapple your cumm tastes nice for girls to swallow - dirty girl) i thought this girl is very direct sexually im going to escalate the kino and make sex suggestions.. she stops me in my path and says 'you're very confident that you think it's going to happen' in a blunt way.. i sensed i overstepped the mark.. this is where my inexperience came in where i didnt' know how to react.. i kind of back tracked saying wasn't to be presumptuous.. she excused herself to go to the bathroom.
she came back we cont the convo.. i was running out of material.. i should ahve stopped her in her tracks every time she mentioned an ex.. im such a p*ssy i always let it slide not to cause conflict when i should address it there and then.. she goes on to say that she sleeps around.. as in contacts guys she knows 'are you around?' meaning come over for sex.. i thought great.. maybe i might get some if i can weasel my way into that category.. she said she has her 'friends' and guys for 'fun' she doesn't sleep with her friends and the guys she has for fun she can cos she's single..but no one night stands.. i basically agreed with her saying that's fine i wish there were more women who were direct sexually.. i explained to her she has f'ck buddies as she didn't know this terminology but then jokingly i said 'which category do you have me in?' she said ' i dont know yet' with a smile and then laughed and said 'im joking im so bad'.. i felt that was accurate as in i wasn't friendzoned yet nor i was discluded from the 'fun' category.. i tried to make a move on her kissing her neck she let me.. kino'd etc.. she kino'd me back but wouldn't let me kiss her (OCD prob.. messing up her lipstick) she's very strange. i mentioned to her that i hope i get one of those messages you send for guys to come round.
i always already pissed cos i spent $36 dollars already on 2 glasses of champagne and a pineapple juice for myself.. she lives in a rich area and insisted we go here for a drink so i knew it was gona come up to around this much but i was still p1ssed i overspent. during the convo she mentions she never had an orgasm ever and she cant.. i said i could give it a shot and started going into detail with my hands how i'd finger her.. very awkward.. almost not a sexual connotation but more a biology class lesson. anyway when we left she went to get a cab.. she invited me to come in.. i thought 'great maybe im gona get some..' but then when she sat down she said 'but where are you going to?;' this made me deliberate as in i didnt wanna spend anymore cash but in hindsight she lives down the road it wouldn't be more than 5$ i dont know why i just didn't risk it and see if she would invite me in when we got to her place.. i said 'um.. im gona take the train.. over.. hmm..' she said 'well there's a station over there..' i hesistated as what to do and the cabbie was getting pissed and we were holding up traffic.. so she said goodbye to me there and i walked off.
should i have just got in the cab and see whether she'd invite me in.. or was there no chance i'd get some tonight? maybe her anti slvt defense came in to play in the cab.. i just thought she was inviting me in when she said 'get in' or she wanted a free cab.. that was my initial thought. my game is not good enough to handle a woman like this.. she's direct.. but not necessarily being up front in regards to inviting me and i dont think i have the abilities to maneuvre my way back to hers.. when i ran out of material i kind of froze and went silent cos all my special moves were gone i tried everything i had that usually works. i really cant afford to take her out again esp with all her expensive tastes it was def just a whim to see if i could get laid tonight.. i dont know if i can be more direct sexually whens he shot me down initially when i was being presumptuous.. she really caught me out.. sh1t tested me and i failed.. i didn't know how to respond.. i just felt fvck im being too c0cky which turned her off originally and kind of back tracked looking embarassed.
she's easily in top 3 women i ever been on a date with.. bonkers but still some great sex is in store if i can do it somehow. any tips? physical atttraction is there a bit but im not 'hot' like the guys who are prob getting the calls.. im neither rich enough to afford her so im at the end of my wits. should i just be more direct with her sexually or is it probably too late.. im happy to be just one of her fvck buddies.. i def cant afford her and even if i could i wouldnt wanna be her bf.. it's almost like a holy grail.
as most typical women she knows she has a problem but believes someone has to accept her for the way she is not try to change her or try to understand her. she's so direct, the first thing she said to me was 'do you prefer me with panties or not?' when i asked her do i look better in my new glasses or not.. i didn't hear her the first time so she repeated.. i was thinking whoa i might be in luck if she so sexually forward. so later when we got drinks she wanted to move (OCD) fussy thing again so we moved to other side of bar. she asked me what i was drinking i said pineapple juice (i dont drink alcohol) and that in the carribean they use it as cleaning agent.. she said 'hmm dont they use it for down there..' i said what u mean.. 'down there' she said with a wry smile and i said oh yeah they do (basically if you drink pineapple your cumm tastes nice for girls to swallow - dirty girl) i thought this girl is very direct sexually im going to escalate the kino and make sex suggestions.. she stops me in my path and says 'you're very confident that you think it's going to happen' in a blunt way.. i sensed i overstepped the mark.. this is where my inexperience came in where i didnt' know how to react.. i kind of back tracked saying wasn't to be presumptuous.. she excused herself to go to the bathroom.
she came back we cont the convo.. i was running out of material.. i should ahve stopped her in her tracks every time she mentioned an ex.. im such a p*ssy i always let it slide not to cause conflict when i should address it there and then.. she goes on to say that she sleeps around.. as in contacts guys she knows 'are you around?' meaning come over for sex.. i thought great.. maybe i might get some if i can weasel my way into that category.. she said she has her 'friends' and guys for 'fun' she doesn't sleep with her friends and the guys she has for fun she can cos she's single..but no one night stands.. i basically agreed with her saying that's fine i wish there were more women who were direct sexually.. i explained to her she has f'ck buddies as she didn't know this terminology but then jokingly i said 'which category do you have me in?' she said ' i dont know yet' with a smile and then laughed and said 'im joking im so bad'.. i felt that was accurate as in i wasn't friendzoned yet nor i was discluded from the 'fun' category.. i tried to make a move on her kissing her neck she let me.. kino'd etc.. she kino'd me back but wouldn't let me kiss her (OCD prob.. messing up her lipstick) she's very strange. i mentioned to her that i hope i get one of those messages you send for guys to come round.
i always already pissed cos i spent $36 dollars already on 2 glasses of champagne and a pineapple juice for myself.. she lives in a rich area and insisted we go here for a drink so i knew it was gona come up to around this much but i was still p1ssed i overspent. during the convo she mentions she never had an orgasm ever and she cant.. i said i could give it a shot and started going into detail with my hands how i'd finger her.. very awkward.. almost not a sexual connotation but more a biology class lesson. anyway when we left she went to get a cab.. she invited me to come in.. i thought 'great maybe im gona get some..' but then when she sat down she said 'but where are you going to?;' this made me deliberate as in i didnt wanna spend anymore cash but in hindsight she lives down the road it wouldn't be more than 5$ i dont know why i just didn't risk it and see if she would invite me in when we got to her place.. i said 'um.. im gona take the train.. over.. hmm..' she said 'well there's a station over there..' i hesistated as what to do and the cabbie was getting pissed and we were holding up traffic.. so she said goodbye to me there and i walked off.
should i have just got in the cab and see whether she'd invite me in.. or was there no chance i'd get some tonight? maybe her anti slvt defense came in to play in the cab.. i just thought she was inviting me in when she said 'get in' or she wanted a free cab.. that was my initial thought. my game is not good enough to handle a woman like this.. she's direct.. but not necessarily being up front in regards to inviting me and i dont think i have the abilities to maneuvre my way back to hers.. when i ran out of material i kind of froze and went silent cos all my special moves were gone i tried everything i had that usually works. i really cant afford to take her out again esp with all her expensive tastes it was def just a whim to see if i could get laid tonight.. i dont know if i can be more direct sexually whens he shot me down initially when i was being presumptuous.. she really caught me out.. sh1t tested me and i failed.. i didn't know how to respond.. i just felt fvck im being too c0cky which turned her off originally and kind of back tracked looking embarassed.
she's easily in top 3 women i ever been on a date with.. bonkers but still some great sex is in store if i can do it somehow. any tips? physical atttraction is there a bit but im not 'hot' like the guys who are prob getting the calls.. im neither rich enough to afford her so im at the end of my wits. should i just be more direct with her sexually or is it probably too late.. im happy to be just one of her fvck buddies.. i def cant afford her and even if i could i wouldnt wanna be her bf.. it's almost like a holy grail.
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