Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sounds like you have woman who needs constant reassurance. Be careful or she'll start gauging the viability of the relationship by how often you interact. It could cause a lot of maintenance in the long run.
Yea i dunno, ive gone out with a girl like that before, and it was annoying, but this one doesnt seem as extreme, she seems to just be acting like a girl who genuinely likes my company and stuff. Could be wrong i dunno. But i doubt that is the problem. She is cute, very well adjusted and sweet. Nice rack too. Only thing that could stear some guys and i emphasize some, away from her is that shes a tad thick. but i like that sorta thing to a degree and i know many others do. So my pt being that i doubt shed be so desperate for reasurance considering how she looks and shes bubbly so its def not a matter of bein shy. So im sure she has had alot of male attention and expereience in her life. Shes 23 so shes prob just bein an infatuated girl i think.
But still makes me nervous, we met on match.com and i know how girls on there date like crazy, 1 wrong move by me and she could go meet 5 guys. And beleive me from lots of experience on match now, cute girls get bombarded with emails on there.
I suppose i shouldnt be so neurotic, and i know ive said this a couple times before on this board, but this chick is great. I dunno if i should beleive her that she wants to speak to me all the time, or if its a shyt test as someone above posted.
I mean im actualyl really busy lately, i work, take classes, im studying all the time, occasiaonllyl out wit firends when i have time, and with the holidays and all, it would seem its almsot impossible for me to come across as a wussy needy guy callin her all the time, but i never trust girls anymore. Anytime i show them i like them they seem to wanna end it immediately. So not sure if i should call the day after seeing her or wait a couple days and let her contact me. Dont wanna overkill it.
I always find it funny how girls can call u 30 times in a week, yet if u call them a few times, they get turned off. its like u cant win. Like im really enjoying her comapny and calls and all that, yet if i try and give back to her and call it could repulse her. ill never get it.