I'm 5-6/10 in looks and I usually bang 7-9/10 girls. But of course if you operate such concept as SMV you wouldn't believe me or any other guy who claiming the same thing. BTW I'm from Russia so by 8 and 9/10 girls I don't mean some models whose beauty is artificially create by make-up and clothing, for me looks scale is about physical beauty so most girls I bang are students from uni.
Cold approach is 90% about a girl herself. Most girls you will approach just not interested in anyone they could meet randomly on the street. Even if you are 10/10 in looks and millionaire you wouldn't get laid with majority of girls you could meet from cold approach. So it isn't about being "pre-selected" it is about meeting DTF girls because most of them are just time wasters. Also about "black dudes" - there is SnowPlowman
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/members/snow-plowman.29744/ guy who posted a lot on this forum and he got great results with white women.
Why someone sane would accuse you of trying to rape them for giving them an option to go home with you? You aren't convincing her, you are not asking her, you are just giving her a choice and you are completely fine if she isn't interested. There is zero disrespect in it. Have you watched Jack Manley videos? What he doing is much more extreme and could be considered as "sexual harassment" by some people, but there never were any complaints about him. But another guy who just helped some fat woman to fix her car was accused
https://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/news/article.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=12229800. Most women who falsely accuse someone are unattractive and it makes them feel great when people believe what someone was interested in them to the point of harassing them. If you only approach really hot women and talk to them less than 2 minutes in case they aren't interested then there is literally zero chances to be accused of something. You are more likely to be accused if you use very indirect game when it isn't obvious to a girl what you want to have sex with her.