Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Article For the Bootcampers = Yall mite have already read this - but ill post it any way...a lil piece of my mind!
no, i hadn't read it...but awesome post. you should post that in tips
but yeah, i think your bootcamp is a bit fast paced, but i'm liking the challenge. so, i squeezed in 3 approaches today...but two were on girls i'd already approached. i didn't sleep last night and that may have been a factor for my sh!tty approaches.
approach1 (same hb8 i'd approached 3rd on my first day...who was older than me)
again i notice her sitting by herself reading something. i go up, say "hey" she recognized me, and greets me "heyy" i mostly didn't say much because she was studying. but, i did ask her name...because last time, i remember i didn't actually ask her name...she asked mine though. i feel like i was rude about that...and i don't think she's much interested anymore.
but, before she left to take her test, i said
me: what are you doing tomorrow after class? ...do you wanna have lunch?
her: hm...(thought for a few seconds, and said...) ok, sure, i'll probably see you around here after class
despite her seeming interested that first day, i doubt she is anymore. she didn't smile or anything. eh, i'll give it a go anyway, atleast i'll have some company for lunch, if nothing else, some good social proof.
approach2 hb blonde, 8
i was walking down some stairs and she is with her back to me, unlocking her bike from the rack. i passed her by slightly, turned around and said "hey" i was so tired today, i don't even remember what i said. something like this i guess...
me: do you ride bike? (yes, i even said it in choppy english like that, that i do remember)
her: yes
me: that's good, i can see you're in shape (clearly checking her out in the tight biker shorts...she had a really hot body)
i noticed she doesn't speak english very well, and didn't seem interested anyway.
me: yeah...that's good, excercise is good (i am such a gawking idiot)...oh, did you hear lance armstrong won his 7th tour de france?
her: who?
me: lance armstrong
her: i'm sorry...i don't know who you are talking about
me: what? you don't know lance armstrong?
i swear she was even wearing a yellow strength bracelet. but she seemed like a foreigner, her english was terrible to understand. so i explained who lance armstrong is, and she said "thanks, that's nice to know" and smiled. i just left.
approach3 (same hb8 shy girl from day1)
me: hey
her: heyy
(seemed more relaxed that she recognized me)
i've seen her a lot, and she's always by her damn self too. so we fluff talk about school...and i ask what she's doing for break. she's going on a trip. i would have asked if she'd like to hang out or something, but didn't because she won't be here. eh, who cares. then i parted and left. i felt really tired today, and still am. i gotta catch some zzzs.
i got in a bunch of hi's like 15-16. just trying to do approaches, despite being tired, made me feel kind of more energized.
...so, thanks for the boost.
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