hey Shezzler,
i'll definitely do this, except, the 50-100 greetings are a bit crazy. imo, i don't have any confidence issues, so greeting lots of people wouldn't really help or hurt my confidence level. besides that, i don't even see
that many people in a day. that's one of the advantages you have, living in a bigger city.
and really fear of approaching is not an issue. actually, since getting over the fear, i began to feel there was no point to approaching. i started taking opportunities that just came by, and one or two girls approached me; i got one or two makeout sessions, but they were hb5-6s at best. so i've realized i need to sarge (put in effort) to do better, and i can do better.
i like some of the ideas you put though. what i really want is to get some decent or better looking fvck buddies, and have fun all the while.
i like the idea of purposely approaching a girl with a bf...that sounds like fun.
so count me in too. but forget the greetings...i don't have the time or available population for that. for the most part i'll be doing approaches, and whatever other crazy things are suggested :woo:
i actually got your PM last night...and i thought you were joking about 'your bootcamp' but thought i'd just do approaches anyway. what the heck. i did two today, and here they are:
approach1, hb7:
girl was walking towards me, in opposite direction. i made eyecontact, and she held it for a few seconds actually, and smiled. so i smiled back, and said "hey" then snapped my fingers to stop her. i know, kind of corny. anyway, i said...
me: hey, to be honest with you...i hate letting opportunities pass me by...i was interested in getting to know you, you know, if you have time today...(sorry, that's all i could come up with on the fly)
she was smiling and making heavy eyecontact, but i knew why...and she said "sorry, but i have a boyfriend." then she said, "but that was nice, thanks"
approach2, hb8:
at wendys, eating lunch with my friend, the girl is sitting behind our table...i couldn't see her at first, but my friend says she's cute. so as we're leaving, i approach in a friendly manner, and say "hey"
she smiled, and i say "are you here by yourself." she says "yeah." so i asked, "what's your name" and she tells me, so then i introduce myself, and we shake hands. then i ask, "are you single?" and she blushes, and says, "sorry, i have a bf." so i smile and say "that's too bad, take it easy then." and leave.
i didn't have much time for either of these approaches...otherwise they're not usually crap. although, i admit i may be a bit rusty (used to be pretty smooth), so i guess i'll read all those articles, and see if i can add some finesse to my game.
good luck to everyone else.