thanx for that... but...
Originally posted by sapphire
It usually is the result of self esteem issues and being burned in the past that accounts for such flakey behavior. Or perhaps she has not decided that she likes you enough to commit and is therefore giving you just enough attention to keep you around until she decides. The latter usually means she is evaluating other prospects.
However, it is not fair for you to wait for her and miss out on other opportunities. You should put her on the back burner for now and pursue other prospects.
You might be right... but the thing is, is that i know this girl really really well... and i KNOW that she isnt interested in anyone else, nor would she WANT to for the simple reason that she has always liked me, and now that we are "togeather" she is more than happy.... and when i suggested we seperate when we had a fight a while back she cried for 2 days straight, eventhough i sorted it out with her about 1 hours afterwards, thats how hurt she was by just the idea of "loosing me"... so its not about that, but good thinking, in many cases this would be true, but not in mine
And me and her do exactly what we WOULD do if we were "official" so i'm not really loosing out on anything, so its not really bothering me that much, eventhough i WOULD prefer to make it official, its not the end of the world if we arent for the moment
And with my situation, its not just a fling, its something alot more serious and "real".. so i think that being with other girls isnt really an option for me, not because of her, but also because of my feelings for this girl
Well anyways.. thanx for the replies...
Laterz...