My goodness. This is starting to get ridiculous. You two are arguing like an old married couple and haven't even met each other in person/had a date yet.
Are you blind? Don't you see what she's saying through her responses to you?
You asked her if she's cleared a time for you two to meet up and have fun,then she asked you,"What kind of fun?". She asked you that TWICE. She's doing exactly what she said to you....beng cautious. She asked you what kind of fun,and you didn't answer her directly. You should have said something like go to a mall and walk around,or play a game or two of bowling. Anything where the two of you will be out in public around other people where she'll feel safe.
Certainly you know that when she asked you what kind of fun,she meant something sexual,don't you?
A...C...S
Attraction,comfort,seduction.
You have the attraction,but you're skipping the comfort part.
She doesn't feel comfortable enough with you to be alone with you yet. Can't you see that? What did you think she was going to do? Show up at a complete stranger's house all alone and vunerable where she could possibly get assaulted or even worse? You've been here long enough to know better.
You shouldn't have said ANYTHING about watching movies at you house.
Then that talk about massaging her while she's topless. Yeah...EVEN IF SHE BROUGHT THAT UP,you should have been the MAN and lead.
Is this thing with her salvageable? Hey,I don't know,but I do know this:If she thinks you're ignoring her on purpose,then she knows that she's gotten to you emotionally. She knows you're hurt or angry,and that's NOT good,considering you've yet to meet each other.
You just made things worse.
If she wasn't willing to meet up with you before because of a lack of comfort,you think she'll meet up with you now? Alone? Knowing you're angry/upset?
I highly doubt it.
Although you meant well,ignoring her was a mistake. All you did was show your anger/frustration. You just added more work to your load. First,all you had to do was deal with her not being comfortable with you. Now,you have that,plus the fact she knows you're upset at her.
Sorry,but she's NOT going to met up with alone with some guy she doesn't know who she knows is upset with her. No woman in their right mind would.
I'm only one person,and that's my opinion. Maybe some of the other members have some advice that'll help you win her over.
Good luck.