About 6 weeks ago i get a break up TEXT, yes TEXT from my gf telling me that she feels empty inside and that she's frustrated that we are still working our relationship while other relationships have flourished. She says she will always have love for me and wished me good luck....classy, huh!!
So over the Thanksgiving holiday just about 4 weeks after the break up text, I get another text wishing me and my family a happy holiday...I sat on it for over an hour, I wished her a happy holiday back and left it alone. I shouldn't have and i actually regret doing it now, but it ended there and no more contact was made.
Finally, this evening i get a random "shout out" She texts me this:
"How are you? Im curious and nosey...and even if we aren't close friends...were still neighbors! How are you?"
(we live about 3 miles apart, not really "neighbors" but you get the idea)
Anyway, what gives? First i make her feel empty inside, now you care how I am and still want to keep contact with me? What is this girl doing? I have not responded back. I think a lot of this reaching out now is guilt from how she ended it, so she's trying to make it like its not really over?!?! Help me out here guys!
Thanks
BigNick
So over the Thanksgiving holiday just about 4 weeks after the break up text, I get another text wishing me and my family a happy holiday...I sat on it for over an hour, I wished her a happy holiday back and left it alone. I shouldn't have and i actually regret doing it now, but it ended there and no more contact was made.
Finally, this evening i get a random "shout out" She texts me this:
"How are you? Im curious and nosey...and even if we aren't close friends...were still neighbors! How are you?"
(we live about 3 miles apart, not really "neighbors" but you get the idea)
Anyway, what gives? First i make her feel empty inside, now you care how I am and still want to keep contact with me? What is this girl doing? I have not responded back. I think a lot of this reaching out now is guilt from how she ended it, so she's trying to make it like its not really over?!?! Help me out here guys!
Thanks
BigNick