Met this woman at a worksite. I went in and was flawless, dude. I asked her the right questions to open up. I flexed my alpha strength, I was dominant, no compliments, was teasing etc. Told her she was cool and I wanted to add her to facebook. (I didn't add her, and still haven't)
Next day I had her give me her number.
"So I couldn't find you on facebook, you got one of those weird names"
(Laughs, oh my name is weird?!) (Eyes dilated, giddy, smiling, eye contact)
"here, let's try this. (Puts number in my phone)
"Cool. I will be in touch. (Didn't text her)
Next day she texts ME first. So we have a fun conversation, I do not compliment her or anything, I put her in my frame, tease her, she is laughing, etc.
I respond back to her last message.(Hours later) Then nothing back from her. She just stopped. It's been three days.
I am NOT sending her anything, no way. She will not get a "hey", "whats upp", "how is your vacation" etc. Because that will show weakness.
I know for a fact she has her phone and is on it, every 23 year old woman is. No doubt she saw my last reply to our conversation.
Could be several things.
She is with family. (Thanksgiving break)
She is testing me
She doesn't give a !@#$ (Which she has no reason to)
I did everything right. I was not one of these guys who asked for her number. I didn't give her compliments. I didn't lavish her. She text me first, she willingly put her number in my phone.
So, I need an interpretation here. What's your experience?
I'm learning dude.
It didn't ask for a response. It was a follow up to her comment. Could just be waiting on me to ask her out, idk.
I figure if she is really into me, she would at least initiate conversation. But being the male, I have to lead Her. I'll just ask her out in a day. Get to the point otherwise move on.
Screw it, I have nothing to loose.
First of all, I can feel your pain. I get the sense that you feel hurt, and you are definitely confused about what you should do.
I am here for you, bro.
You say you are learning...which you are.
Some of these guys on here can learn too, from your experience.
Your situation is a learning experience for everyone...and the lesson learned here is simple...your situation is exactly why...
It is IMPORTANT TO HAVE A ROTATION!!!
The is a
text book example of why you should
always have a
revolving door of some women coming in, and some going out.
Why?
Because of situations like this.
Think about it this way, if you already had 4-5 girls in your rotation (girls you are sleeping and vibing with), do you think you will feel this way about ONE particular chick?
No, you probably wouldn't.
But if this is the only chick in your basket and you lose her, you will feel the way that you feel because you are living a life of
scarcity, instead of abundance.
Example: If you have $800 in your possession, and you lose $100. Sure, it may sting a little but you still have $700 left, so you aint tripping to tough.
But if you only have $100 in your possession, and you lose this single $100 bill, then the way you are effected with this loss is wayyy more significant than in the first case.
That is the difference between having a scarcity mindset, and an abundance mindset.
That is also why you must keep the rotation going...go out cold approaching and approach at least one woman per day.
If you do that, you will never be in this situation again.
Trust me.