johndoe123
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I know that posts concerning 1 specific girl are frowned upon here and dismissed as ONEITIS, but I still really need some advice on what to do here:
there's this cute girl i've kinda-sorta known through mutual friends the last few months. i've run into her once every few weeks, just a quick hug and a quick hello and small talk. I sent her an email a few months ago, casual, and she never replied, so i shrugged it off and moved on.
But I saw her at again bar last week, and i thought she was giving me buying signals so i got her number. called it two days later and left a very short voicemail ("hey, its xxxxxxx, give me a call... xxx-xxxx-xxx)
anyways she hasn't returned my call. i suspect this is either a test OR she only gave me the phone number (and buying signals that night) to spark some jealousy in her date. (Note, however, her date was out-of-eyesight when she gave me the number, indicating to me she genuinely was interested).
Anyways, we have too many mutual friends to avoid running into each other for too long. Next time I see her, how do I react? It seems if I just ignore it and greet her as usuall (hug and small talk), she'll think "i can ignore this guys' voicemails and emails and he'll STILL be nice to me, what a chump". Whereas if I call her out on it next time I see her, it will appear immature and childish.
What does a Don Juan do in this kind of situation?
there's this cute girl i've kinda-sorta known through mutual friends the last few months. i've run into her once every few weeks, just a quick hug and a quick hello and small talk. I sent her an email a few months ago, casual, and she never replied, so i shrugged it off and moved on.
But I saw her at again bar last week, and i thought she was giving me buying signals so i got her number. called it two days later and left a very short voicemail ("hey, its xxxxxxx, give me a call... xxx-xxxx-xxx)
anyways she hasn't returned my call. i suspect this is either a test OR she only gave me the phone number (and buying signals that night) to spark some jealousy in her date. (Note, however, her date was out-of-eyesight when she gave me the number, indicating to me she genuinely was interested).
Anyways, we have too many mutual friends to avoid running into each other for too long. Next time I see her, how do I react? It seems if I just ignore it and greet her as usuall (hug and small talk), she'll think "i can ignore this guys' voicemails and emails and he'll STILL be nice to me, what a chump". Whereas if I call her out on it next time I see her, it will appear immature and childish.
What does a Don Juan do in this kind of situation?