She has a crazy ex

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I met this chick once and we made out.
We where supposed to meet today and then she sends me this telling me she can’t make it today.
How would you respond?
I don’t really care since we only met once but these women are crazy.
I hate unreliable people.
She’s young and looks very good though
 

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If you can't handle crazy, don't get involved with crazy. Especially when you think you can handle crazy. Just don't. It's rarely worth it.
 

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I met this chick once and we made out.
We where supposed to meet today and then she sends me this telling me she can’t make it today.
How would you respond?
I don’t really care since we only met once but these women are crazy.
I hate unreliable people.
She’s young and looks very good though
Possibilities:

1. The vase might have been broken by accident and she used it as an excuse to not meet with you.

2. She intentionally broke the vase to make this excuse to not meet up with you.

3. Her ex did break it. Indicative of the guys she dated in the past.

Either way it is bad news for you.

My advice will be not to engage with her even if she comes to you.
 

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It's simply a BS excuse. Notice how she never asked to reschedule the date.

She flaked on you but made it sound good...she expects you to understand she isn't interested.

It's happened to me a bunch of times in the past. Some weird, stupid excuse out of the blue. All of them were simply ways of her saying she isn't interested.
 

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I met this chick once and we made out.
We where supposed to meet today and then she sends me this telling me she can’t make it today.
How would you respond?
I don’t really care since we only met once but these women are crazy.
I hate unreliable people.
She’s young and looks very good though
This lacks context.

Did she tell you couldn't make it and THEN sent you this? Or did she just send you this for you to put 2 and 2 together so that she couldn't make it?

A crazy ex is a red flag, a crazy girl pretending she has an ex to avoid seeing you is a redder flag. If you want to keep this going I would just show some sympathy and look to reschedule. She'll either show up, flake again, or decline to reschedule.
 

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Eject.

1. still in touch ( pun intended) with her ex. What was he was doing there? This alone can be an entire book.
2. No counter offer. This is what we call a soft next
3. It's a silent threat. She basically warns you that her ex won't think twice to use violence.
4. Ofcourse it tells something about her. Needless to say imo. She loves drama

You say she is crazy unreliable but yet she is also " young and fine". Personally I don't care if its the hottest woman on earth ,I'm out. Heck, the hotter she is the more reluctant I'll be when the well-known " crazy ex" appears. The easiest way for a ( desperate) man to regain some dominance back is by fighting other men. He'll use you as a pawn in his imagery chess game.
 
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I won't respond to that message, and will let her go. Unless she reaches out to me again, in which case I would arrange a meeting and proceed to plan (but never take things seriously with her).
 

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Eject.

1. still in touch ( pun intended) with her ex. What was he was doing there? This alone can be an entire book.
2. No counter offer. This is what we call a soft next
3. It's a silent threat. She basically warns you that her ex won't think twice to use violence.
4. Ofcourse it tells something about her. Needless to say imo. She loves drama

You say she is crazy unreliable but yet she is also " young and fine". Personally I don't care if its the hottest woman on earth ,I'm out. Heck, the hotter she is the more reluctant I'll be when the well-known " crazy ex" appears. The easiest way for a ( desperate) man to regain some dominance back is by fighting other men. He'll use you as a pawn in his imagery chess game.
I generally agree with you, but in todays society, its not a viable advice.

See my responses below.

1. still in touch ( pun intended) with her ex. What was he was doing there? This alone can be an entire book: Women always have somebody, they're never alone, either an ex or multiple orbiters, but they're always fvcking with somebody.

2. No counter offer. This is what we call a soft next: This is the only advice that matters.

3. It's a silent threat. She basically warns you that her ex won't think twice to use violence: A call to the cops is 5 secs away, also, nobody vies you the guarantee that some other ex, will do something with a different woman, that's very rare these days.

4. 4. Ofcourse it tells something about her. Needless to say imo. She loves drama: AWALT (All Women Are Like That), all women love drama, its in their DNA, men fail to realize this and they end up in dead bedrooms. The trick is to give her good drama.
 
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