Get Call Backs
U WAITED WAY TOO LONG TO CALL HER BACK........U call and get voicemail........do U leave a message or hang up and text or call back?
LETS GO BACK IN TIME A BIT.............if you extracted the number using a time compressed speed seduction method, that action alone increased your flake factor by 4. Solid digit extraction occur right after the rapport stage.
Allowing 3 MONTHS to pass is a bit much. Other factors include: PEOPLE (especially women) dont usually answer UNKNOWN CALLERS.
A simple text message informing her to answer her phone is a good lead in, to gettting a live person. Make sure to personalize it with a bit of playful teasing.
Women don't usually call strangers back, they enjoy being chased, trying to alter that fact is difficult.
So whats left is voicemail.... are there tactics to increase your odds of being called back,.,,,,,,,,,YOU BET. bUT BEFORE WE GET TO THAT, YOU Gotta pay attention to the outside variables that influence being called back.
1) TIMING: timing is essential. You do not want to call too late or too early in the day. Your goal is to talk to the person not a piece of technology. Most people work from 9-5pm M-F and eat dinner between 5-7 PM; 8:00 PM should work. Weekends and Holidays are a difficult time as most people are busy.
2) YOUR INITIAL IMPRESSION-how you made her feel in the initial number extraction, did u make her laugh, did she seem genuinely interested. The key here is to make yourself memorable so she will recall you when you talk to her, this also increases your odds. Hello, this is Jim from the Internet, my number is 555-1212, is NOT VERY INTERESTING.
3) IDENTIFY YOURSELF-start with her first name, then state your name, include your phone number at the beginning and lastly where you met.
4)) INCORPORATE-something from their profile, a cute little pet name/tease, anything humorous/silly. Remind her why she gave you her number in the first place. Capture her attention early on. Is this the Mary Poppins chic who is all talk. Sound effects also increase your call back ratio dramatically. U can re-direct her to youtube, etc.
5) STATE YOUR PURPOSE-even though you got her voicemail your actions should proceed as if you are talking to her. Give her options and specify the day but leave the exact time/location details for a live conversation.
6) CONTACT # - be sure to leave a number where you can be reached at & the best time to call as this cuts down on phone tag. Speak slowly and clearly when leaving your number.
so those are the factors now what about the tactics to get a call back, glad you asked, ready.........here we go........
FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE EVERYTHING-once you leave a message, you cannot go back and change it. Make sure your message is concise, exudes confidence, and to the point. Don't just wing it, have some idea of what you are going to say, smile when you speak, be cheerful, it puts you in the right frame of mind. You HAVE TO GIVE HER A REASON TO CALL YOU BACK, so make sure you have a plan. Here is a few examples of how to influence your odds of getting a call back;
THE MISTAKE-this is where you leave THEIR number to call you back (assuming they have caller ID…..or leave an additional work number). She will call you back informing you that you left her number by mistake. You can also leave a partial message that sounds cut off right at the crucial moment.
TRIVIA QUESTION: you leave them with a cliff-hanger, trivia question, guess what I heard, etc so that they must call you back to hear the answer/punch-line/outcome.
CONGRADULATIONS YOU JUST WON: again (keeping with the humorous theme) you want to stand out from the norm. Informing them they just won or asking where can you send the check. Call back for this time sensitive matter, etc.
FOLLOW UP CALL-some people leave one message and think their work is done, this is not realistic (see techno glitch). 100% of the women you do not call will not call you back. Call back a day or two later…still no answer THEN move on.
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