She dodged. You do .. what?

[backbreaker]

2 things...

First and foremost, the fact that you had the balls to go in for a kiss is great.. Bottom line.. she isn't feeling you, you probably didn't misjudge anything.. she did you a favor.. just move on, you saved times and a possible LJBF... Hey, it happens.


Second, any woman that I take on a date, is going to get a kiss, or at least an attempt.. **** trying to judge her "intentiveness".. she's not dumb, she knows why I invited her on date'

"yeah babe, I really, ,really need a new monopoly partner, and I think you would be perfect"

lol, I remember one time when I had this chick at a bar, ,and I invited her back to my house for drinks (even though we were at a bar) and she came... So we get on the couch, and 5 mintues later I am giving her a massage, and 10 mintues latter I am on her neck, and she says "what are you doing"

and I say "like you didn't know why I wanted you to come back here, don't play dumb"

And she grinned and said "yeah, that's a good point...okay, keep going"



As a matter of fact, the reason she probably put you in that position in the first place is probaby because you forgot why you were on the date in the first place.

Sometimes, with all of this technical mumbo jumbo, one seems to forget that you want some ASS...

So the entire date, not just the "kiss" should be about letting her know you are a sexual person.. You just can't go to a moive, don't hold hands/kiss or anything, go out to eat, and then expect her to be sexual with you later, no matter how many neg hits or how ****y/Funny you are....

Grab her ass, grab her.. Do SOMETHING..

and I am not just talking to you, but that seems to be a missing point.

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

I learned the hard way here

I had a similar situation a few weeks ago. Went in for the kiss, girl dodged. End of Story. NEXT HER! That's what I did, no point continuing.

I may get flamed, but if I was you, I would have just walked out. If she was with me and needed me for a ride back, then TOUGH. Call a cab. This would show her you don't tolerate BS.

Sorry if this sounds mean and classless, but I've been kiss dodged all my life. And it pisses me off to no end each time it happens.

 

[backbreaker]

Originally posted by donjuanapprentice01
I learned the hard way here

I had a similar situation a few weeks ago. Went in for the kiss, girl dodged. End of Story. NEXT HER! That's what I did, no point continuing.

I may get flamed, but if I was you, I would have just walked out. If she was with me and needed me for a ride back, then TOUGH. Call a cab. This would show her you don't tolerate BS.

Sorry if this sounds mean and classless, but I've been kiss dodged all my life. And it pisses me off to no end each time it happens.

oh my gosh you get it!


**** being rude... rude is going on a date with a guy who you KNOW wants to get in your pants, and you lead him on just to soak him for more attention/money/whatever the hell else you want from him... oh, but we are rude if we want sex...

**** that...

That's why I make it known what my i nterests are on dates... If you don't like it or if we are not on the same page, we can call this off and I can go get some ass somewhere else, beause I won't be lead on.

 

[Gonzalo]

It's pretty simple, and I hate to oversimplify, but: What would James Bond do?

Think Sean Connery in "Goldfinger". Pvssy Galore rejects his advance (and points a gun at him), and he just give a sly smile and a ****y comment, like it's her loss...

No need to lose your cool. She just DODGED at a kiss, for chrissake. She should be uncomfortable, not you.

 

[AmIAFC]

Question: What if she's a smoker and says her breath smells like smoke before reluctantly giving you a kiss?

 

[xblitz44x]

Originally posted by BrotherAP
It's just that his view, and so many others who constantly advocate nexting a girl seem to do it based on emotional reasons and not logical reasons. In other words, they're not nexting a girl because she obviously doesn't like them, they're nexting a girl because they take it as an insult to their pride that she was busy a certain night and think they're getting revenge by nexting her.

I just want to clarify:

I never said to NEXT her because of 'emotional reasons'. In fact, I never said to NEXT her at all. I said that if a girl dodges, for whatever reason, it's better to play it cool than it is to try to NEG her to make her feel insecure to 'level the playing field'. THAT, to me, sounds more like getting revenge than it does to play it cool and continue as you were.

Hell, "game her" all night for all I care. I recommend making the best of it and having fun; make a friend.

You guys are still under the impression that you have to execute some formula for a girl to fall for you. Be polite, and fun. Be YOU. Free yourself from both the rules of what you thought you had to do as an AFC, and the rules that you think you have to do now as a "PUA" and just be full, uninhibited YOU.

 

[&UWlNoMeByThTrlOPusy]

mostly agreeing w equity pirate dude here, this is what i did after a chick invited me up for toast(!) and i went for a kiss (too soon probably, not enough kino or she is a AW or it was because i had been dating her best friend up til the day before) and she dodged.

(laughingly) 'No? Whatever, don't worry...' (shoulder touch, walk away and sit down). guess I'll have a cigarette instead.'

i hung out with her for the rest of the evenin but i backed off romantically completely.

maybe i could've played it different, but i think i showed confidence and maturity and a don't give a crap attitude attitude towards her (things girls respon to) and took back a certain amount of power by pickin up on her discomfort and reassuring her, reversin who was in control.

what i definitly regret is that i later apologized for going for the kiss, a stupid drunk mistake that gave her the power back

back to the originl situ, personally that would be an immediate next, and she would have to do a lot of chasing to get me back. but if i liked em enough i ljbf them.