PHAT Rabbit said:
First off...texting to setup a date doesn't make a guy look like a chicken. That's horse shlt nonsense. You can dominate the shlt out of a girl through text. I just think you have no idea what you're talking about with text or you just never had success with it so you scrapped the whole idea.
"Dominate the sh*t out of a girl through text" - LoL, and WTF does that even mean?!? Are you texting stuff like "Yeah, b*tch, I'm the man, now come over here and take this date!" :crackup:
Anyway... what I'm advising is based on my own years of dating. Yes, I've gotten dates with girls by texting them; however, I find I have MORE success getting dates when I call them up or ask them in person.
More importantly though - and I stress this part all the time - when a guy first meets a girl, excessive texting puts him at a disadvantage. Any girls I've texted to get dates are with girls I've already been seeing for a while, so their like in me is established. If you don't have that time built in, texting her, especially how most of these guys are doing it where they're texting her all the time (i.e beyond just asking for a date), isn't going to build up her interest; and, over time, it will actually cause her interest to be lowered.
PHAT Rabbit said:
Next, you can't fvck a phone number. What I'm saying is that...the whole point of getting contact information is to meetup later. Don't try to act like you're going to somehow magically make a girl love you for calling her on the phone a couple times - that's retarded.
I'm not advocating talking on the phone any more than I advocate texting. Real talk, unless I'm setting up a date with a chick, I don't do either one - that's right, people, I don't call girls up just to chat with them, or ask them how their date was, etc. For the most part, I stay off the phone - calling/texting them all the time makes me look too available.
Now, with that said... if the girl wants to text me or call me, I'll certainly pick up or send them a message back - and I find most girls are willing to do this. Why?
BECAUSE THEY HAVE HIGH INTEREST IN ME. And I don't pick up the phone or respond back right away all the time, so when I DO answer their incoming call/text, they're actually HAPPY and EXCITED to hear from me. Versus if I did it the other way - calling/texting them all the time - where they'd be like "OMG, another call/text? Doesn't he have other things to do besides wait for me to contact him?!?"