theapprentice
Don Juan
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Well last week there was this girl that was waiting at the bus stop and we talked and we laughed and we had some good conversation. I got her number, it was sort of in a AFC'ish way, I was scared but I kept face and I got it. I told her I would call her.
I got busy over the weekend, I got her number on wed, I got busy and I couldnt call her on the weekend.
I see her monday on the bus stop and I see her and walk over to say hi and I say "Hi remember me!" with a nice smile. She kind of looked my way and just nodded and proceeded to just wait next to the sign for a few seconds and just get on to the bus. She was just standing and I said Hi, and her body language told me to "get lost" and it was wierd since we talked alot the last time.
I felt bad for a while, and I really dont care about what her reasons where, a rejection is a rejection. I erased her number, I dont need it anymore I guess.
ITs just that rejection is so hard for me to take, it actaully hurts inside, that you tried your best at talking to a girl, and she snubs you down. It takes a while before you bring your confidence back up. Everytime you get rejected its like a rollercoaster ride that you never asked to be on.
How well do you guys take rejection? I take it pretty hard. I mean I try to reason it out, and I have gotten much better, I havent thought about it at all except to write this post. Yet at the time it still makes you feel bad and I dont like feeling bad, I would rather get rejected and not feel anything at all.
I gues feeling bad is a part of rejection right?
I got busy over the weekend, I got her number on wed, I got busy and I couldnt call her on the weekend.
I see her monday on the bus stop and I see her and walk over to say hi and I say "Hi remember me!" with a nice smile. She kind of looked my way and just nodded and proceeded to just wait next to the sign for a few seconds and just get on to the bus. She was just standing and I said Hi, and her body language told me to "get lost" and it was wierd since we talked alot the last time.
I felt bad for a while, and I really dont care about what her reasons where, a rejection is a rejection. I erased her number, I dont need it anymore I guess.
ITs just that rejection is so hard for me to take, it actaully hurts inside, that you tried your best at talking to a girl, and she snubs you down. It takes a while before you bring your confidence back up. Everytime you get rejected its like a rollercoaster ride that you never asked to be on.
How well do you guys take rejection? I take it pretty hard. I mean I try to reason it out, and I have gotten much better, I havent thought about it at all except to write this post. Yet at the time it still makes you feel bad and I dont like feeling bad, I would rather get rejected and not feel anything at all.
I gues feeling bad is a part of rejection right?