Sh1t test vs Low interest? How to differentiate?

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I'm not talking s1ht tests in context of conversation where she is attempting to test your frame. I'm talking more about playing hard to get or purposely appearing difficult to schedule dates.

Anyone have any specific guidelines in how to decipher between the two? Obviously if you have so many plates you wouldnt care, but it be nice to know if I were to try a bit harder, I could land a plate by overcoming her sh1t test rather than just moving on to new plate.
 

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Laugh it off and then withdraw attention. If it was a shyte test, you will hear back from her.

If its low interest, you wont.
Wouldn't that be how you fail a sh1t test? By withdrawing attention?... I thought the whole point of a s1ht test is to examine your persistence and mantle.
 

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I'm not talking s1ht tests in context of conversation where she is attempting to test your frame. I'm talking more about playing hard to get or purposely appearing difficult to schedule dates.

Anyone have any specific guidelines in how to decipher between the two? Obviously if you have so many plates you wouldnt care, but it be nice to know if I were to try a bit harder, I could land a plate by overcoming her sh1t test rather than just moving on to new plate.
Women dont play hard to get with guys they are really interested in. They wouldnt take the chance another women would snatch them up before they could.

If this is happening to you be assured you are not her first option. Keep her on the backburner and go find more women who you ARE the first option for.

Its never worth the time or effort to attempt to increase a woman's interest level. Its a far better use of resources to simply go find other women who already have a high interest level.
 

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Its never worth the time or effort to attempt to increase a woman's interest level. Its a far better use of resources to simply go find other women who already have a high interest level.
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Stop contacting the girl for two weeks.

If her interest is high some girls will reach out to you and try to schedule a date. Other girls will just wonder why you dropped off.

When you finally reach out to her she will be excited and in a rush to plan something. If not, her interest is low and you should move on.
 

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a few things to remember to make life easier

always assume interest (assume the sale) assume that women are attracted to you by default. you are a man she is a woman. so why wouldnt they be?
assume everything is a shlt test. when in doubt, just treat it like a shlt test and respond accordingly
if a woman wants to fvck you, she will find a way to fvck you. i know this is repeated often, but even my past experiences prove this to be true. ive had sex with women under less than the most ideal of....codnitions. or as i like to say "penis in vagina" there is no barometer for interest level. when a girl digs you, its less about what more you can do to get the poon and simply more about not messing up and killing the vibe and her perception of you.

lastly. experience
the more experience you get with women, the more honed your ability to differentiate between low interest and shlt tests will be. shlt, even now you should instinctively know when a girl is at least curious about you and when shes just respodning to you out of politeness. in person, theres all kinds of cues that tell you where you stand. body language, tone of voice, facial expressions etc. through text, it comes down to the individual. some girls are big on texting and enjoy a witty back and forth before you get them comfortable enough to meet up with you. some not so much but will link up with you anyway. shlt tests should be or will become apparent.

other than that, theres nothing really a girl can do to convince you shes playing the game to seduce you other than teasing. when a girl teases me back, its a sign to me that my game is working on her. otherwise, tlts, ass and face is all guys care about initially.

women dont play hard to get with men they wanna fvck.

but what do i know. im day drunk and im nuts
Can you explain this a little more in depth? I understand that women dont play hard to get with guys they want to fvck. That being said, any indication of low interest should always be taken as low interest and not a s1ht test? If Im her #1 option, I should not encounter any s1ht tests correct?
 

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Stop contacting the girl for two weeks.

If her interest is high some girls will reach out to you and try to schedule a date. Other girls will just wonder why you dropped off.

When you finally reach out to her she will be excited and in a rush to plan something. If not, her interest is low and you should move on.
If she is being difficult scheduling dates you can almost guarantee her interest level is not high and OP should read my post above. Stop wasting time with less than high interest women.
 

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Wouldn't that be how you fail a sh1t test? By withdrawing attention?... I thought the whole point of a s1ht test is to examine your persistence and mantle.
Persistence? Uh no...........if you are good with women you do not chase them or keep trying to qualify yourself as good enough for them. Its actually the opposite, and if you have options, you will not succumb to their shyte tests and will just go hit up other chicks who make it easy,

If a woman throws you an intentional shyte test, it is to see if you will become needy, insecure, angry, etc. She is basically trying to get the worst characteristics out of you early on so she wont waste time (standard 3-6 months) to figure it out later. Thats my opinion.

So laugh it off, withdraw attention and hit up other chicks. She either comes back or she doesnt. By not caving in and showing those negative qualities that she is fishing for, you win.
 

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It's funny because the women I semi avoid / the ones that struggle to lock me down for dates... my interest is so low or I'd be all over it. For women it must be exactly the same, keeping options open. You persuade her come out with you and the slightest foot out of place you're done for. Not worth it.
 

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I'm not talking s1ht tests in context of conversation where she is attempting to test your frame. I'm talking more about playing hard to get or purposely appearing difficult to schedule dates.

Anyone have any specific guidelines in how to decipher between the two? Obviously if you have so many plates you wouldnt care, but it be nice to know if I were to try a bit harder, I could land a plate by overcoming her sh1t test rather than just moving on to new plate.
I cut threads. I lead.she follows or next. I remind you, her fertility is declining as we speak. More importantly, new girls are turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

Come @ me bro.

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I cut threads. I lead.she follows or next. I remind you, her fertility is declining as we speak. More importantly, new girls are turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

Come @ me bro.

/thread
Such a dead poster
 

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High interest girls will be easy to go on a date with you.
If a girl can never find a time to schedule a date with you she is not interested sorry.
Overpersuing will only devalue yourself.

If you keep message them they will show it to their friends what a needy orbiter you are and what a princess with fans they are. Don't inflate that ego.
 

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Midnight, you remind of this guy @joekerr31. Look him up.He was a smart dude and also never capitalized his letters ;)
 

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If this is happening to you be assured you are not her first option. Keep her on the backburner and go find more women who you ARE the first option for.
I have personally experienced this and it is so true. Every time it's happened, the girl goes dark on me soon after and then I find out through social media or whatever that she's entered a relationship with another plate she was spinning at the same time as me.
 

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You can't pass low interest, you can past a sh!t test.

Say the smoothest thing in the world to a girl with low interest and it does jack sh!t, she'd laugh in your face or yawn

But if it was a test she'd play along
 

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Can you explain this a little more in depth? I understand that women dont play hard to get with guys they want to fvck. That being said, any indication of low interest should always be taken as low interest and not a s1ht test? If Im her #1 option, I should not encounter any s1ht tests correct?
Depends on the woman, some women really are stupid enough to play moronic games they saw in cosmo articles or on sitcoms/in romcoms,

i knew a girl who said that she wanted to talk to me but i never talked to her, and i was like "you didn't say hi or even look at me" and she said "the guy is supposed to come to the girl" and to this day I'm like wtf, how was i supposed to know that a girl who knows me but refuses to make eye contact wants to talk?

Last week a girl cancelled on me last second for some BS reason and asked when i was free so i told her that i was free whenever i wanted to be, so lmk when she wants to go, so i didn't hear from her for a week, so i was basically gonna say "**** you" then block her, but i opened with "lol" and she was immediately in a rush to go out with me, so much so that she wanted to go to a 2 hour movie at like 11pm, and we set it up at 8pmish.

The explanation here is that the perception that women are super intelligent goddesses that always make intentional decisions toward their goals and priorities is stupid, they're just as prone to dumb fvck ups as you.
 

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partially correct

remember that seduction is contradictory in nature and reality isnt so black and white. we only make absolutist statements to make life easier for ourselves, not because they are some set in stone truth that never bends or breaks. we use them as guidelines until our experiences teach us the reality of nuance. even a statement like "women dont play hard to get with men they wanna fvck" is an absolutist statement and although it is conventional wisdom, it is most certainly not always the case.

now with that in mind, consider that women simply have a natural propensity to shlt test whether youre 2 strangers talking for the first time or a married couple of 30 years. but the men who women shlt test are not the loser creeps theyre not interested in. its the men whom they might have a budding attraction to. the extent and the degree of her shlt tests are proportionate to their comparable smvs. confused yet?

that is to say, most chlcks have no need to shlt test the lowest smv males. they'll gently let them down with asexual disinterest. guys at or slightly above her own smv however, will see the most shlt testing because of the potential for romantic interest. remember that women want men that are equal but most preferably above their own smv. but a man much higher than her smv will receive the least, if any shlt testing which is where your statement on not receiving shlt tests is correct. another absolutist statement carelessly parroted around here is "would she play games if you were brad pitt?" while technically correct, does nothing to help men understand the why and how, to identify and pass shlt tests because we are not those super rich famous celebrities. nor are most men that come here in the position of having the prior experience that teaches them how highly interested women act around men they dig. does that mean that we should give up on any woman that shlt tests us because we incorrectly assume shes just being a difficult bltch with low to no interest and we should only worry about women that readily want to jump on our c0cks?

same goes for the actual hot women everyone wants to bone. the hot girl has no reason to shlt test the vast majority of men. shes very aware and comfortable in the fact that she is at the top of the smv pyramid. when she does shlt test, its only for legit alphas and guys on their ascent of mt. poon

thats why wannabe womanizers and newbies to the game that actually set out to achieve, see the most shlt tests. because the average cute girl will find him attainable and see potential. the shlt test is for congruency. to see if the guy is the part or just pretending

theres tons of resources on identifying shlt tests out there and once you start putting your skills into practice, you'll start noticing them first by looking back and analyzing your interactions and then eventually down to the moment they occur with your witty retorts brushing them off reflexively

most basic shlt tests are girls making small requests (can you do xyz for me? buy me a drink or wait right here should come to mind) jealousy (my new coworker is so funny!) and anything that will illicit a white knight response (that guys been like, staring at me all night!).

do you see how disinterest and shlt tests are 2 very different things? dont convince yourself that a girl is playing hard to get if it feels like an obstacle course every time you interact with her. just because she responds does not mean shes receptive. a girl thats digging your vibe and appreciating your game will play along and will see to it that she eventually spends time with you. likewise dont be so quick to next a girl because she throws a few hurdles your way and chalk it up to disinterest because shes being difficult or a bltch, if you pay enough attention, you'll see theres little a spark of romance in her eyes when she does it
Very helpful, let me try to summarize it for my understanding. What you're suggesting is that through experience my ability to identify s1ht test vs low interests will improve. In the meantime, act as if most resistance is a test and overcome as I would naturally. High interest women should offer little resistance while the others may offer up more. If it becomes a continued struggle, then assume that my perception of a s1ht test was actually just an indicator of low interest. How does that sound?
 
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