Sh1t test vs Low interest? How to differentiate?

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Interesting sh1t test story, female friend of mine told me she refuses to help her BF study, and when I asked if she wanted to see what he was made of she said "absolutely."

Now, I didn't push further but I almost guarantee you she actively distracts and inhibits him from studying hoping he will tell her to go away.
That seems like an incredibly dumb sh!t test, being a destructive instead of constructive element in your bf's life, jeez
 

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partially correct

remember that seduction is contradictory in nature and reality isnt so black and white. we only make absolutist statements to make life easier for ourselves, not because they are some set in stone truth that never bends or breaks. we use them as guidelines until our experiences teach us the reality of nuance. even a statement like "women dont play hard to get with men they wanna fvck" is an absolutist statement and although it is conventional wisdom, it is most certainly not always the case.

now with that in mind, consider that women simply have a natural propensity to shlt test whether youre 2 strangers talking for the first time or a married couple of 30 years. but the men who women shlt test are not the loser creeps theyre not interested in. its the men whom they might have a budding attraction to. the extent and the degree of her shlt tests are proportionate to their comparable smvs. confused yet?

that is to say, most chlcks have no need to shlt test the lowest smv males. they'll gently let them down with asexual disinterest. guys at or slightly above her own smv however, will see the most shlt testing because of the potential for romantic interest. remember that women want men that are equal but most preferably above their own smv. but a man much higher than her smv will receive the least, if any shlt testing which is where your statement on not receiving shlt tests is correct. another absolutist statement carelessly parroted around here is "would she play games if you were brad pitt?" while technically correct, does nothing to help men understand the why and how, to identify and pass shlt tests because we are not those super rich famous celebrities. nor are most men that come here in the position of having the prior experience that teaches them how highly interested women act around men they dig. does that mean that we should give up on any woman that shlt tests us because we incorrectly assume shes just being a difficult bltch with low to no interest and we should only worry about women that readily want to jump on our c0cks?

same goes for the actual hot women everyone wants to bone. the hot girl has no reason to shlt test the vast majority of men. shes very aware and comfortable in the fact that she is at the top of the smv pyramid. when she does shlt test, its only for legit alphas and guys on their ascent of mt. poon

thats why wannabe womanizers and newbies to the game that actually set out to achieve, see the most shlt tests. because the average cute girl will find him attainable and see potential. the shlt test is for congruency. to see if the guy is the part or just pretending

theres tons of resources on identifying shlt tests out there and once you start putting your skills into practice, you'll start noticing them first by looking back and analyzing your interactions and then eventually down to the moment they occur with your witty retorts brushing them off reflexively

most basic shlt tests are girls making small requests (can you do xyz for me? buy me a drink or wait right here should come to mind) jealousy (my new coworker is so funny!) and anything that will illicit a white knight response (that guys been like, staring at me all night!).

do you see how disinterest and shlt tests are 2 very different things? dont convince yourself that a girl is playing hard to get if it feels like an obstacle course every time you interact with her. just because she responds does not mean shes receptive. a girl thats digging your vibe and appreciating your game will play along and will see to it that she eventually spends time with you. likewise dont be so quick to next a girl because she throws a few hurdles your way and chalk it up to disinterest because shes being difficult or a bltch, if you pay enough attention, you'll see theres little a spark of romance in her eyes when she does it
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