Sexuality and the younger man.

[Humble Young Man]

Hey Karma, I've usually found the most popular kids in my school to be very goofy and outgoing. They don't seem like very, calm, mature kids and they are just very attractive to the eyes of many girls. It seems like the more outgoing and the more goofy you are, more girls will pay more attention on you. How is maturity related to attraction and is maturity something young men like me attained only as I get more experience in life?

 

[KarmaSutra]

High school girls are, by nature, immature, weak and stupid. They are so desperate for attention that their fascination with any guy who is percieved as high value is more important their own value.

The only thing you can concern yourself with is your own maturation process and your masculine growth. Put chicks, stupid chicks, on the back burner.

Once you get your sh1t together the attention will focus on you from everyone without you knowing a thing about it.

 

[Humble Young Man]

So not worry about flirting with high shool chicks at all? Just focus on my masculine growth and everything will be good for me? So now I should not give too much interest to any girls but let them come to me. Interesting to hear..

 

[Dstructor]

I think the first thing before thinking how to show masculinity is understanding it first. I can't say that i fully understand my masculinity/sexuality but i'm on track here and so far every time i'm with an attractive woman i notice exactly how i react; not controlling but noticing what i'm more inclined to do in the moment

For example one of the girls in a group at college was talking, i was with the group and i wasn't used to girls standing so close to me. I felt weird, kind of like a little helpless inexperienced kid but at the same time like a control freak; i was desperately trying to link what's going on to what i should do or how to manipulate the situation (whether her or myself or the entire group)

I still haven't reached a fulfilling conclusion but it hinted to me something about needing my desire for something to be verified or approved by "getting" it/her/them before i accept that part about myself. That includes taking responsibility for their reaction and also trying to manipulate them

Very good point and when i figure out later how to see through it (lol) i'll let you know

 

[Desdinova]

There are a couple rules I keep when I interact with women:

1) Don't mention the words "Relationship", "Date", "Ex"
2) Don't be blunt. Being blunt does not raise a woman's curiousity. You WANT her to be curious about you.
3) Use Kino ASAP

Rule number two includes things like stupid pickup lines, and saying things like "Suck my c0ck bytch". The magic is getting her to suck your c0ck without actually telling her to do it. Same with dating a woman: the magic is getting her to go out with you without actually mentioning the word "date".

Rule number three is extremely important. Kino is necessary for any sexual interaction. She needs to be comfortable touching you if she's going to be comfortable with your d1ck in her mouth.

As for how to get her thinking sexually about you (besides using kino), tell her how attractive you are. I do this all the time. Although I may be slightly sarcastic, I confidently follow statements with comments like "...because I'm so damn sexy!" If you keep letting her know that you're sexy, she will agree with you.

Your self-esteem will show up in your personality. If you truly believe you're an attractive male, women will see that you are. Confidence and high self-esteem will go a long way with attracting women. So if you currently thing that you're ugly, you need to quit the self-pity-party, and start telling yourself how damn great you are. Think about all your best qualities, tell yourself how fvcking fantastic you are for all that you've accomplished, all the hardships you've made it through, and you'll not only start feeling fantastic, but women will think you're fantastic as well!

 

[KarmaSutra]

There are a couple rules I keep when I interact with women:

1) Don't mention the words "Relationship", "Date", "Ex"
2) Don't be blunt. Being blunt does not raise a woman's curiousity. You WANT her to be curious about you.
3) Use Kino ASAP

Rule number two includes things like stupid pickup lines, and saying things like "Suck my c0ck bytch". The magic is getting her to suck your c0ck without actually telling her to do it. Same with dating a woman: the magic is getting her to go out with you without actually mentioning the word "date".

Rule number three is extremely important. Kino is necessary for any sexual interaction. She needs to be comfortable touching you if she's going to be comfortable with your d1ck in her mouth.

As for how to get her thinking sexually about you (besides using kino), tell her how attractive you are. I do this all the time. Although I may be slightly sarcastic, I confidently follow statements with comments like "...because I'm so damn sexy!" If you keep letting her know that you're sexy, she will agree with you.

Your self-esteem will show up in your personality. If you truly believe you're an attractive male, women will see that you are. Confidence and high self-esteem will go a long way with attracting women. So if you currently thing that you're ugly, you need to quit the self-pity-party, and start telling yourself how damn great you are. Think about all your best qualities, tell yourself how fvcking fantastic you are for all that you've accomplished, all the hardships you've made it through, and you'll not only start feeling fantastic, but women will think you're fantastic as well!

Awesome.