Mizzou-Rah
Don Juan
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Whats up guys,
Well for the past few weeks I've been dating this one girl off and on. Since the start of our relationship, I have either been unable to keep an erection after putting on a condom, or I have lost my erection during sex (I have only climaxed once during sex since we've been seeing each other). Obviously, it is becoming a problem in our relationship and I am becoming very embarassed about it. I have read other posts about this issue on here, but the majority are from virgins having first-time jitters. The weird thing about this is that I am a healthy 22 year old male that has had sex many times with different girls, so I am confused about what the deal is. I have heard that drug use and masturbation can lead to this problem, so I have decided to cut down on my pot smoking and attempt to completely stop masturbating.
Of course no one can tell me how to fix this, only I can. But does anyone else have experience with something like this? If so, how did you solve the problem? I really don't think it is erectile dysfuntion, since I can get an erection and I have climaxed with her before. I think one of the main problems could be that I am not used to wearing condoms during sex and she refuses to have sex without a condom. Anyways, what do the rest of you think?
Well for the past few weeks I've been dating this one girl off and on. Since the start of our relationship, I have either been unable to keep an erection after putting on a condom, or I have lost my erection during sex (I have only climaxed once during sex since we've been seeing each other). Obviously, it is becoming a problem in our relationship and I am becoming very embarassed about it. I have read other posts about this issue on here, but the majority are from virgins having first-time jitters. The weird thing about this is that I am a healthy 22 year old male that has had sex many times with different girls, so I am confused about what the deal is. I have heard that drug use and masturbation can lead to this problem, so I have decided to cut down on my pot smoking and attempt to completely stop masturbating.
Of course no one can tell me how to fix this, only I can. But does anyone else have experience with something like this? If so, how did you solve the problem? I really don't think it is erectile dysfuntion, since I can get an erection and I have climaxed with her before. I think one of the main problems could be that I am not used to wearing condoms during sex and she refuses to have sex without a condom. Anyways, what do the rest of you think?
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