Sex with Best Friend Now what

[Jonathan]

So this girl is like my best friend for many years since highschool and ive truly never thought about a relationship with her even though shes easily a 9.We have a great friendship and we never have any akward moments between each other.So a week ago she invites me to go out and dance,we go out and have a great time and one thing led to another and end up sleeping together.Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave

 

[specialed]

call her up, make plans, talk in person...see if she brings up anything first and see how she acts. if nothing gets brought up, then bring it up yourself. and don't be like "hey are you my girlfriend now?" or something similiar cuz i'd have reflashes of Night at the Roxberry.

 

[Rata Blanca]

So this girl is like my best friend for many years since highschool and ive truly never thought about a relationship with her even though shes easily a 9.We have a great friendship and we never have any akward moments between each other.So a week ago she invites me to go out and dance,we go out and have a great time and one thing led to another and end up sleeping together.Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave

NO.
Just call her to get together and hang out. Nothing more, If she wants something else she will let you know.

 

[ScrewIt]

Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave

lets rephrase that, what do you want out of this?

 

[Jonathan]

Im not sure shes my best friend and i dont want it to get weird between us

 

[Jonathan]

lol night at the roxburry, thx i think i'll do that

 

[ScrewIt]

Im not sure shes my best friend and i dont want it to get weird between us

Too late for that, you havent spoken to her since.

I'd advise calling her to hangout, pretend like nothing happened. If there are awkward moments, then bring it up and talk about it.

 

[Jonathan]

im gonna try to do that but she usually calls me and hasnt called me since that happend

 

[ScrewIt]

it might be too late to go back, dont wait for her to call, you call her.

 

[Jonathan]

youre right man thx will do

 

[ValleyDJing]

Never have a girl as your best friend. You won't turn out right...i've seen it happen.