sex, turns me into an afc

[PRMoon]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
You're still using them no matter what the circumstances are, unless you're seriously dating her.

but its your life. whatever.

Okay now you just lost my respect.

Do you have any idea what you're talking about? To use some one you have to mislead them in a negative way that they wouldn't appreciate or potentially hurt them.

If I sleep with a girl and she wants to sleep with me and we BOTH agree that it's a one time thing or we just want to be physical with no emotinal ties then how could any one have been used in that situation? I repeat, IF WE BOTH JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX THEN HOW DID ANYONE IN THE SITUATION GET USED?

Did you pirate this handle because i would think that anyone with 400 post would have the common sense to know exactly how an adult relationship works.

Do porn stars use each other as well or is one of them getting hurt? You need to do some serious self evaluation if you think everyone who has sex is in a serious relationship, because I know for a definate fact tha girls sleep around just as much as guys and if nobody gets hurt in the process then there's really no need to worry.

 

[Caldus]

To the original poster: maybe you actually like her for more than her body? Maybe you do want a relationship. Some guys are just like that. They need a relationship, not a quick ****. Don't listen to anyone who calls you weak for that. If you find a girl who you truly click with, then you'll want more than sex.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

I'm basing this off of my own experiences. I used to sleep around, and i thought that i wanted it and i didnt care for the longest time. Then when i started getting really serious about someone, i started to regret. I dont want to preach, but you will end up regretting this kind of lifestyle when you realize that you have either HIV/AIDS, a STD, or you fall in love with the woman of your dreams and realize how special sex should be, and you end up regretting f*cking all those women before her.

But like i said, its your life. Do what you want with it. Obviously no one can stop you. *shrugs* and about the whole women using men thing...I think that's wrong too. I'm a cultural feminist, meaning that i believe that there is inherent differences between the sexes and we need to celebrate and respect those differences. I also believe that women who use men for only sex are insecure.

Don't feel that all women are like that. We're not. There are a lot of women who feel the same way i do and would never use a man for sex and for our pleasure. I feel its wrong, just like i feel its wrong when men do it to women.

Sadly, most of the time society does not recognize male abuse. Women abuse men. Its a fact and it makes me sick.

When can the sexes finally start respecting each other equally?

 

[Double]

omg nobody carez about your opinion, slut.

 

[Climax]

hmmm....

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
I'm basing this off of my own experiences. I used to sleep around, and i thought that i wanted it and i didnt care for the longest time. Then when i started getting really serious about someone, i started to regret. I dont want to preach, but you will end up regretting this kind of lifestyle when you realize that you have either HIV/AIDS, a STD, or you fall in love with the woman of your dreams and realize how special sex should be, and you end up regretting f*cking all those women before her.

I just got out of a serious relationship, i came to love the chick that i was with (and might get back togeather with her in the future, long complicated story), but before her, i dont regret ANY of the girls that i was with. Maybe if i got an STD or something from them, then yes, but otherwise no. And sex is sex, its not so "special" as you make it to be! When making love to the one you love, then that might feel more special to YOU (the one making love to the one u love) but normal sex is normal sex, nothing "special" or "sacred" about it.


Laterz...

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
to the guy above me ^^^^^^^


GET SOME F*UCKING FEELINGS! GIRLS ARE PEOPLE TOO! THEY'RE NOT JUST F*CK BAGS FOR YOUR PLEASURE! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH FEELING SOEMTHING WHEN YOU HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL?

i really f*cking pity you, you heartless son of a b*tch.

at least the original poster admits that he has some f*cking feelings.

Before you get all bend out of shape, consider this:

Just as some guys use girls for sex and don't want a relationship with them...some girls use guys to help them move, buy gifts for them, take them out, listen to their problems and don't want a relationship or sex with them. This is no different than what the guy you were responding to is doing. Yeah...using people really sucks but girls aren't innocent of doing their share of using, too.

 

[PRMoon]

I think there are huge differences between men and women but I also think that we both do like similar things in similar ways. Sex being one of them. Just as a man and a woman might enjoy riding motorcycles or sky diving. Events that get your blood pumping usually produce the same kind of endorphins in your bodies whether you're M or F. I highly doubt these girls are going out to nightclubs and having ONS's because they are "insecure." The girls I meet when I go out and we do whatever it is two concenting adults do does not make them in anyway insecure. Some of them are very sucessful, strong women.

I ALWAYS practice safe sex and I get tested bi annually.


You just have to start thinking of us all as indivuduals rather then "the sexes". Sure both have patterns that set us apart but these patterns are not set in stone. With each human on the planet comes a new outlook on how they view the world. It shapes the decisions we make, the lives we lead, and the lives we create.

 

[Climax]

Agreed...

Originally posted by PRMoon
I think there are huge differences between men and women but I also think that we both do like similar things in similar ways. Sex being one of them. Just as a man and a woman might enjoy riding motorcycles or sky diving. Events that get your blood pumping usually produce the same kind of endorphins in your bodies whether you're M or F. I highly doubt these girls are going out to nightclubs and having ONS's because they are "insecure."
I ALWAYS practice safe sex and I get tested bi annually.

The girls I meet when I go out and we do whatever it is two concenting adults do does not make them in anyway insecure. Some of them are very sucessful, strong women.

You just have to start thinking of us all as indivuduals rather then "the sexes". Sure both have patterns that set us apart but these patterns are not set in stone. With each human on the planet comes a new outlook on how they view the world. It shapes the decisions we make, the lives we lead, and the lives we create.

Well put

 

[No Escape]

Re: wtf?!?! stfu! *sigh*

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
LuvMyArmyMan: I would really appreciate it if you kept your BULLSH!T opinion to yourself... We guys here on this forum use chicks and we move on, DEAL WITH IT! There is nothing u can say or do that will stop me from going out tonight and sleeping with a chick, and then telling her to f*ckoff... All these years chicks have abused their right/power over men when it comes to sex, NOW its payback time... so if u are a woman, i will see you as NOTHING MORE than a statistic and a name in my book/cell phone. You think I don’t have feelings? well what about all the times women do the exact same thing to men? Women need to be put in their place, because they are not "ALL THAT" and they are NOT "the sh!t", and I will make sure that when i am done with them, they will know their place! Now stop f*cking coming onto these forums and telling us "professionals" how to treat women, because at the moment we go out there, we give women pleasure, and they give US pleasure, and then we move on, we use EACHOTHER, its not that the man is ONLY using the woman... that’s life, WAKE UP! I'm sick of women coming here and being all sensitive and thinking that they know everything... now go to your man that is so "perfect" and stop trying to preach to us how we should act with women!

Laterz...

A FVCKIN-MEN to that brother!!!!

Paybacks a fvckin' B*TCH!!! If women can be the shallow creatures that they are(and women are shallow in tons of ways), then I see no reason why we shouldn't disrespect them too.

Most women don't deserve respect, because they don't respect men to begin with. In order to get respect, one must give respect!

Put 'em in their fvckin' place, that's what I'm talkin' about!

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Wyldfire, I said that. I said that women abuse me too. and how sad it makes me. I'm fully aware of it and i think its time when men and women think of each other as equals and that it would be impossible for one to live without the other.

~ªêQµïTª$~ Maybe its just different for you. But when i talked to a couple of guy friends i know who have serious gfs they truly love they wish they would have waited for her. and i know its not the same for everyone. I never said it was. It was just a cautionary thing, like you could end up feeling this way like so many people that i know.

No Escape--Don't generalize. Say "some women dont respect some men" instead of "women dont respect men" because i know plenty of women that respect men and vice-versa. But to an extent, i agree.

Just like you said, No Escape, if you want to be respected by women, you have to respect them and if they want to be respected by you, they have to respect you. And there will be women out there who wont respect men. just deal and move on.

 

[MetalFortress]

I'm a cultural feminist, meaning that i believe that there is inherent differences between the sexes and we need to celebrate and respect those differences.

Isn't that the opposite of feminism, actually?

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
Wyldfire, I said that. I said that women abuse me too. and how sad it makes me. I'm fully aware of it and i think its time when men and women think of each other as equals and that it would be impossible for one to live without the other.

~ªêQµïTª$~ Maybe its just different for you. But when i talked to a couple of guy friends i know who have serious gfs they truly love they wish they would have waited for her. and i know its not the same for everyone. I never said it was. It was just a cautionary thing, like you could end up feeling this way like so many people that i know.

No Escape--Don't generalize. Say "some women dont respect some men" instead of "women dont respect men" because i know plenty of women that respect men and vice-versa. But to an extent, i agree.

Just like you said, No Escape, if you want to be respected by women, you have to respect them and if they want to be respected by you, they have to respect you. And there will be women out there who wont respect men. just deal and move on.

OMG, please fook off!

 

[Climax]

haha

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
OMG, please fook off!

LOL!

 

[PRMoon]

Don't feel that all women are like that. We're not. There are a lot of women who feel the same way i do and would never use a man for sex and for our pleasure.

I don't f*ck every girl I see either. I meet girls all the time and all that I do is hang out and talk to them. Sex never crosses my mind the entire time (weird isn't it?!). That's not to say that these girls weren't trying to f*ck me though...some were some wern't and there you have your universal balance.

Tell you what LuvMyArmyMan I'll keep track of the girls who want to have sex with me for pleasure and I'll give them your email after I'm done. After that you can convert them to your feminazi path of righteousness.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

I'm not a femnazi. I told you that i was a cultural feminist, asswipe. I think its F*UCKED up when women use men! and i also dont think thats all that men do, is sleep with women did you not read my post? I'm not even going to bother defending myself to an idiot who wont bother reading my entire posts and comprehend them.

 

[Climax]

woah! chilax.

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
I'm not a femnazi. I told you that i was a cultural feminist, asswipe. I think its F*UCKED up when women use men! and i also dont think thats all that men do, is sleep with women did you not read my post? I'm not even going to bother defending myself to an idiot who wont bother reading my entire posts and comprehend them.

Down girl!

 

[jago25_98]

You're natural. The players are not. But you should be doing it because you feel it

not because you feel you owe something. You gave her sex might be the DJ view?

I've noticed some girls will have sex with you to bring you closer.

Mad.

 

[PRMoon]

I'm not a femnazi. I told you that i was a cultural feminist, asswipe. I think its F*UCKED up when women use men! and i also dont think thats all that men do, is sleep with women did you not read my post? I'm not even going to bother defending myself to an idiot who wont bother reading my entire posts and comprehend them.

I didn't say that all men just use women for sex, I was just pointing out that I personally don't sleep with everygirl I meet.

Unlike most cultural minds, I believe very strongly in the individual. I think that some of the greatest and strongest moments of mankind have come from people thinking outside of the cultural norm/theories that have surrounded them. I believe that only by diversity and thought that moves away from what people accept can we truely grown as a species. In accordance focusing on smaller issues such as sex differences is pointless when we can't even understand us as core individuals ourselves.

I believe that people should do what they want (you know within the law) and if they f*ck up an don't learn from their mistakes, then that's their choice. I also know that me having casual sex with girls won't defeat my chances of finding love sometime later in life. I also know that sex hasn't been devalued for me just becuase I've had it with a bunch of girls. Sex is very special for me from time to time with the right people but that doesn't exclude the fact that sex is just another part of life. Hell I drive just about everyday but sometimes driving is just a little bit more depending on the reasons.

Sorry about the feminazi crack, that was kinda low, but you remind me of some of the private school girls I use to hang with when I was younger. Of course I've never met you (nor will we ever meet) and I suppose a good bit of personality is lost over the net. It isn't fair for me to judge until I've been toe to toe with someone. Still your vantage points are built on the same principles, which is more respect for women. Nothing wrong with that I suppose, but that fight may be one that you can't win.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Well I didnt mean that you won't find true love if you have casual sex, i meant that you might regret your past once you have met your true love. And i emphasize the word might.

Funny you should say that i remind you of private school girls you used to hang out with....i went to Catholic school! haha i think thats funny. And its ok about the femnazi blow, i get it ever so often here bc of various reasons.

And i know that i most likely won't win the arguement and fight for more respect for women, but isn't it worth fighting? especially for older generations? I want my daughter(s) to be able to be respected by others in a way that males are respected. (yes, you have to agree that men get a certain level of respect above women, and women still make only 75 cents on the dollar that a man makes, its just fact and i'm not b!tching about it either). And if they dont get it fully, then why not my granddaughters or future generations?

And it all starts with one. One generation can make a difference. One person can make a difference. But you can only make a difference if you're willing to change and make a sacrifice, which i do not see most men of today are willing to do that. But that's their problem, not mine, and i have found someone that is one of the select that want to make a difference with the way that women are being treated, respect-wise.

That's all i have to say about that.

 

[tmpgstx]

I agree .. women do deserve more respect in terms of fields dominated by men, such as science and engineering.

Women have always been treated like a minority if not worse by some culture.

For a 19 yr. old - you're thinking a long way ahead which is good! I think more people should be aware though of political correctness and the overt damage it is doing in terms of national security etc. - but that's a whole other matter.

The world should be getting more stable, but as long as there is the battle of religions, politics, greed and what have you .. we're going to have to make some big changes.

In earlier times it was easy to avert all of this because we don't have the technology we now have. Now .. we have to make sure we control our technology .. in other words .. with great power comes great responsibility ..

It must be late ..