sex, turns me into an afc

[imleashedup]

I really need help, I always feel like a super pimp, until after i have sex with a chick, then i turn into mush, just a complete wussbag, wanting to call all the time, wondering what she's doing, the only way i ever get over it is f^cking another chick, but then i start feeling the same way towards her. So i go through a horrible cycle of super pimp with new chick till i bone, then super wuss with her. Some how I have no problem being a dj with new chicks, while at the same time being a wuss with old chicks. I want to know if you guys have problems like this, and what you do about it?

 

[DemonXIII]

Nah...

Why do you feel like a super wuzz after ****in them?
I feel like super pimp wit new chicks...
BUT AN EVEN GREATER PIMP when i **** them...
Stop actin like a AFC... after u **** a ***** the more shes attracted to u if u play ur cards right...
get ur **** togehter hommy...str8 up

latez

 

[silkkster]

Re: Nah...

Originally posted by DemonXIII

I feel like super pimp wit new chicks..............
get ur **** togehter hommy...str8 up

i have this chick that ive been fvcking and sometimes i feel 'closer' to her...

after sex just chill, let her lay her head on your chest...
or
if you are meaning like 1 or 2 days after...well you need to just stay a little busy w somethin (clean your apartment, wash the car) anything that consumes time (or some homework..lol)

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Maybe you want a relationship.

 

[becker]

I know what you're saying, I think the main reason is that if you have sex with them, you usually want more sex (it's like an addictive drug). Then you feel like being around them all the time so that you can probably get her in the sack again.

 

[Albion4]

Originally posted by imleashedup
I really need help, I always feel like a super pimp, until after i have sex with a chick, then i turn into mush, just a complete wussbag, wanting to call all the time, wondering what she's doing, the only way i ever get over it is f^cking another chick, but then i start feeling the same way towards her. So i go through a horrible cycle of super pimp with new chick till i bone, then super wuss with her. Some how I have no problem being a dj with new chicks, while at the same time being a wuss with old chicks. I want to know if you guys have problems like this, and what you do about it?

Dude, most guys think that way. You just have to learn to put it away. Don't react on it. Instead of thinking about her get into your hobby, go out with your friends, do something that gets her off your mind; even if that means hitting on another chick.

-Al

 

[Sart]

YEAH

The hairy lassoo. Maybe as you have more sex with more chicks you will get less hung up on it.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

well, ya know, sex is an emotional thing. It really isnt meant to be taken lightly and frivilantly. you feel atachment to these girls.

Why do you need to be a pimp? why is that so important? Just because you sleep with a lot of girls doenst make you more of a man than a guy who hasn't. in fact, you might see in the future, when you're looking to settle down, its better that you haven't been around so much. Well there are many reasons, like STDs, HIV/AIDS, the fact that you might cheat on your wife because you feel bored or she gets fat after having kids. And dont think that just because you love someone that you're less of a man too. A real man can express his feeling and actually HAS feelings and isn't just a mindless sex machine that just wants to get laid. I'd actually feel a lot of pity on you if you were like that.

So save yourself a lot of trouble and keep your **** in your pants and only have sex with girls youre in a relationship and actually care about. You dont want to die of a disease and have your **** fall off because you slept around so much, now do you?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Maybe you want a relationship.

This is it!!

Superchump - quit falling in love with vaginas and start falling in love with women!

 

[Dingus]

Sex ALWAYS makes your emotions towards a woman more intense. I once read about a study that young men in particular are something like 10 times more likely to fall in love with someone, after sex, compared to women. You're just going to have to learn that sex isn't everything. I agree with trying to clear your mind and doing things you are really passionate about (not sex).

 

[PRMoon]

This is a simple mind over matter situation. I've had similar situiations with certain girls in the past. Usually after I bag a girl I just want her to leave and often I don't want to talk to them anymore. The hunt is over, the prize has been attained, a little down time, back to the hunt. However there have been a few girls that I've gotten with that I've kept on the mind.

Typically, for me, it means I really like the girl. Unfortunately I feel that up until and into this point, I have no need for a relationship. A delema? Hardly, if you occupy your mind with other more important things then you'll forget about the girls no problem.

What do I mean by more important things? Well for each of us it's different. For me it's work/buisness opportunities and of course sports betting. I like making money and when my money's at stake then I won't even think about a girl's name, less that I just f*cked her last night or last week, whatever.

Mental toughness is just as important as physical strenth IMO, so I always try to stay focused. No thought ever dominates my mind completely. If it does then my life starts to get disorganized and that spells disaster.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

to the guy above me ^^^^^^^


GET SOME F*UCKING FEELINGS! GIRLS ARE PEOPLE TOO! THEY'RE NOT JUST F*CK BAGS FOR YOUR PLEASURE! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH FEELING SOEMTHING WHEN YOU HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL?

i really f*cking pity you, you heartless son of a b*tch.

at least the original poster admits that he has some f*cking feelings.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by Dingus
Sex ALWAYS makes your emotions towards a woman more intense. I once read about a study that young men in particular are something like 10 times more likely to fall in love with someone, after sex, compared to women.

You have it wrong - it is the female not the male that get emotionally attached after sex!!!

Anyways - nearly all men get emotions for a hor at one time or another - hors are humans too!!

Never fall in love with a hor - destruction will surely follow!!

 

[christz]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Maybe you want a relationship.

this is a longshot.. but i mean i think your right lol you need to realize what you really want outta these chicks

 

[PRMoon]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
to the guy above me ^^^^^^^


GET SOME F*UCKING FEELINGS! GIRLS ARE PEOPLE TOO! THEY'RE NOT JUST F*CK BAGS FOR YOUR PLEASURE! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH FEELING SOEMTHING WHEN YOU HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL?

i really f*cking pity you, you heartless son of a b*tch.

at least the original poster admits that he has some f*cking feelings.

That really hurt...

I have feelings, I'm human after all
But regardless, I can't help the way I am! I have a hunter mentality. I LOVE the thrill of the chase more then I do the sex in itself. It's good because where I live there are a ton of transient girls and visitors who i'll never see again anyway.

Also not to say that when I meet a girl who is for me then I'll be floored and then maybe the hunt will be over for me then.

Still though It's not like I'm using these girls, most of the girls I sleep with know, or at least have a good idea, that it's a one time thing (or several times with no strings )and they still do it. Other times I'll let the girl down gently, or the best way that I know how (I'm a very good socialite so I can talk my way out of almost any sitution with a girl).

I have feelings, everybody does...unless you're some kind of crazy robot or something. I just don't want a relationship right now. I'm not emotionally or mentally prepared to divote my time to any one girl right now and I recognize that.

If that makes me a "heartless S.O.B." then you'd better just pity away, but at least I can be honest with myself about it. I'm pretty sure if I were to get into relationship with a girl right now there would be termoil and pain from the word go.

Thankfully I'm not going down that road.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

You're still using them no matter what the circumstances are, unless you're seriously dating her.

but its your life. whatever.

 

[Climax]

wtf?!?! stfu! *sigh*

LuvMyArmyMan: I would really appreciate it if you kept your BULLSH!T opinion to yourself... We guys here on this forum use chicks and we move on, DEAL WITH IT! There is nothing u can say or do that will stop me from going out tonight and sleeping with a chick, and then telling her to f*ckoff... All these years chicks have abused their right/power over men when it comes to sex, NOW its payback time... so if u are a woman, i will see you as NOTHING MORE than a statistic and a name in my book/cell phone. You think I don’t have feelings? well what about all the times women do the exact same thing to men? Women need to be put in their place, because they are not "ALL THAT" and they are NOT "the sh!t", and I will make sure that when i am done with them, they will know their place! Now stop f*cking coming onto these forums and telling us "professionals" how to treat women, because at the moment we go out there, we give women pleasure, and they give US pleasure, and then we move on, we use EACHOTHER, its not that the man is ONLY using the woman... that’s life, WAKE UP! I'm sick of women coming here and being all sensitive and thinking that they know everything... now go to your man that is so "perfect" and stop trying to preach to us how we should act with women!

Laterz...

 

[Adrian]

~ªêQµïTª$~..... Right on man! I don't see your post as being strictly based on mysogny and you have your right to be outraged. Everything you've just said show double standards. If thats what modern day women want then that's what they get. If they're going to get sensitive and b*tch about it then so be it. They've inflicted that harm upon themselves.

 

[Adrian]

oh and sorry for getting off topic. imleashedup listen up. Stop thinking that you're going to marry these chicks or even have kids with them. That thought shouldn't even cross your mind until you find yourself the right woman. If the "right" woman ever comes along that is. So all these feelings that you're holding on to are pointless. Just go out and f*** even more chicks until you don't remember which one you've f***ed last. And please use protection!!!

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
to the guy above me ^^^^^^^


GET SOME F*UCKING FEELINGS! GIRLS ARE PEOPLE TOO! THEY'RE NOT JUST F*CK BAGS FOR YOUR PLEASURE! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH FEELING SOEMTHING WHEN YOU HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL?

i really f*cking pity you, you heartless son of a b*tch.

at least the original poster admits that he has some f*cking feelings.

Is this like a chiken giving the cook advice on how to cook it so it will taste excellent.

Please stop with the estrogen filled comments we have enough of those with the dudes here. I understand you are just trying to ensure that your weakness/emotions aren't trampled by us men, but honestly we dont give a hell what you think. The ones who claim they do really dont they are just saying what they were programmed to say.

Lost of control of emotions is a weak/feminine trait homey, you need to simply practice working on self discipline. It is a skill that takes work.

And please I hope no man on here is foolish enough to take advice from a chick on how to get chicks. They dont even know why they fall for the a@@ hole they always fall for themselves.