Dear brothers,
I will try to keep this short. Our relationship is complicated and somehow full of dramas.. It all started from my mistakes and inability to realize and change for the better
- together for 3years (I'm 33, she's 29)
- I have been quite lazy for the past one year and neglected her..
Eg. Addicted to drinking with friends and playing video games and always leaving her to sleep alone..
- she is always angry with me when I pay her not much attention..
- at the end of the relationship.. She's fed up with all the problems and my inability to realize my mistakes and finally we had a big fight and quarrel and we both decided to break up.. She actually wants marriage and I'm incapable for giving her that at the moment. (Quarrels have been frequent for the past 2months.)
- 2weeks of no contact from both parties. (Last contact was ended as "let's move on", with anger and hatre)
- I realized my mistakes in the relationship (neglecting her and paying enough attention on her)
- I have changed and determined to make a change to my life in a positive manner and quoted video games
Today I break no contact and send her a sincere apology text stating my mistakes and my realization and my determination to change for better. In the text, I didn't say things like..
"please come back to me, will you forgive me etc" nothing about begging too..
Look.. Now I realized and I want her back and determined to change for the better for myself and her.
What can I do next since I have send this apology?
Do I check in once a while with messages like, "I just passed by ***** and I thought of you and made me smile.. "
Thanks..
I'm not sure if this is the section to post..
Thank you
*ps* there are rumors that she has a new bf..
I will try to keep this short. Our relationship is complicated and somehow full of dramas.. It all started from my mistakes and inability to realize and change for the better
- together for 3years (I'm 33, she's 29)
- I have been quite lazy for the past one year and neglected her..
Eg. Addicted to drinking with friends and playing video games and always leaving her to sleep alone..
- she is always angry with me when I pay her not much attention..
- at the end of the relationship.. She's fed up with all the problems and my inability to realize my mistakes and finally we had a big fight and quarrel and we both decided to break up.. She actually wants marriage and I'm incapable for giving her that at the moment. (Quarrels have been frequent for the past 2months.)
- 2weeks of no contact from both parties. (Last contact was ended as "let's move on", with anger and hatre)
- I realized my mistakes in the relationship (neglecting her and paying enough attention on her)
- I have changed and determined to make a change to my life in a positive manner and quoted video games
Today I break no contact and send her a sincere apology text stating my mistakes and my realization and my determination to change for better. In the text, I didn't say things like..
"please come back to me, will you forgive me etc" nothing about begging too..
Look.. Now I realized and I want her back and determined to change for the better for myself and her.
What can I do next since I have send this apology?
Do I check in once a while with messages like, "I just passed by ***** and I thought of you and made me smile.. "
Thanks..
I'm not sure if this is the section to post..
Thank you
*ps* there are rumors that she has a new bf..