Semi-erection because of a lack of attraction

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Did some of you have a similar experience once?
Ye, once.
One 20 yr old chick had so huge tits when I unpackaged her that it turned me off. Like real porn star type.
Rly good body and face etc, but her boobs completely turned me off once they where out in the free.
That was a boner killer for me he he :rolleyes::oops:
 

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Id rather fap than hook up with ugly and or fat women.
You'll fvck up your d1ck if you keep that up too long. It's much better for your mind and body to have sexual engagements with a woman who desires to do that with you. Fapping over too long a period of time will fvck up your erections.
 

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Ye, once.
One 20 yr old chick had so huge tits when I unpackaged her that it turned me off. Like real porn star type.
Rly good body and face etc, but her boobs completely turned me off once they where out in the free.
That was a boner killer for me he he :rolleyes::oops:
So her large voluptuous boobs "spring free" and they had a lot of life and bounce in them and that turned you off?
 

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So her large voluptuous boobs "spring free" and they had a lot of life and bounce in them and that turned you off?
He ha ye...
They were so huge that I felt like I felt a need to swim to find her face lfmao.
They let's say fell down flat with not so much bounce effect. You get the picture I suppose.
Bras can hide a lot lol I her case they didn't look THAT big until the moment... :lol::rofl::whistle:
Nothing wrong with her otherwise. Really good looking HB9, but her "front grill" was too much for me. But to be fair; I never been a big boob guy. Sort of medium is better imo.

So others here might have had a boner that would reach to the moon with her..
 

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He ha ye...
They were so huge that I felt like I felt a need to swim to find her face lfmao.
They let's say fell down flat with not so much bounce effect. You get the picture I suppose.
Bras can hide a lot lol I her case they didn't look THAT big until the moment... :lol::rofl::whistle:
Nothing wrong with her otherwise. Really good looking HB9, but her "front grill" was too much for me.
Bro sometimes they are too big and too heavy and hang down. That's why my preference is firm C or B's. Small and light enough that the skin won't stretch, and they are taught, lively and filled with energy.
 

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Guys take on too much responsbility for getting hard or not...never think to blame the woman. Assuming you're taking care of yourself and not a coomer, if you don't get hard around a specific girl...then why even bother?
 

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Bro sometimes they are too big and too heavy and hang down. That's why my preference is firm C or B's. Small and light enough that the skin won't stretch, and they are taught, lively and filled with energy.
Amen brother, I could not sait it better myself xD
My general preference is about the same too. Better small and perky than a set of hanging bombs lol
 

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if you don't get hard around a specific girl...then why even bother?
Ever considered that sometimes the package isn't what you thought it would be, until you do the unboxing and you find the true state of it?

Women are masters of fake advertising and can change multiple variables of their body/look and thus improve the overall result to something that isn't what it seems to be.
 

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I had one with a smell like salmon that had been left out until it's rotting combined with poop.... Literally poop. That killed any shot for an erection had to get head. She had that the next time but the time after that it was gone. Suspect it was bacterial vaginotis and she got the medicine.
Jesus, you actually went back for a second serving of rotten salmon.....twice!
 

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I wouldn't tell me younger self this. Would agree if the woman is over 35.

But I think anything between 20-30 that is thin and decent looking, knock it out the park. I missed out on so many opportunities because the woman wasn’t “hot” enough. The media knows how to constantly bombard you with images to get brainwashed.
Good point....... most opportunities i "passed" for whatever reason (pity, idleness etc.) , came back at a later point in life as "missed".

As long as she isnt disgusting and you are horny, go for it.

Did some of you have a similar experience once? I'm not worried because I get horny as hell when I'm with a hot woman, but I didn't like it that my body kinda went 'meh' on this girl because I wasn't attracted. Maybe I should have ended the date and just walked instead of thinking about getting some.
It happens..... fvcked a lot of chicks that i wouldnt call "hot", but a 5 and 6 need love too and as long as i am horny and they are good company, no problem. Meanwhile i had trouble with some "hot" women when they were just insufferable due to their behavior or outright boring.
 

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I hadn't had sex in two years since I'd had surgery & lost my fitness, and now that I'd gotten my fitness back I had a very eager girl obsessed with me, but I didn't like the look of her at all. So I didn't have sex with her, despite needing to break a dry spell. Just not worth it.

Only an incel fûcks a minger.
 

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To me it happens that when I dont like the girl that much, my d1ck gets 70% hard which is the minimum to properly work then it releases after few seconds as if he wanted it to finish asap himself.
 

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I hadn't had sex in two years since I'd had surgery & lost my fitness, and now that I'd gotten my fitness back I had a very eager girl obsessed with me, but I didn't like the look of her at all. So I didn't have sex with her, despite needing to break a dry spell. Just not worth it.

Only an incel fûcks a minger.
Sometimes you need to to get in the right frame of mind. When I'm in that position and take whats there I become aware of additional possibilities.
 

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Bottom line is, real life isn't like porn. You have to have some attraction, or be really into it i.e. the right state of mind, to keep a good erection. There are different ways to skin a cat, but the bottom line remains.

I often look back at the time before I was married, and wonder why I didn't bang more girls that were into me but I wasn't really into them. Why not just have fun? Well, at the moment, I just wasn't into them.
 
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