Seeing one of your plates on Tinder

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Been banging plate for a couple months on and off. Claims that "I'm the only one she's doing this with" and always says she's not the kind of girl to be on Tinder. Open up Tinder this morning and she pops up. Obviously we're not exclusive but it was kind of off-putting. Thoughts?
 

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She's your plate not your girlfriend. Continue banging her and stop giving a fvck.
 

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Notice all the Tinder threads with guys saying girls are just using Tinder for attention-wh0ring and not actual hookups. That may be the case with her. If every girl on Tinder was a wh0re, every guy would be on Tinder :)
 

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clicheusername20 said:
Been banging plate for a couple months on and off. Claims that "I'm the only one she's doing this with" and always says she's not the kind of girl to be on Tinder. Open up Tinder this morning and she pops up. Obviously we're not exclusive but it was kind of off-putting. Thoughts?
I would have taken a screen shot and sent it to her with "lol somebody's using your identity to pick up guys" and then proceeded to scratch her off my potential exclusive girlfriend list
 

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I thought plates were just women you were just banging without a relationship.
 

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clicheusername20 said:
Been banging plate for a couple months on and off. Claims that "I'm the only one she's doing this with" and always says she's not the kind of girl to be on Tinder. Open up Tinder this morning and she pops up. Obviously we're not exclusive but it was kind of off-putting. Thoughts?
Do you always believe everything a girl tells you? :crackup:

Huge tip: If a girls tells you: "you're the only one"....."you're the first"...."I've never done that before with another guy"....it's usually the opposite of what she is saying.

You can't control your plates and you shouldn't want to. Use plates for sex and nothing more. Don't worry about her on Tinder. Get new plates to smash and wrap up when you bang her.
 

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clicheusername20 said:
Been banging plate for a couple months on and off. Claims that "I'm the only one she's doing this with" and always says she's not the kind of girl to be on Tinder. Open up Tinder this morning and she pops up. Obviously we're not exclusive but it was kind of off-putting. Thoughts?
I've been seeing someone for a while and just use tinder to pass the time and browse. I don't try to meet anyone.

If you're not exclusive..shrug it off and enjoy the sex.
 

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Agree with BetweenTheLines on the screen shot thing and the identity comment.

Could also take the screenshot and send it to her and ask her how many guys from Tinder she has b@nged this week. And tell her you have only railed two other chicks besides her and are bummed because it's been a slow week for you .
 

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logicallefty said:
Agree with BetweenTheLines on the screen shot thing and the identity comment.

Could also take the screenshot and send it to her and ask her how many guys from Tinder she has b@nged this week. And tell her you have only railed two other chicks besides her and are bummed because it's been a slow week for you .
Lol. That's some funny a$$ sh!t.
 

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Yeah, umm..if you're phucking 5 people, she's phucking 10, just assume that and be happy. As long as Tinder exists, wh0res will be a-wh0rin!
 

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logicallefty said:
Agree with BetweenTheLines on the screen shot thing and the identity comment.

Could also take the screenshot and send it to her and ask her how many guys from Tinder she has b@nged this week. And tell her you have only railed two other chicks besides her and are bummed because it's been a slow week for you .
What's the point of doing that? A plate shoudn't require that effort. Seriously, who cares.
 

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What's the point of doing that? A plate shoudn't require that effort. Seriously, who cares.
because it would be funny as fvck and take 5 seconds to do
 

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Most men will consider Tinder as a tool to find FBs or plates. Many women, however, look at it as a branch of OLD that may help them find Prince Charming. Keep in mind how uneasy and uptight many of them are about standard OLD ("I am just trying this for once, of course it won't work blah blah blah").
So the OP's plate may be on the lookout for the LTR, which makes sense considering her status with OP. It does not strictly make sense to do this on Tinder, but who are we to judge women's behavior :-D
 

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clicheusername20 said:
Been banging plate for a couple months on and off. Claims that "I'm the only one she's doing this with" and always says she's not the kind of girl to be on Tinder. Open up Tinder this morning and she pops up. Obviously we're not exclusive but it was kind of off-putting. Thoughts?
As was said, if she's a plate, and you are not exclusive, why do you care? Looks like you are falling in love with this girl. :flowers:
 

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because it would be funny as fvck and take 5 seconds to do
That's great if he's looking for laughs. But perhaps not as great if he's looking to keep her around as a plate. Guess it depends on his priorities.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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update: went AFC and said I wouldn't be around anymore if she has a tinder. She apologized for making one and said she would delete it immediately and invited me over
 

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clicheusername20 said:
update: went AFC and said I wouldn't be around anymore if she has a tinder. She apologized for making one and said she would delete it immediately and invited me over
Either you got a plate with some decency here, OR, she moved her AWing queendom to either PoF, Match, Cupid, Eharmony, Zoosk, Adultfriendfinder, etc. to get her fix, and thinks you are too big of a fool to find it.
 

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Op... Don't expect her to be a plate for long. If I'm not exclusive with a girl, no way in hell is she gonna keep me from testing my options by giving my ultimatums.

Either you're gonna go exclusive with this girl or end up losing her within a month. All in all, if you didn't wanna be exclusive you shouldn't have opened your mouth and made it sound like you were catching feelings.
 

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She's clearly more than a plate to you. Thing is, you gotta treat her like she isn't if you want her to become more than a plate to you.

You know in your gut the moment you saw her profile, if you didn't care you'd shrug and laugh.
 

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Any girl on Tinder you have to assume is getting fvcked left, right and centre.

You're just the left, two other guys on the right and centre. :yes:
 

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