When you make somebody else change in some way FOR you, he doesnt. You cant change an adult into whatever image you have for them in your mind by stating it bluntly, God is my witness, I know this from experience. I mean you can, but with brainwash, and you cant brainwash women bro, brainwash is woman's turf. Also if you have sex with a woman long enough you will fall in love. And thats a fact. And youre fallin.
But shes not a kid. Youre not her parent. You see a dealbreaker and a dealbreaker is a dealbreaker, a personality trait, a behaviour which you strongly dislike. You cant change that. Her parents carelessness + society brainwash modeled her into this. She is not GF material. Deal with it and break contact or get chained and doged around. Your choise. But shes not just a plate to you so stop approaching the situation with that mindset. CHeck your reality. All hoes present a fake image. And ho's way of chaining men is making them twist real facts to suit their feelings - it IS subtle brainwash and turns men into hoes. If it wasnt for this technique she would be alone. Literally. And for eternity. Its like you see bad stuff all around her, and thats a fact, but you think "But but but but but she seems so nice". Nope. nope. nope.
And if you continue sleeping with her and acting carefree and without jelaousy and just act like you dont give a **** about all her abnormal behaviours SHE WILL FALL IN "LOVE". I did just this, instinctively, when I was a fool. But, see, hoes cant fall in love. They think they can but they cant. They cant sustain emotions for a long time and love is a very complex and fragile emotion with many ingredients. Its all a big phat lie. Everything in their lives including their relationships. So if you keep sleeping with her and acting tough you will fall deeper and deeper and deeper until youre lost. Thoughts like: "Nah, I dont love her, I can dump her anytime, nah I dont love her, nah, nah... **** I love her", Ive lived this ****. I checked reality. I grew. Therefore, I attract and get attracted to quality people now. Quality is subjective and diff for everyone and thats the beauty of life...
Think like that:
I am falling for her + shes a ho = bale out