Screw ALL canadian/american women

[Wyldfire]

Go for it.

You can have all of them.

After all, your own women hate you guys anyway.

I've meet so many great women from other cultures who actually have respect for white guys.

You can f-cuk all the white girls in the world it doesn't mater. That is all you will get. You will never have respect or true love.

Kevin...I hate to break it to you, but those "foreign women" who act so appreciative and affectionate to North American men are only looking for a visa to get out of their own country and come here, where they will become even worse than the women you're having a hard time with right now. I've personally known two foreign women (Ukraine and Korea) who married American men and came to this country. The woman from Ukraine was a drunken slut who repeatedly cheated on her husband with his friends. The Korean woman was the worst hen pecker and nag and condascending biotch I ever met.

Foreign women from poor areas are more dependant on men to provide for them...that is why they ACT like they treat men better. They only stay that way if you relocate to their country. If you bring them to NA they will be just like the women you're having a hard time with right now.

Women are essentially the same everywhere. The enviornment they are in just determines their behavior. If they have the means to provide for themselves they are going to be more picky about men, period. It doesn't matter what country they live in. The women in the US used to be more "traditional" as well back when they had to rely more on men to take care of them financially.

So, unless you plan on moving to a third world country to live, looking for a foreign woman to bring to you is pointless because she WILL change to suit her environment. You'd be wiser to just adjust to your own environment and figure out what will work for you with the women already there. To do that, you need to understand that the beliefs men have historically held about what makes them a good man is NOT what defines a good man to women any more. Being able to provide, protect and procreate is NOT enough anymore...not in a place where women work. Find your other strengths and play them up so women can see them because they will be what adds value in the eyes of the women around you.

 

[wolfsbaneforever]

To do that, you need to understand that the beliefs men have historically held about what makes them a good man is NOT what defines a good man to women any more. Being able to provide, protect and procreate is NOT enough anymore...not in a place where women work. Find your other strengths and play them up so women can see them because they will be what adds value in the eyes of the women around you.

I take it Wyldfire, that you are a woman ?

 

[Wyldfire]

I take it Wyldfire, that you are a woman ?

Well...I have tits but I think more like a man. Frankly, I don't care what ethnicity a guy goes for...whatever floats their boat. I do, however, think it's important to point out that all women, regardless of ethnicity, will be more demanding of men if they live in a country where they can provide for themselves financially if they need or want to. And yes...the vast majority of foreign women who marry North American men do so because they want to come to America for a better life. It's certainly not love...it's nothing more than a different form of gold digging.

 

[elmo]

any of you boys interested in starting a thread about living, working, and/or visiting eastern european towns? 99% percent of what is discussed on this site does not come into play in eastern europe. finding drop dead gorgeous girls is the last thing that you need to worry about in this region. the thread could deal with questions, hints, links, etc. about the region.

 

[thegamedontwait]

@Kevin00:

What kinda surprises me, is that you're from Toronto - a city where (over?!)50% of the population is supposed to be foreign-born. I mean of course a lot of them might have lived in toronto long enough to be influenced by other canadian women from toronto and the u.s. ...but shouldn't it be like reeeeal easy for you to get to know foreign women who dont have those kinda issues anyways, without even focussing on it living in such a multicultural environment? (I'm from germany and I know some girls from eastern europe who are what you'd call a lot more caring and nice etc. ...and they havent given up on that even though they've lived here for most of their lives)

Other than that I have to say, I think you're exaggerating but I'm still feeling you though. Like I said I'm from germany and we have the same type of problem here. I mean I don't have anything against women wanting equal rights and stuff but some of them just take it overboard and need to pop a chillpill. And..well...if I look at southern european girls for example it's kinda like wow..those girls sometimes really wear skirts...they kinda 'worship' their men (I couldnt think of a better word but I dont mean it in a degrading way at all). But basically..I guess a lot of my friends say the same thing about german girls, but actually I do know quite a few who are in fact what Id consider nice girls

Anyways...Being feminine and liking to cook and..basically being nice and caring is a value that everybody who seeks a longterm relationship should look for...I mean right now looks are more important to you guys..and they are important to me too...but hopefully ull still be alive in your 40s...50s etc. and have a family and in that case I'm sure you'll see that it pays off lol

 

[ricorico]

Foreign women who are in the U.S. even for one week get picky if they are good looking. That is a fact. What Kevin does'nt realize is soon as he brings her over to this country,she will look to upgrade him after 2 years. He better start reading message boards like Russian women never again, or tons of other ones where years back, the guys were so optimistic thinking all the FW were supermodels waiting for a good guy.

They mostly have all got reality checks. These FW will want what other women in the U.S. want financially after a few years. As soon as they get the "green card" a majority split.

Yeah, they're nice back in their country. But unless yoiu choose a FW with money already, you are in for a rude awakening!! They are nice to you because Americans are preceived as rich. If you aren't and she is hot GOOD LUCK!!! You better have game.

The guys on message boards that have been able to keep their beautiful FW after 3 years are the RICH guys. Some will even admit economics is a large part of why she stays.

Also, there was a study done on what perecentage of FW loved their Western spouse before marriage. 90% did not. They hoped to grow and love him. While 99% of the men were in love. Very telling.

There is also a Russian website called Antidate but it is in Russian. Get a good translator and you will see how a majority of the RW on that site cannot stand their American husbands and are counting days to their green cards. They even give each other advice on how they can file fake domestic violence actions on him in order to stay in the U.S. That of course is if they REALLy can't stand him. Women are the same everywhere.

 

[OrioleMagic]

You have to look for the same characteristics in foreign women that you look for in American women. Basically, you are looking for a woman who is not self-centered and is dedicated to you. If you impress a FW with your "wealth" and she is from a 3rd world country, and then she comes to the US and finds out you are middle class, she will leave you for the first rich man that comes along. I have heard a lot of horror stories about Russian women, there seems to be better results with Asian and African women. Russia is very Westernized, the only difference is the lower standard of living. If you think you can bring a woman back to the US from some foreign country and treat her like a slave and have her treat you like a god, you are in for a rude awakening. She will probably divorce you, take most of your money, and you might land in jail. I think a successful marriage is possible if you are perceptive about a woman's true personality. Do this by giving her tests. I did this recently with a woman I was talking to online. She was telling me "I love you" and feeding me a line of BS, and we had just started talking. I had a friend of mine, message her, and start chatting with her, and soon she was telling him "I love you" too. You can always tell a woman's personality by her actions in certain circumstances. I always tell FW that I am poor and struggling (I am a student, so it is sort of true). This tends to weed out the overt gold-diggers.

Side note: Outside the Westernized world, obesity is almost unknown. I have only ever seen 1 pic of a fat West African woman, and she was more chubby than fat.