Scared of losing my virginity

[Avsguy01]

21 YEAR OLD

Man dont feel so bad. I think i have it worse than you. Im 21 and a virgin. Ive had a few chances but just never took them probably cause of the same reasons that your having. Im a pretty decent looking guy with a great personality but it just hasnt happened. I feel bad about it at times as well but ya know what? Just dont think about it. The more you do the more you get depressed. Anyway good luck and happy pu$$y hunting wish me some as well.

Later,
Michael

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Dude, my g/f's Dad didn't lose his until I think he was in his late 20's... he's a proud grandpa of 7 kids now.

 

[Bungo Pony]

Re: Research may help

Originally posted by High Voltage
alboh,

First let me say you're not alone. I'm 22 and a virgin. Like you, I've had moments in the past (thanks to this site!) when I could have gone all the way but I declined. Call me idealistic, but I want my first time to be quality and meaningful.

This is the way I was. I lost my virginity at age 20 - when I was an AFC
I could have lost it at 17, but I'm glad I didn't. That girl wasn't what I would call "quality". Don't stress it too much, we all have our times come when we're NOT hesitant about losing it to the girl we're currently with.

As for knowing where to stick it, do what I did. Rent some pornos and you'll get a clear view!

 

[Unbridled_1]

whatever happened to Alboh, I think he's posting under a different name because of his 500 post challenge or something. Or he died of SARS.

 

[sesloc]

Don't rush it, sex is overrated. ALWAYS focus on your career and making money. Women will always be here.

 

[Bonhomme]

Practice makes less imperfect.

Don't sweat it, man.

There are a lot guys on this forum who would *kill* for your problem. You're doing well.

But you can learn *control* by using your own five fingers. Before I lost my virginity I read up on control techniques and pracitced them with the imaginary girls of my dreams. And by the time I finally did it, my first sexual partner -- who was *very* experienced -- had no idea it was my first time.

So, get to work. And enjoy your improved life.

 

[Panther]

Just tell the first girl that you are not. Then after you have sex with her, if she realises (which she probably will) that it WAS your first time, and calls it up on you then you can say "Well, I'm not anymore!" or "Actually this was my second time" or something.

There is absolutely no reason to tell someone you are a virgin!

ThePanther - DJ cadet

 

[One on One]

I'm 21 and a virgin. I'm actually waiting for marriage, which probably makes me sound like a pansey around here. Anyways, you're not alone and it's not a bad thing. The way I see it, if the girl turns you down because you're a virgin, she's not worth it. I'd prefer a virgin girl anyways.

 

[es_mer8]

I'm 18 and still a virgin. The reason is because all through life I figured that I was never good enough for the attractive bunch. My friends suggested I start low and go up. I realized that I could not do that and I basically save myself for the 7s and up. However you can't get 7s by sitting around and they won't come up to you. I also thought that being smart and strong would get the ladies. It didn't help that my friends were spreading BS about me being a loser and a masturbator. However the key to me is just put the past **** behind and look towards the future.

I feel that I will lose it here during summer vacation or sometime this year at college. I know its coming soon. Am I scared to lose it? Not really. I realize that I will most likely suck but how would I know? Maybe I'll be halfway decent the first time. She may be the one who is bad. I think when it happens, I'll just strap on the rubber and the rest will happen. Due to the fact that I masturbate quickly, I'm not sure if I will ejaculate easily. If it takes me hours to do it, thats great.

 

[Unbridled_1]

Alboh, what if you die of SARS before you lose your virginity? That would be sad, and yet funny.

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by One on One
I'm 21 and a virgin. I'm actually waiting for marriage, which probably makes me sound like a pansey around here. Anyways, you're not alone and it's not a bad thing. The way I see it, if the girl turns you down because you're a virgin, she's not worth it. I'd prefer a virgin girl anyways.

For the record, I ended up losing my virginity this weekend to a 28 year old slut from the club. I have mixed feelings on this right now, but I had been wanting to lose it.

 

[SDBmania]

I'm almost 23 and still a virgin. I don't see anything wrong with that. It's about what you want, not what everyone else wants.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Being a virgin is not a sin nor a crime. I don't understand the obseesion with losing 'it'.

 

[Big-J]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Being a virgin is not a sin nor a crime. I don't understand the obseesion with losing 'it'.

It's there to be lost

 

[squirrels]

F**k what your roommates think. I made no secret of the fact that I was a virgin when I was, and some of the guys here at work STILL think I am.

I told girls straight up, too. They were always like, "You're so full of sh*t." And I was a virgin until I was 24.

So frikkin relax. Don't treat sex like it's so "must-have" and like what your boys think of your womanizing skills has anything to do with your self-worth. You think sex is the end-all, be-all of life? Read this. http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47516

They're just girls. Seriously, man.

 

[Mr. Delicious]

If you havent already look at my post about losing my virginity. Losing the viriginity is very overrated. I am 22 and just lost mine so dont worry about getting old.

 

[Unbridled_1]

Apparently he got over his fear

 

[johnny_chase]

I'm almost 21 and still a virgin. It's no big deal. I know there was a time when i was around 17 when i felt pressured to just settle for wahat i could get, but didnt. Now all of my friends regret that they lost it so early, as do most of the girls i know who lost it early. I dont understand where all this pressure comes from. When i find a girl that i want to stick my **** in, i'll do it when i'm good and ready. I dont care if people know, and if they dont know. If they ask, i dont lie.

Some girls ask, usually the young ones, because it's such a big deal for them, but from what i've heard from my friends it's over rated. I'm waiting till i find a real special girl who dosent give a **** about stuff like that and just wants to spend time with me. Besides, girls dont start having real sex till their around 19 or 20 anyways.

Just relax dude

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

No actually Im the most pathetic ****er here. I had a three year relationship and my gf didnt wanna **** because she said she wasnt ready. Now she dumped me for another guy and I swear I will never trust a woman again.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by One on One
For the record, I ended up losing my virginity this weekend to a 28 year old slut from the club. I have mixed feelings on this right now, but I had been wanting to lose it.

looks like your raging testosterone finally got the best of you