saying i love you

the_azn_fu · Dec 22, 2006

ive always heard that you should not say "i love you" everytime you talk to or hang up on your girlfriend because it could get worn out. if thats the case, how would you explain yourself when she says "i love you" and is waiting for a response?

thanks

Thugo · Dec 22, 2006

the_azn_fu said:
ive always heard that you should not say "i love you" everytime you talk to or hang up on your girlfriend because it could get worn out. if thats the case, how would you explain yourself when she says "i love you" and is waiting for a response?

thanks

"ditto" !

but I usually just say "me too"

sav · Dec 22, 2006

or the classic "i know" lol

anointed · Dec 22, 2006

i love me too

amoka · Dec 22, 2006

It is ok to say I love you..

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with saying "I love you". The problem many people have here is that they take everything read here too seriously. There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling your girl you love her after she says it to you. The reason why people are causioned on saying "I love you" is because some of the AFCs over-use the phrase hoping to get sex in return or hoping the girl won't leave him because "she knows I love her." If your girl says I love you, say I love you too. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Spartibus · Dec 22, 2006

amoka said:
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with saying "I love you". The problem many people have here is that they take everything read here too seriously. There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling your girl you love her after she says it to you. The reason why people are causioned on saying "I love you" is because some of the AFCs over-use the phrase hoping to get sex in return or hoping the girl won't leave him because "she knows I love her." If your girl says I love you, say I love you too. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

The problem is when the girl says it, and waits for you to say it back, when you DON'T really love her.

It's painful to say I love you to a girl you don't really love. Ya dig?

insanity · Dec 22, 2006

hearing a girl saying i love you rocks. theres 365 days in the year and i have heard her say it to me like 1 billion times and it never gets old. just say it like when your mom drops you off in front of your friends and she says i love you. act all manly and roll your eyes and say it. they know you'll mean it. play it tough though. sappy i love you's are lame.

amoka · Dec 22, 2006

Spartibus said:
The problem is when the girl says it, and waits for you to say it back, when you DON'T really love her.

It's painful to say I love you to a girl you don't really love. Ya dig?

If you don't love her why are you in a relationship with her. If it is just a FB you created, just make it known to her that you're not ready to be in a relationship at a moment with her, but rather for the casual sex. Period.

Spartibus · Dec 22, 2006

insanity said:
hearing a girl saying i love you rocks. theres 365 days in the year and i have heard her say it to me like 1 billion times and it never gets old. just say it like when your mom drops you off in front of your friends and she says i love you. act all manly and roll your eyes and say it. they know you'll mean it. play it tough though. sappy i love you's are lame.

But what of you don't mean it?

Don't EVER tell a girl you love her if you don't really love her.

insanity · Dec 22, 2006

i mean it when i say it. but it doesn't come off as lame. i was dropping my woman off at college and when she said have a good day i love ya i just rolled my eyes and mumbled i mlnlove you t...oo. an older lady heard that and said that was so cute and it made her day.

Bible_Belt · Dec 23, 2006

Did you guys tell her first, before she said it to you?

Last Man Standing · Dec 23, 2006

amoka said:
If you don't love her why are you in a relationship with her. If it is just a FB you created, just make it known to her that you're not ready to be in a relationship at a moment with her, but rather for the casual sex. Period.

Casual sex and "relationship" and "F" buddies are the same thing!! Don't try to dignify hors - it can't be done!!!

Spartibus · Dec 23, 2006

Last Man Standing said:
Casual sex and "relationship" and "F" buddies are the same thing!! Don't try to dignify hors - it can't be done!!!

Thank you. Love is for p/ssies.

Scorched · Dec 23, 2006

It is fine to say it after she says it...

I refuse to tell a girl I love her first...

Last Man Standing · Dec 23, 2006

Not too many girls love me - but this crazy one said she loved me and I just stood there and I knew I had to respond in the affirmative but I didn't love her so I stuttered and blushed and said, I, I, I, I, I, I, I gotta go!!

I was 16 y/o!

typical · Dec 23, 2006

Last Man Standing said:
Casual sex and "relationship" and "F" buddies are the same thing!! Don't try to dignify hors - it can't be done!!!

Read that and weep guys, for me personally saying I Love You to a girl just isnt going to ever happen, girls just want you to say it so they can stroke their egos, not hating on them or anything but nah I'll never ever say it.

They dont change with age or wisdom, you cant even talk to them about doing your car up without them getting bored, all they want is constant attention just like a 2 year old child, they get off on it.

If they do say I love you and want an answer back say the usual I know or me too, nothing more, let them squirm over those 3 words and that gives you the power in the relationship, and trust me the world revolves around power nothing else just power. (your gonna have to think outside the square to understand that)

Last Man Standing · Dec 23, 2006

typical said:
Read that and weep guys,

I think I just called somebody's girlfriend a hor!!

Don't be so sensitive - you are on a seduction site! Keep fooling yourself that you are someone special and that she is someone special - you are just the next pimp in line!!! The posts on here prove it everyday!!

Don't cry when "your" "girl" gives head to another dyck!!! Hors have no rules, kid!!!

Zerotwoonenine · Dec 23, 2006

what is wrong with you guys, seriously u guys disgust me, its ppl like u that make our society lack love now days, thats y u lot cant ever fall in love with a girl and know how wonderfull it is.
REAL MEN CAN LOVE, ONLY P>SSYS HIDE THEIR EMOTIONS.
Weak fkers call your selves DJs, if you cant take the rise of falling in love and risk giving your heart, how could you call your selves men???
A real man can give and receive real love.

Thugo · Dec 23, 2006

Zerotwoonenine said:
what is wrong with you guys, seriously u guys disgust me, its ppl like u that make our society lack love now days, thats y u lot cant ever fall in love with a girl and know how wonderfull it is.
REAL MEN CAN LOVE, ONLY P>SSYS HIDE THEIR EMOTIONS.
Weak fkers call your selves DJs, if you cant take the rise of falling in love and risk giving your heart, how could you call your selves men???
A real man can give and receive real love.

Nice SIG.

I gave you a rep point alright... a negative one.

Raikojo17 · Dec 23, 2006

Thugo said:
Nice SIG.

I gave you a rep point alright... a negative one.

no, the guy has a point. why would a man be afraid of his true feelings and hide them? u guys arent afraid to hide ur want for sex, why be afraid of love? good point, Zerotwoonenine

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