Being cold approached on the street by a woman is extremely unlikely in North America, even if you are a very good looking guy. That’s why the dude probably thought that he was being set up to get robbed or scammed. And he was probably right.
I agree that insecurity can be attractive. Though due to correlating it with innocence, not due to feeling needed. Innocence can be an aphrodisiac. That's one reason why I think men like virgins. One is less likely to be cuckholded, and have one's genes wiped from existence while having the greatest chance at pair bonding.
Being nervous around someone you find attractive is normal and something that most men and women experience on some level. Some hide it better than others but those who don’t feel it at all are likely psychopaths. This has nothing to do with being insecure though.
That's from Narcissism, which is a mask people hide behind to cover up their insecurity. I know this because this is the problem I have.
Actually it's the opposite, narcissists use this tactic to lure people in. It's called Love Bombing and it's how they get someone hooked. I know this works since this is exactly what I used to do early on without even realising it. It's like a drug I got the girls addicted to my constant attention and when i took it away it made them desperate for more.
That's a good point. Another thing is that because it is pretty rare, the guy will probably think she is easy and does it to everyone and has STIs.
They were made for loving them, baby ...
agree, but it only seems to activate at very close range. from a distance no.
You're not like all the other girls? Never heard that one before....
Every woman I know is an anomaly vs all the other women, they have told me so.
I would consider this an approach. Had you only sat in that location and nothing said from you, it is still an approach. It's not balanced, you moved in, and initiated, good job.
Oh yeah,I’ve been approached quite a bit.Everything from 4s to 8s.The ones on the lower end were a lot more direct,the means of approach got a lot more covert the higher up the scale they went.Save for one 8,who was a vamp,the more attractive ones dropped IOIs or used their friends.A lot of these were in my blue pilled days though,so I fumbled the ball quite often lol.
Agreed. A guy who needs to prove he’s a man isn’t one.
There is a difference between her walking up and introducing herself and letting him know she exists...--vs-- asking the guy out and "being the man" in the situation. I always tell woman to put themselves in the orbit of the men they are interested in,...then it is up to the guy to respond from that point. There is the feminine role, and the masculine role. Tell the kids to "color within the lines".
Yes. Exactly. You are covering the feminine role, following feminine nature,...then allowing him to follow his nature and handle the masculine role.
Dude, you don't get it because of the culture you live in,...sorry,...but Sweden leads the world on having the intersexual dynamics between men and women totally screwed up. In Sweden the women ARE the men,...and the men ARE the women. Totally feminist dominated and "woke".
He is cute. He is sexy. He is hot. He is handsome AF. He is slightly sly, very silly and he’s sweet. All the above. But I know him now.
As a guy, I like to be opened by women indirectly. Mainly because I get turned on by confident women. The whole meek, coy, shy girl act frustrates me to no end. In feeling that way I have to demonstrate that I am a sociable person by initiating conversations with other people, in order to give the approachable vibe, and stimulate the competitive spirit in those women to act on their attraction.
Especially in the way described in the scenario. Even if he wasn't being setup, it was a high enough of a probability for him to decline immediately.
