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I didn't want to derail this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=200480
but I had such strong feelings about a discussion I've been having with a friend and the point that was brought up here about people becoming bored with their girlfriends.
I am really pro marriage lately, having been part of the nomarriage forums and a proponent of MGTOW. As some of you may know, my wife is Chinese and I live in the PRC. Many of my friends are also married and we spend a lot of time pursuing hobbies and what not together. While there are a few problems with China in general, the society largely supports marriage and promotes family structure. Men buy houses and cars prior to marriage and women tend to want to stay home and take care of the children. The Chinese are taking over economically and looking out my window I can see 5 apartment buildings currently going up beside mine and a couple more in the next neighborhood over. My city alone has 30 MILLION people.
Something the West has lost, is the ability for people to work together and trust each other. Feminism, largely to blame for this, has forced men to adapt by striking down marriage and mimicing criminal/alpha behaviors. The constant pursuit of animalistic sex and singledom is creating and perpetuating this 'family' and moral void. By becoming a DJ or PUA you are feeding the feminist trolls and creating a larger divide between the sexes and ultimately the family structure. Men cannot work together if we are always pursuing women and letting our animalistic ego takeover our lives. At some point we need to take some responsibility for our actions and use our self control to put our sexual energies into something more constructive. Consistently dating yields nothing for you in the way of longterm security and societal stability. PUA lifestyle reinforces nothing and is just a huge waste of time. Learning how to seduce women is valuable but give the gift of seducing the one you are with and creating a life with her.
When I met my wife, I knew instantly that she was the one I would want in a supporting role. She was the first girl I met here and is the one I've held on to the longest. She was very receptive to my advances, which felt like overkill and actually left me feeling quite dirty. She suggested within a week that she become my girlfriend. She currently cleans/cooks/knits/budgets and takes cooking and baby caring classes. She wears dresses, platform boots and pantyhose which is pretty standard for asian girls... and she is a high 8. I am a little bored with the sex after 2 years but she has so many other good qualities and is a best friend I would hate to lose. I don't want her to cheat and feel that I must hold myself to the same standard I have for her. I am willing to forego sex with multiple women to have this peace of mind and pass it on to my children. I will be having kids with her and I work hard and do my best to make more money for our family even though she calls me a workaholic... When I was out PUAing, my goal was not to work at all, my attitude has done a total 180 since meeting her. The strange thing is that I also want my friends to have this. I always setup guys I meet off the pickup forums with girls. If you come to asia, I guarantee you will not go without for more than 2 days. This is the thing, my wife is not a diamond in the rough, she is quite common place in Asian society. There are armies of women just like her. These kinds of women are good for society and help men work together. There is enough for everyone here, I don't worry about my friends preying on my wife because I know they are being well cared for at home. The guys here don't even think red pill/blue pill and don't need to, their women naturally produce all the healthy red pill behaviors. Import them or export yourself, its no longer a matter of the West vs the East, its now a matter of blood lines disappearing completely. Don't let this happen to you. Chinese love white guys, Japanese love black guys, I've seen girls with Indian guys and obviously Asians can get married here too, there is enough for everyone.
The West, very few will argue, is currently being reconstructed and systematically failing on every level. The 1st world countries were built by men working together for the common good. We built welfare systems, educational institutions, space exploration, infrastructure, wealth and in my case healthcare to take care of our future. I'm proud to say I belonged to people who took us to the moon. They managed to do this by sharing resources, in particular women. People were married, had families and their priorities were straight: Build a better society for our future. Invent and create and help each other. Somewhere in that mix, feminism was invented and morphed into what we have today. Now we are moving backwards in regards to nearly everything that we've striven to build. Greed is rampant, people are out of control and the economy is in the dump. Men can no longer function as contributing human beings in current western society and men's natural impulses are vilified. We are pitted against each other for competition over women. Infact I would argue that men AND women's natural impulses are being repressed. Instead we have new 'modern' families being promoted such as single mothers and gay parentage. How long will it be before we have full blown state parentage.
It is normal for men and women to feel repulsed when a man wears a dress and pantyhose and tries to act feminine just as we are revolted when a woman acts 'butch' and tries to mimic masculinity. Follow your instincts.
The current working nuclear families are muslim or asian. Almost all of the pure white families we know of are broke and disorderly and white men tend to have a 'peter pan' outlook towards things and a general disdain for young children. By the way we were once kids, its a sad day when white families everywhere are trying to commit self genocide. Our genetic line is important to the world, we have natural blondes, brown and gold hair colours and eye-shades. Also our genetic line carries with it strength against certain diseases that other races do not possess. It will be a sad day when white genes do not get passed on to the future generation, just as it would be a sad day if any of the other races simply disappeared off the face of the earth... (for me it would be asians). Black guys, Asian guys, Indians, colored of all races are fans of our women and can all benefit from white genes in their pool. If you guys want to see more healthy white looking women and eventually have a bit of white in your blood line, white men also have to prosper. We are not the enemy the government and feminist movement so badly wants you to believe.
Why is the current moral fabric of society so bad and the promotion of LGBT, single motherhood and singledom approved? Simple, there are no more families with strong family values to argue against it. We are so busy fighting ourselves and each other that they are taking over. How much time is spent in the gym 'getting fit' for women or 'improving yourself' for women. Feminists and anti-family constructs have made it so difficult to seek out mates that men are turning to foreign asylum. Come abroad, meet good women and have true male friendships.
Please guys get married and have kids, it doesn't have to be a western woman! I don't want to live in a world where we are all tied to the current system and there are little in the way of improvements being made. I have friends here from every race and I'd like to keep it that way. Go foreign, pick up women that only show feminine behaviors and want to embrace their femininity and support you in a male role.
We can send a clear message to the human race. You can wine and dine women that actually deserve it and we can out breed feminism and eventually work together. I don't have all the answers, just this one:
I look forward to a future where my children can play with yours.
but I had such strong feelings about a discussion I've been having with a friend and the point that was brought up here about people becoming bored with their girlfriends.
I am really pro marriage lately, having been part of the nomarriage forums and a proponent of MGTOW. As some of you may know, my wife is Chinese and I live in the PRC. Many of my friends are also married and we spend a lot of time pursuing hobbies and what not together. While there are a few problems with China in general, the society largely supports marriage and promotes family structure. Men buy houses and cars prior to marriage and women tend to want to stay home and take care of the children. The Chinese are taking over economically and looking out my window I can see 5 apartment buildings currently going up beside mine and a couple more in the next neighborhood over. My city alone has 30 MILLION people.
Something the West has lost, is the ability for people to work together and trust each other. Feminism, largely to blame for this, has forced men to adapt by striking down marriage and mimicing criminal/alpha behaviors. The constant pursuit of animalistic sex and singledom is creating and perpetuating this 'family' and moral void. By becoming a DJ or PUA you are feeding the feminist trolls and creating a larger divide between the sexes and ultimately the family structure. Men cannot work together if we are always pursuing women and letting our animalistic ego takeover our lives. At some point we need to take some responsibility for our actions and use our self control to put our sexual energies into something more constructive. Consistently dating yields nothing for you in the way of longterm security and societal stability. PUA lifestyle reinforces nothing and is just a huge waste of time. Learning how to seduce women is valuable but give the gift of seducing the one you are with and creating a life with her.
When I met my wife, I knew instantly that she was the one I would want in a supporting role. She was the first girl I met here and is the one I've held on to the longest. She was very receptive to my advances, which felt like overkill and actually left me feeling quite dirty. She suggested within a week that she become my girlfriend. She currently cleans/cooks/knits/budgets and takes cooking and baby caring classes. She wears dresses, platform boots and pantyhose which is pretty standard for asian girls... and she is a high 8. I am a little bored with the sex after 2 years but she has so many other good qualities and is a best friend I would hate to lose. I don't want her to cheat and feel that I must hold myself to the same standard I have for her. I am willing to forego sex with multiple women to have this peace of mind and pass it on to my children. I will be having kids with her and I work hard and do my best to make more money for our family even though she calls me a workaholic... When I was out PUAing, my goal was not to work at all, my attitude has done a total 180 since meeting her. The strange thing is that I also want my friends to have this. I always setup guys I meet off the pickup forums with girls. If you come to asia, I guarantee you will not go without for more than 2 days. This is the thing, my wife is not a diamond in the rough, she is quite common place in Asian society. There are armies of women just like her. These kinds of women are good for society and help men work together. There is enough for everyone here, I don't worry about my friends preying on my wife because I know they are being well cared for at home. The guys here don't even think red pill/blue pill and don't need to, their women naturally produce all the healthy red pill behaviors. Import them or export yourself, its no longer a matter of the West vs the East, its now a matter of blood lines disappearing completely. Don't let this happen to you. Chinese love white guys, Japanese love black guys, I've seen girls with Indian guys and obviously Asians can get married here too, there is enough for everyone.
The West, very few will argue, is currently being reconstructed and systematically failing on every level. The 1st world countries were built by men working together for the common good. We built welfare systems, educational institutions, space exploration, infrastructure, wealth and in my case healthcare to take care of our future. I'm proud to say I belonged to people who took us to the moon. They managed to do this by sharing resources, in particular women. People were married, had families and their priorities were straight: Build a better society for our future. Invent and create and help each other. Somewhere in that mix, feminism was invented and morphed into what we have today. Now we are moving backwards in regards to nearly everything that we've striven to build. Greed is rampant, people are out of control and the economy is in the dump. Men can no longer function as contributing human beings in current western society and men's natural impulses are vilified. We are pitted against each other for competition over women. Infact I would argue that men AND women's natural impulses are being repressed. Instead we have new 'modern' families being promoted such as single mothers and gay parentage. How long will it be before we have full blown state parentage.
It is normal for men and women to feel repulsed when a man wears a dress and pantyhose and tries to act feminine just as we are revolted when a woman acts 'butch' and tries to mimic masculinity. Follow your instincts.
The current working nuclear families are muslim or asian. Almost all of the pure white families we know of are broke and disorderly and white men tend to have a 'peter pan' outlook towards things and a general disdain for young children. By the way we were once kids, its a sad day when white families everywhere are trying to commit self genocide. Our genetic line is important to the world, we have natural blondes, brown and gold hair colours and eye-shades. Also our genetic line carries with it strength against certain diseases that other races do not possess. It will be a sad day when white genes do not get passed on to the future generation, just as it would be a sad day if any of the other races simply disappeared off the face of the earth... (for me it would be asians). Black guys, Asian guys, Indians, colored of all races are fans of our women and can all benefit from white genes in their pool. If you guys want to see more healthy white looking women and eventually have a bit of white in your blood line, white men also have to prosper. We are not the enemy the government and feminist movement so badly wants you to believe.
Why is the current moral fabric of society so bad and the promotion of LGBT, single motherhood and singledom approved? Simple, there are no more families with strong family values to argue against it. We are so busy fighting ourselves and each other that they are taking over. How much time is spent in the gym 'getting fit' for women or 'improving yourself' for women. Feminists and anti-family constructs have made it so difficult to seek out mates that men are turning to foreign asylum. Come abroad, meet good women and have true male friendships.
Please guys get married and have kids, it doesn't have to be a western woman! I don't want to live in a world where we are all tied to the current system and there are little in the way of improvements being made. I have friends here from every race and I'd like to keep it that way. Go foreign, pick up women that only show feminine behaviors and want to embrace their femininity and support you in a male role.
We can send a clear message to the human race. You can wine and dine women that actually deserve it and we can out breed feminism and eventually work together. I don't have all the answers, just this one:
I look forward to a future where my children can play with yours.
