Rushing Dudes DJ Journal

[rushing dude 123]

Thanks captain J, i would like to say i am back, but i talk with action not words. I am coming back though and i have just started the bootcamp again. I would of posted my bootcamp on signature but not enough room so i will post here.

Rushing Dudes Bootcamp Journal

 

[rushing dude 123]

Hey Noob yeh i am getting there, but things are still bit complicated, but still looking good.

So for the update Bootcamp will begin on may 15th, but i wanted to get warmed up early, so i will start tommorow, i havn't read material, but just wanted to get vibe of where i am at the moment. I called my potential girl that i could of had a "ok" relationship with today and i have just decided to be friends and that nothing will go with me and her, i am starting from scratch i don't want the comfort of that just because it is there. I want to pick the girl rather than taking what i have just going at the time. These first few are going b awkward but whatever...

Yippie ka ya mother ****er

 

[rushing dude 123]

Return To Game

Alright guys nothing special four blow outs today, but i just wanted to see where i was at and what i can work on. I also got to meet rockyroc another dj on this site, very calm and a good talker, if he can get into a set i am sure he will not have to much problem sealing it, it was nice meeting him.

Has i met him there was a girl behind the table i opened.

RD: hey if a guy came over and talked to u right now, what would u think, "yeh sure if he is cute" or "more oh no he is going to try and hit on me".
HB: hm a bit of both. (she smiles and it looked like it was opened well seeing by her responce she was accepting my behaviour)
RD: o so does this happen a lot.
Hb: hm every once in a while
(add awkward silence here....i was totally speachless)
RD: ok kool (wtf!!!!)

Here i should of maybe asked on what happened with the last one or maybe say something like "yeh wow i wished i had the gutts to do that" and then just some general conversation maybe ask her if she is on break of work or sight seeing or just asked her about her sandwhich for frick sake lol.

The other 3 were blow outs straight away, two of which i got a smile and i could of probablly got the set, but i noticed and rocky was my body language was off and i could see i had no umph in the approach, so it was blown out has soon has they opened. responses from blow outs i got were..."i don't know u" lol (which, could have a come back of, at one point u never know anyone) and "i am eating and i just want to relax" lol.

I might has well approached robot style, there was no personality or flavour in it. I feel if i can have fun with this again and actually enjoy i can get more positive response. Jeez i can't believe i forgot to have fun and actually do some more wild ****. I am thinking of doing my next approach french "jemapelle jordan, comme appelle tu" wait for them to say we only speack english, then say "yeh me 2" or u can't go with opening the set gay lol.

Another thing i might like to do is make the whole approach a joke for example drop a pen near where a girls sitting "o woops" pick it up "o hey how r u, having a good day r we?" so this girl can actually look at this guy and go, hey he might b fun. Most importantly i WILL HAVE SOME FUN .

So kool i got something to build on now, i will put all of the things i can work.

1. Read some senor fingers on interesting conversation along with my own approaches and build that vibe again so i can gather that rapport and style back.

2. Relax, take set slow no rush, also watch body language.

3. Assume sale on interest and closing.

4. Have fun, do approaches that will make me laugh.

5. Context, work on context, somehow make every set in context even if it is a run up.

6. Do the obvious sets near u that open themselves up aka warm approaching.

7. Move from general conversation, I have got to use to this. Need to add spice and no more "how are u" "what do u do for a living" do new **** something that she hasn't heard before. keep conversations away from general if possible.

8. Think on toes, no script, don't think of what to say before she even says something. Make the conversation two ways not one.

9. Work on life still, usually when i been gym and doing work i am proud of myself and it shows.

10. Forget rejection, this is about me and regardless what happens i am going be happy has long has i do it. I got 4 blow outs today and i got that satisfied feeling in my heart, which i havn't had for a very long time.

 

[rushing dude 123]

i am slowly cashing in my social circles at work ka ching ka ching haha, I am talking to quite few more girls at work and now adding it more than general conversation to more deeper and more playfulness. I was going on break and asked one of the girls who i think is very nice, that i am going to get something to eat and i know that she goes that way anyway so i can just walk down with her. she insisted on going shopping centre too and asked if i could get cup of coffee with her too. I said sure we set to go and then my Gym induction came early....real nice... so i did that instead and just said i will see her another time.

Another girl i am starting to talk to quite lot who i think i stand good chance with i was talking to her for quite a while and she asked me bit on myself and shes quite friendly. My friend decided to come over with a big grin on his face has he looked at me talking to her, which she saw ....real nice.... so i just said i will talk to u in bit. Talked to my friend about "my name is earl" which was on tv and was absoloutely hillarious and i spoke to her bit more and she came over when she finished and said bye to me.

Other girls i got bit of flirt going on but nothing to much, just setting me up for the next time i c them and i will probablly go bit more deeper in conversation.

I do love my job though i just talk to everyone and one of the customers actually said to me "the other instructors usually don't communicate and help out has much has u do, ur always everywhere talking to people and helping them out with there session and it makes u feel more wanted has a customer". Dam i am going to miss this job, it was a good job.

Well guys there is my update it is not really no amazing return, but life is not always like that, things take time and has long has i enjoy myself and i improve at some rate i am happy.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Women are starting to become a task now and it is quite annoying, if i wanted to i could go to several girls i like now and just ask them out and i know it would go pretty well with me and them. But i feel there is still bit of the missing puzzle i need to figure out before i leave. I hope i find this out when i complete the bootcamp, because once i do i am going leave this site and just maintain what i learned and my social skills will just increase anyway because i am a very talkative guy, so i don't really see them going down the drain.

This whole thing has been so much fun for the year and half i have been doing, but it is getting to much of a routine now. the reason i did this was because i had no options, but at moment i have options and i always will have options. I went out tonight, it was fun, but at the same time i found the approaching boring because it is not like i have not done this sort of thing before. The girls use to be all kinda different, but now lately they are to very similar and it is very hard to find a girl that is a bit different from the rest and actually peaks my interest properlly.

 

[rushing dude 123]

I am having problems cold approaching especially on the moving targerts. I am doubting myself a lot, because i been seeing other people do it and getting success 90% of the time with a close. I noticed guys who just start doing it have amazing success, so i am thinking the reason for that is because it comes very genuine, whilst people who have been doing it for time rely to much on things that have worked in the past.

So i feel i got to make approaches genuine, i also feel that i fail to much and lose confidence and stop, but i fail to realise the only way i am ever going to be able to do these approaches with 90% success rate all the time is if i keep failing. I am also caring to much what my friends think, i fail two sets and i feel wow i look like such a loser and i stop. So forget that i don't care this is about me not about anyone else and everyone else can think what they like. If i can do this i should b on point, because i remember when i use to do this not caring how many times i blow out, i think sometimes i blew out 8 times in a row, but then again next i would get loads of successes in a row straight after and after that i hardly ever blew out.

My openers are getting bit better i am having fun with them, i think i got to work on the follow up after opener and transist it well and i am good. I feel i say the same thing that everyone is saying "what do u do for fun?" etc...

I am not happy with what i can do at the moment, so i got to keep working and failing, there are going to b a serious amount of screw ups, but ah what the hell.

I just realised something i have basically got to put the focus on me, rather than the outcome, the success, the outlook, the failure. I got to focus on my improvement and say to myself what is the best way i can improve and more than often it is going to b "approach her".

 

[Violent V]

Hey bro

From what i am reading i believe u should just act more spontaniously and creatively. Make sure it doesn't ever feel anything like routine! Imagine these new girls as completely new islands and cultures that you are going to be exploring. A completely new reality and perspective on the world you will be getting to know!

And try out new wacky and wild approaches on them! Make it as memorable as possible.

Good to see you back here again. Wanna meet up next weekend?

V

 

[djinhell]

I do like reading this journal...takes a lot of commitment and balls to do what you do!

I must say, as a southerner myself, im pleasantly suprised there is actually a group of DJ's in London who go out and about together....I thought it was mainly the big city american DJ's on this forum that did that!

good luck with it!

DJ IN HELL

 

[rushing dude 123]

dam i sucked tonight i got a number, which i am sure is very flakey even the approach for her and her friend was "do u want a free hug" haha. All my sets were blow outs jeez every single last one of them lmao. Am i getting worst? lol dam. Anyways what i have been thinking lately is i will keep away from clubs and i am thinking of working in the day. It is lot harder, but i feel if i can do it in the day i can do it in club at ease. Also my main priority is to be able to get my future wife who would probablly b crossing some heavy traffic road with lots of shopping (she likes to cook? lol) in some years to come. Yeh v sorry u didn't get back in time for bootcamp but pm me ur number and i will call u to set something up next week. Djinhell....yeh english girls seem to hate me i always do better with other girls that are in england and to b honest i prefer them, makes me think if i went to america if it would b any easy. Lot of people are quite closed off in london in my opinion.

Highlight of today was me and my friend getting on bus and just chatting to eachother and rain drops start dripping.

D: its raining
RD: i know....we can c u r the smart one lol
(girl next to us laughs)
D>HB: did u know it was raining?
HB: yes i can c lol
(we get in the bus and we are cramped next to her and the tension is slowly building 2 very slow minutes and then....)
RD: so....do u get buses often?
HB: lol
(me and my friend crack up everyone looking at me like omdz what is this guy doing)
HB: so u two going clubs tonight?
D: yeh we are going to pick up loads of hot chicks and give them high fives
RD: yeh other guys get numbers, we get high fives we rock lol
HB: lol o is that so does it work
RD: of course it works, we get the high five....and then they walk away lmao
HB: lol are u getting same stop has me on ***
RD: no do u think we are stalking u or something, i think she likes stalkers, yeh we have been following u for a while and are feet hurt
HB: really lol, lucky me i am getting off in 10 minutes.
RD: so r we....lol
HB: wow there is some guy laying in road
RD: awesome dude we get her for another 15 minutes
D: did that guy get hit by a bus?
RD: well he is going to get hit by one, o wait bus driver is going round him o he is a smart driver lol
(everyone on bus is cracking up over our conversation)
D>HB: hey can u tell me why girls with boyfriends go to clubs and they tell u they got boyfriends when they don't
HB: i guess they are not interested
RD: Do u have a boyfriend?
HB: yes
RD: lies lol jk, so where u going now
HB: to meet my friend
RD: oooo does ur boyfriend know about this?
HB: lol
D: u can come club with us if u want
HB: no i am kool got to meet my friend
RD: well if u do come we will b the two guys in the corner giving eachother high fives lol
(she asks us about are selfs and she gets off and says bye, i definettly found this a hillarious set)

That was so stupid and bad lol, but ah at least it was enjoyable. There is definettly something missing with me though, i don't know why i feel so bad approaching now a days and why so many girls make it so hard for me. Well anyway i am going out with a chick tommorow i met at gym she is very nice and think i will have good time.

 

[macallik]

lmao, the sh!t about high 5's is hilarious. I just see that you haven't been updating the main journal, rather only the bootcamp journals. You said you got something like 10 plates man, I'm impressed. Keep it up!

 

[rushing dude 123]

I AM BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKK, ok time to set goals.

1. Fitness and training will be set number 1 priority, but i will knock two birds with one stone, i will join new gym and take up a martial art class, bound to get few chicks in it has well maybe and gym should b kool 2.

2. Studying, i got lot of work and will have exams coming up soon so i will use 1-2 hours day to study, but my life will not revolve round them i will still have other times to do stuff.

3. No tv and no more internet, **** this **** been holding me back way to long.

4. If i c a must take opportunity cold approach or not i will take it, i will try out new things and start off bit light and figure out where i have been gone wrong, i already have some ideas what it could be.

5. Now the bootcamp i will do things my way and c what happens. I will go for the kiss when i want, i will call when i think is most suitable for me and i will not give these girls my time like last time, my time is precious.

6. The final one thing, think of my main goals in life, supporting career (that is more or less fine) , love (needs work) and dream (needs a lot of work). Fight for the them do not b controlled by the world, go for it or die trying.

My life changes NOW. I don't care how i will find away to get those eyes i use to have again, but even more better. U probs don't know what i am talking about and think i am crazy, but it dosn't matter lol.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Other parts of my life are still not being met, i have not found another gym yet but i been looking. I am now 20 also i am not some stupid teenager, i got to take order of my life right now, if i don't do it now then it might b to late in the future. So eating healthy, building muscle and endurance also.

Anyway i havn't left girl scene, today i decided to step up, there was girl next to my friend has i was waiting for train, i went for it indirectly, i made myself look stupid but who cares. Then I helped my friend try do some tinted windows for his car but messed it up lol, after played a hell of a football match. Came back home on bus, saw girl sitting in back i moved to back, i didn't make move for like 2 mins just thinking to much, i thought of a good opener i looked at my phone, because i saw her getting her bag probablly meaning she was getting off next stop.

RD: hey this is kinda strange thing to ask but is a size 10 small? because my friend texted me saying she is a size 10 and she is saying she is fat.

it opened up greatly she seemed interested and from looks of it i called of reeled it in, but unfortunatly her stop was next. I didn't even try to close it which is a pity. But jordan 2+ man u did the two opportunitys that presented themselves.

So i am still out there guys, i will take this lot more seriouser now because to b honest i been trying to take the easy way out and i even became everything i didn't want to b, fortunately i looked how i use to see things always looking at the stars no matter how bad things r. Thanks for making me realise that macallik.

So anyway my plan is to change my life and do all the hobbies and skills i want, i got the money now. Then just practise my social skills all the time has i do this. So tommorow i plan to take my family out for a meal and start making goals and things i want to achieve and when/how i will do them.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Ok i am not going to put myself down anymore, but i am not going to ignore bad things either. I went out with girl to play tennis, she brought high heels...., so just did pool, bowling and basketball game instead which i beat her all on i might add lol. I feel she isn't my type so i think i may move on, because i am just calling her because i aint got anything else to do, which is afc, i do not settle for anything. I settle for the best or nothing at all.

So i am thinking of heading back to cold approaching, but i am going to try to develop every cold approach into a well lets say warm approach. For example girl looking at building, pretend building interests u has well look at it for like second or two then just act like wow this chick approached out of no where. Next i am going to try not losing my vibe keep talking even when not going well. I had times when i havn't been very receptive to someone talking to me i hate to say, but they keep going like nothing is wrong and they will suddenly hit a subject that peaks my interest and feel a bit more comfortable round them.

Now more importantly life. I care to much what people think, i can tell this in social ways when i get bad vibe from someone i over think it even if it is minor even if they were the idiots. I don't know why i waste my time thinking like that, my time is for people who r nice and deserve it. Also i was in train and i was chatting to this really cute Hb teacher i knew in gym who could of been great for me and i could tell she liked me, but i afced seeing it was hugely crowded and just said bye and got off. Today saw loads of really cute girls give me lot of eye contact afced those 2 (ps. got to learn how to genuinely smile lol, can i do that? lol) . I also made a plan i got a new boxing club to join and my old one + boxing personal trainer who is good and cheap, swimming pool membership to join, muay thai club and another martial art club among other things like salsa. I was going start today, but people put me in bad mood so i didn't do anything. So screw this tommorow my life changes and it is going b better than it ever has been.

Goals
Join all my clubs
Do all my training
Study
Talk to people put effort in, even in hard situations.


I realised i owe a lot to this site, this feels like home to me.

 

[rushing dude 123]

I am doing stupid approaches lately either to direct or way to indirect i need to get a kinda good in between. I feel also if i was more persistant i could of possibly got further. They r not worthy to list on here even so i won't, but at least i am doing something. I feel i am getting a kinda vibe what to do, the persistance and style needing to be toned, i feel if i can get this right and some other things i know i will b even more succesful than before.

I am kinda still depressed, but u know what, when i do this stuff it makes me feel alive i wanna feel how i use to feel, scratch that, better. Idc about the girl neccessairly so much now, but doing the whole approach is a lot better than nothing. U know what i am talking about guys that "rush" u have just when u go to approach.

Then just taking all ur dreams and wishes and working to make them come true no matter how much everyone says u can't do it and never giving up. I am here right now for this.

I am going read some dj bible, my mind set is getting better and i can see the true me come out has i write this, but i will make it better. I feel this is where the problem lies and yes i will take action starting now and tommorow.

 

[Georgey]

i was in the situation as urs like 3 months ago. it is great, u learn alot a u become more confident and u think like a man. if i got some threads from the bible into my mobile and i read a post by pook every night before bed. i advise u to do the same. there r loads of posts for pook on the forum, get them and move them to ur mobile and read them

 

[rushing dude 123]

Yeh i know what u mean georgie, but if i can apply what i have learned with my old mind set i am certain i would make huge improvements. I am starting to reread the dj bible again and i am just reminding myself of some of the basics again, i been approaching slightly but not to the caliber i want to yet. Alright i am going to update this with a date i been on and a number close, not really great for the time i should of got more, but again i am improving so that is still a good thing.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Ok i am going to start this has date 9, i have been on other dates since date 8, but lets just call this a fresh start.

Date 9

Ok i called the chick set up a date for tennis and i kinda forgot how she looked like so i had a picture of her so i am just trying to match people to her, i was actually going to approach a girl thinking it was her by mistake lol. I then see a girl in jeans and high heels and she comes up to me "hi"...i guess this is her lol.

RD: R u kidding high heels playing tennis?
HB: O we r playing tennis i thought u were joking
RD: no i said i am taking u out to play tennis lol, it dosn't matter i will just make u play in them anyway
HB: o ok (wow she actually would of done it lol)
RD: i am jk lol u kinda suck right now, but i guess we can go and play pool or bowling or something.

So we go set up a game of bowling for a time and she gets her bowling shoes, she takes them off and shes like idk 5ft 2 and shes trying to tip toe to make herself bigger haha. So she puts them on we play pool.

Fast forward i kick her ass first game.

HB: aw no way u beat me (punchs me in arm)
RD: yeh well i wasn't going to get beaten by a girl was i lol
HB: ooo yeh right (punches me in arm again)
*slaps her ass*
HB: ow what was that for
RD: well everytime u hit me i am going slap ur ass seeing thats the only place i would ever hit a woman.
HB: thats unfair (punches me again, she likes it haha)
well long story short i have a big grin on my face shes holding her ass in pain and i kicked her ass in another 2 games lol.

We play bowling and get a lot closer i hold her waist behind her and kiss on her neck bit and run my hand up her sides and such. She does pretty alright we finish off and i go for a kiss, it was just lips and her lips were not very supple has i am use to and it was not exactlly great, but maybe i will update u on her kiss another time.

I walk her to station we watch lake for while i am behind her holding her side running my hand down her ass (shes got a very nice ass though lol) and she says "ugh ur making me horny" i think this would of been good time to maybe start giving the other side a bit of attention lol, but i wasn't thinking right so whatever. I take her to her train and then just go home.

She is dateable, but i don't think this will go relationship wise lacking umph.

 

[rushing dude 123]

I will put a number close i did i think two days ago, there was a cute girl i notice and see every day on train, we havn't ever spoke to eachother, but kinda smile here and there. Shes by herself i felt kinda shaken up for this approach but has soon has i went in there i was alright, It was four seats two facing the other two. Shes reading a book so i sit down opposite and start doing my sudukuo for a few minutes.

RD: so is that ur training book?
HB: o no it is a psychology book i just read it for fun

RD: o really i was actually looking at one a few days ago but didn't have the things i actually wanted about it, i like the more of controlling peoples minds and using nlps and such. But book was on like stuff on social backgrounds.

HB: yeh mine is kinda like that, so why u want to do nlps and control peoples mind and stuff?
RD: well have u ever seen derren brown
HB: no who is her lol
RD: how can u do psychology and not know who derren brown is lol
HB: lol
RD: well he can give u pieces of paper and ask for directions at same time and make u think it is money and he gets like free hot dogs lol
HB: o and is that only why u wanna do it
RD: hell yeh free hotdogs lol
(i give few more examples she asks me bit on myself and careers and such and her area where she lives which i know)
HB: yeh i usually go parks round my area.
RD: really feed ducks and stuff? lol
HB: no pic nics lol
RD: o alright and u don't go to bars or anything
HB: hm sometimes
RD: well sometimes i go round that area, how about me and u get a drink sometime if i am round there, probs not this week or next because i am busy though.
HB: yeh sounds good
(number close)

Shes nice but again i am not seeing to much umph, i guess gotta go out with her to find out. I really don't understand how once i get the girl my interest just goes elsewhere and i just find something wrong with her, but then again sometimes u got to b picky seeing theres billions of girls out there and only one of u.

Ok i will update with one other good news, got call back from a old plate who i got her number in like 1 minute, sent few texts, but she went on holiday. She texted me recently when she came back if we wanna get a drink sometime, which i set a time for. So i will see how that goes.

Ok now for the news which i need to work on. I have bailed on a lot of approaches lately and i feel really dissapointed in myself. There was a latino girl who walked infront of me today and dam her ass was wow and I DIDNT DO ANYTHING DAM THAT COULD OF BEEN MY WIFE JEEZ I HATE DOING SOMETHING SO AFC I WAS LITERRALLY CLENCHING MY HANDS. Worst thing of all i had to watch that ass slowly move away from me further and further i think something died in me inside dam lol. But i am making sure that will not happen again.

Ok to help this going run through few back up openers or more ways to go about certain approaches just in case something dosn't pop in my head right away, which i will try my best not to use. I am going to read another article of dj bible tonight, which i will do everynight hopefully and gain bit of my old mind set back. Feeling a lot better than stupid pessimistic me before screw that guy.

Went boxing today, planned out some training regimes and getting there, not at intensity i wish for. I am feeling bit drained everyday, but its ok. I will try to up pace and make some rest days for other skills such has pool, rockclimbing, guitar, dates, salsa, kendo which dosn't require has much strength but still useful (made enquires of times, places on all these things so i am just not listing random stuff). I am also going to try and push my dates into these skills so i can hit two birds with one stone, get more skill and become a better guy whilst taking out chicks that way no matter what i come back with something.

Main thing i learned is, that i do not need anyone. I don't need no chick no person to be my friend i can get on by myself just fine, but all those who r willing to put effort in i will pay attention to and not waste my time with people who mean nothing to me. Fortunatelly i do have a lot of great friends and some chicks company i do enjoy. I have actually made a lot of friends in past few months who i am seeing very regularly and doing stuff with and meeting even more new people.

 

[rushing dude 123]

RD Update

Still not great but improving, i had so many great opportunitys i even laughed out aloud knowing my eyes r open and seeing the million of them in front of me. Anyway i was doing a group discussion where we had this 45 yr old guy come in who use to be fitiness intructor and a youth worker and to b honest he owned the room everyone grasped on his every word and he had amazing social skills it was like he was born to do this. I remember he even asked a woman "what would u do if a guy would just come off the street and just starting talking to u....nothing huh well u gotta have these social skills in life they are very important and will get u a long way in ur life" I liked the energy he had and i would like something just a bit more regarding the strength, confidence and energy, but not so much the style. I got to just thank him for showing me how something can b done so naturally and ur presence just making someones day. So that was a learning experience.

Anyway i am not going to make some journal of me doing no approaches and just talking garbage. So the rest of my day i went muay thai which was excellent and i had a good trainer. Then i was kinda annoyed at fact of all missed opportunitys and i was thinking on bus, i know i will come and hit hard tommorow. But i said to myself "jordan u know if u leave it tommorow it will never get done and u will just say same thing" A girl sat 2 chairs away from me on bus and she kinda cute.

So i was thinking direct-nope , situational-nope to casual, opinion on clothes- nope i wasn't wearing anything exacllty stands out. So i thought i got to do another indirect opinion opener that brings maybe a bit of romantic interest in it whilst looking natural and i looked at my phone.

RD: Hey i just need ask ur opinion if a girl tells u ur a idiot all the time, does that mean she likes u?
HB:huh no maybe she just dosn't like u.
RD: no i mean has in a joking kind, i would call her stupid head or something and she call me whatever ever day
HB: lol o i c well maybe if it is everday and joke, because if i was to call someone a idiot then that would b it, but if someone tells u every day maybe they might like u
RD: o really maybe so and how about urself r u more straight forward or u go for the ur an idiot approach
HB: probs the ur an idiot approach lol
RD: really does it work
HB: well not now hopefully because i am settled with a guy
RD: really u tell him that everyday when he wakes up kinda like a "i love u" lol
HB: lol
RD: yeh well u girls kind of work in opposites with guys like yes means no, no means yes, but sometimes yes means yes
HB: hm very true, but to b honest i think she likes u
RD: hmmm i guess i will just call her stupid head and c where it goes lol, so anyway where r u from u got an accent on u (guys i hate to use the where ur from, but i couldn't think of any other transists at time dam)
HB: columbia
RD: ah coma estas
HB: nsjofnoonr myui bien lol
RD: so u get the whole drug dealing and mafia stereotype all the time
HB: yes all the time lol
RD: yeh there was girl i knew and i would joke with her and do it with her sometimes and she hated it, so what stereotype u think kinda goes with columbians?
HB: hm coffee we do like our coffee, the real coffee
RD: our us english like our tea, so what is the real coffee the mocha latte
HB: haha not moca latter
RD: r u like in starbucks everyday
HB: well i work there so i would guess so, this is my stop i guess i will c u later
RD: o ok kool c ya.

I was just happy i did it, quite nice to just make a conversation with a random person u don't even know just like that. It was slightly one way with me asking the question, but she was quite receptive to the questions and seemed to of got into the conversation, which kinda bridged the gap between random person and not. Things i could improve would b in that story make the girl either girls because i think she might b bit weird if there is one girl after u and u ask a question on one girl just to go for the next thing on the bus. Or said the girl who sent is nice and good looking and all but lack umph. That way the disqualification is good enough to get under the shield but won't shoot u down later.

So yeh i will keep this going and will not post a post unless i have done an approach. I understand i can't go overboard with the cold approaches, but sometimes it is just neccessairy u get a gutt feeling. For example today on train cute asian chick was looking at me from other side and has i got on train and off and i did NOTHING!!!!! dam and that hurt. That one should of been a sure thing approach even if u didn't have nothing to say a simple "hi" and just wing it would of done.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Right just refresh you on some interactions i had lately. Was on escalator and some chick was behind me and she said.

HB: hi do u know where north greenwich is (shows map)
RD: (tells her how to get there).
HB: o thanks this is first time i have used the underground.
RD: wow really where r u coming from
HB: i am coming from x
RD: wow that is pretty far u have done well to make it this far.
HB: yeh thanks it has been quite trouble to just get here lol
RD: so r u going to this place for the o2 arena to watch harry potter or something
HB: o no lol just going to meet a friend what u doing
RD: Hm well i was trying to get to a salsa class, but my train stopped. I will do something else though dw.
HB: lol o ok kool whats ur name?
(after this bit more talk found out she is a journalist and such, She was nice girl and all but don't think she was my type so i msn closed, but think she wanted me to number close. Has she started putting numbers in my phone)