GoodMan32
Master Don Juan
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You're right, sending messages to broads you've never met behind an electronic screen is a low return on investment.Sending messages behind an electronic screen to a woman you've never met in person before is a low return on effort activity. That was true in the dating website era and has been true in the swipe app era.
The better play is meeting women in real life.
Arranging first dates in real life leads to a better chance of positive outcomes (shorter term sex or longer term relationships with sex being common desired outcomes).
Some guys can also get same night sex from a bar approach. Same day sex off of an approach in a non-bar venue is super rare and barely worth mentioning. Approaches in non-bar venues usually require a bar date/activity date to get to sex.
What I had the highest success rate with as far as tech methods was posting Craigslist ads (back when Craigslist allowed you to post personal/sex ads). That's ideal because rather than wasting your time cold-messaging broads galore, you simply post your ad and let her come to you.
Even cold-messaging on dating sites, however, got me more success in college than in-person approaches did.