Rich BUT still fail with women(myth?)

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

I dont think anyone out there is challenging you when you say some people arent shallow. Atleast I dont. I understand that women are different, some are shallow, some are not. Some require looks, some dont. some like em tall, some like em short, some like big noses, some dont, etc.

But when we say things like "women require a guy to be good looking" we are speaking about the typical woman, the type of woman who makes up majority of the population. we are not actually implying that ::ALL:: women are this way. I mean, It is true that the typical woman is shallow to some degree. We might not be making this clear when we make such general statements, but for future reference, this is what we mean. Atleast, this is what I mean when I make generalizing statements like that.

Thank you for clarifying that for me, you are the first to do so. ^_^ I definitely agree with you about most women being shallow to a degree, I'm not some rabid feminist. However, browsing the forum and reading "ALL women are ______" does set off that little ticker in my brain that says, "hey, I'M not!" I'll be sure to keep this in mind.

Not to sound pompous here, but I also agree when you say that I am not an accurate representation of women. Most of my white friends would not even consider dating someone of another ethnicity. When you said I was unusual, I do hope you meant that in a good way. ;P

And, believe it or not, it was his personality that attracted me to my bf.

Laters~

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

Thank you for clarifying that for me, you are the first to do so. ^_^ I definitely agree with you about most women being shallow to a degree, I'm not some rabid feminist. However, browsing the forum and reading "ALL women are ______" does set off that little ticker in my brain that says, "hey, I'M not!" I'll be sure to keep this in mind.

Not to sound pompous here, but I also agree when you say that I am not an accurate representation of women. Most of my white friends would not even consider dating someone of another ethnicity. When you said I was unusual, I do hope you meant that in a good way. ;P

And, believe it or not, it was his personality that attracted me to my bf.

Laters~

unfortunetly, I think Im one of the very few that means "most women, but not all are ___" when I say "women are____" or "women want___".

I think most guys on here actually mean "all women are.." when they make a generalizing statement like "Women are___".

There are alot of stupid people on this forum, sadly. They dont understand that human behavior is very complex and that there is lots of variance in human behavior from one man/woman to the next. Surprising considering many on here have taken courses in psychology and have done extensive reading in it. You think they would have figured this out from what they have read and from obvious life experience.

Not to sound pompous here, but I also agree when you say that I am not an accurate representation of women. Most of my white friends would not even consider dating someone of another ethnicity. When you said I was unusual, I do hope you meant that in a good way. ;P

And, believe it or not, it was his personality that attracted me to my bf.

Well, I meant it in a neutral way. I knew I was right about you being different than other girls, its good that you confirmed this so no guys will go around using you to compare other women to. I mean statistically speaking, you bear traits/behavior the typical woman doesnt posses.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

I'm sorry you're naive. If you have money and have the pimp/player aura women will flock to you. Unless you are very ugly and or short or have no style.

correction, ::some:: women will flock to you. wow, your naive too. lol.

Theres alot of that going around on this forum, tisk tisk.

 

[Charm]

I'm sorry you're naive. If you have money and have the pimp/player aura women will flock to you. Unless you are very ugly and or short or have no style.

Describe specifically what the pimp/player aura women is that you are speaking of above? It sounds to me that you have been watching too many rap music videos but I'll see by your response to my question whether that is actually the case.

 

[Abbott]

Describe specifically what the pimp/player aura women is that you are speaking of above? It sounds to me that you have been watching too many rap music videos but I'll see by your response to my question whether that is actually the case.

Haha...that's funny.

Rap pisses me off, since it glamorizes everything that's unsavory, it seems.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Aren't all women like that?

Nope.

Plus I sincerely think that Bill Gates and Warren Buffett can get any woman they want, just because they have lots of money.

Yeah, they possibly could if all women were driven primarily by men who have money.

 

[funnydude]

In the end, women want to enter your world. If that world has a lot of glamorous things and the options that money brings, then she will want to stay in it. Women are not attracted to money alone. Try going up to a bar and telling a girl that you are a millionaire and see the response you get. She won't care if you are or not, she cannot be bought. However, if you are confident, funny and a little dangerous and she decides she likes you and wants to go back to your place, your chances of her calling you the next day increase when you drive her to your lake house in your Lexus. Yet if you start talking about your car, your house and how much money you have trying to impress her, she will be instantly turned off and call a cab from her cell phone to come get her.
There are a few gold diggers out there, but they are few and far between. Most women like powerful and rich men because these men are less needy, more confident and have proven they can handle themselves in the world. They are an escort in life that can be trusted.

Larry King and the rest don't get women because they are rich (well maybe if they are marrying him just to divorce him) but because they are famous. There is a percieved familiarity that fame brings and the ability to be attached to the glamorous world of fame is strong motivation for a woman.

Topless bars are full of the rich and powerful, because these guys have no idea how to deal with women. They work their whole lives to be rich, to have things that they think women want, and they are surprised that the woman aren't beating down their doorstep. Maybe they are good guys and can be great husbands/boyfriends and think they are a good "product." The world is full of good products, but no product flies off the shelf by itself. They have to be sold. To sell your "product" to a woman, you have to simply charm her in yourself, not what you can buy her.

Think it over again, how many women do you know that are looking for a serious relationship give a damn about money in the beginning... outside of famous money, that is? Bottom line, confident men get women, and sometimes that same confidence gets them money as well, not the other way around.

 

[persiangino]

When i say pimp/player im not referring to a person dressed in pink fur walking around with a pimp cup . A true player is one with alpha characteristics (IE masculine confidence, good posture, good bl) ; a trait that lures women to you. Now some people use money to emphasize this trait by wearing nice/classy designer clothes, driving nice cars etc. to give their already alpha persona a classy appeal :moon:

 

[hadoken]

I have read some posts on here that claim that you can be rich and still fail with women. This is absolutely stunning to me. Not to make fun of anybody who this has happened to. But how is this even possible?

define rich. If you are really rich like Larry King it applies - just wealthy suburban rich is not gonna cut it if you want to make up for your shortcomings with pure wealth. See Norm Zadeh. He is the epitome of a guy with no game using wealth to get girls.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

When i say pimp/player im not referring to a person dressed in pink fur walking around with a pimp cup . A true player is one with alpha characteristics (IE masculine confidence, good posture, good bl) ; a trait that lures women to you. Now some people use money to emphasize this trait by wearing nice/classy designer clothes, driving nice cars etc. to give their already alpha persona a classy appeal :moon:

stfu, you dont know what you are talking about

 

[bigjohnson]

I see a lot of denial here. Girls like good looking guys. Girls like guys with money. Girls like fit/muscular guys. Girls like confident guys, and money, looks and physique all contribute to a guys confidence level.

Skinny ugly nerds with a job at McDonalds can still score I suppose, but it's just a lot less likely and no magic "system" is gonna fix that.

Improve yourself and your life, improve your results.

Topless bars are full of the rich and powerful, because these guys have no idea how to deal with women.

Wow. Have you EVER been to a strip club? Most of those guys are blue collar losers.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

isn't it just possible that her asian bf happens to have some game. the fact that she's dating an asian doesn't make her weird at all. otherwise you're implying that asians have no chance at most white girls, and i've seen too many asian players to believe this is true. sorry but you need to get away from your backwards, racist views and come into the year 2007.

lol. Okay, its a known statistical fact that most white women dont like asian men, sorry. This means any woman that does like asian men is not your typical woman. Do you get this?

You could try and explain girl_in_a_boy_forum by saying she is typical and it just so happens her asian BF has some amazing game, or you could explain her by saying shes just different than most women. Given the fact that there's probably more women who are okay with asian men thanthere are asian men who have good game, then Id say its more likely the case that shes just different. Then we look at the fact that shes actually interested in posting on this board , , This fact points even more towards the fact that she is different than most women, most women would luagh at this board and have no interest in posting. She also says shes not shallow, most attractive women are shallow to some degree (shes attractive, see her pic), ooo yet another pointer at her being different than the typical gal. Last but not not least, she even said that she is different than most women. Sorry, she displays too many traits that point towards her being different than the typical gal.

So lets look at the evidence here...........

yep we have a winner! shes different than most women, not the same. So this kills the theory that her BF is an asian pimp as you suggest. :moon: Ever heard of logic? try it sometime, its amazing how it points you to the truth.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Whoa, I blink and the thread goes racial and then to cop killing. This thread needs sedation.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

-sigh- I didn't mean to spark a debate!

most white women would prefer a white man over an asian man , but the statistics don't ask whether they could possibly be won over by an asian man who is far more confident, adventurous, and fun than most white men. what makes you so sure that any normal white woman would never date an asian? i also find your attempt at taking on intellectually superior tone to be completely hilarious, considering you can't even spell "laid" properly.

Just for the record, Vu (my bf) is soooo not pimp. I made all the moves.

okay you were just talking about how rare white women who like asian men are. and why are you so concerned with this "typical" woman thing, just because she doesnt fit your exact prototype of a "normal" woman (asian hating, forum avoiding) doesn't mean that her opinion is invalidated. also, just because she wants to help out guys with her opinion doesn't make her weird at all. most girls don't do hip hop dance, so if there's a girl that does , does that make her weird and make her opinion invalid?

Okay, I'm not necessarily weird or abnormal. I don't throw all womenly qualities into a blender and blast it into oblivion. I'm just putting it out there that I'm not a stereotypical gossipy, dumb, make-up wearing girly girl. I'm not a blazing anomaly, but it should be known that there are some things about me that definitely impact my responses on this forum. (My bf for example...he dispells the whole idea that ALL women want tall, ripped, white men.)

not to call her shallow, but you're an idiot to believe that a girl will straight up tell you she's shallow. just because someone says they are not shallow doesn't mean they aren't. you can't take everything at face value. just listen to what you're saying, man. she's weird because she says she's not shallow and she should be because she's attractive?

I'm not going to take up time and space trying to convince you whether or not I'm shallow or ___ or ___, or to validate other aspects of my character. I think that just by reading my posts you should be able to glimpse what kind of person I am. Also, when giving advice, my appearance really shouldn't have an impact on whether it's good or not. I'm rather neutral about my appearance (I don't consider myself attractive or unattractive...I mean, c'mon, I see myself everyday ^_^)

Many women will leap at the opportunity to give men advice about the dating game. However, I will never tell you all women want is a "nice guy" who'll buy them flowers once a week, lavish them in expensive chocolates, and bend and bow to their every whim and need. That's just ridiculous.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

but the statistics don't ask whether they could possibly be won over by an asian man who is far more confident, adventurous, and fun than most white men. what makes you so sure that any normal white woman would never date an asian?

1. THe statistics say it is rare for a white woman to be with an asian guy.
2. THe statistics say most white women DO NOT like asian men, and WOULD NOT date an asian man no matter what.

So if most just wont do it, its obvious that the ones that are dating asian men CANNOT BE that majority that just wont do it. Do you get this?

Besides, she displays other behaviors that are uncommon in the typical girl, so even if we discounted the asian dating statistics, the evidence still points to her not being a typical girl.

okay you were just talking about how rare white women who like asian men are. and why are you so concerned with this "typical" woman thing, just because she doesnt fit your exact prototype of a "normal" woman (asian hating, forum avoiding) doesn't mean that her opinion is invalidated.

When did I say her opinions were not valid? Her opinions are valid. But if she says she doesnt like X, dont extrapolate this to the typical girl and assume the typical girl too will not like X.

Let me ask you somthing, Have you ever taken a course in statistics? do you know what extrapolation is? do you know why its not justified? You really need to be educated on this, becuase you are trying to justify it here.

also, just because she wants to help out guys with her opinion doesn't make her weird at all. most girls don't do hip hop dance, so if there's a girl that does , does that make her weird and make her opinion invalid?

I never said she weird, I never said her opinions are not valid. I only said she is different than the typical girl, and should not be used to make predictions about the typical girl. When using her to make predictions about other women, the predictions should only apply to other women similar to herself.

not to call her shallow, but you're an idiot to believe that a girl will straight up tell you she's shallow. just because someone says they are not shallow doesn't mean they aren't. you can't take everything at face value. just listen to what you're saying, man. she's weird because she says she's not shallow and she should be because she's attractive?

ITs true that she could be lying. But given the details I know about her: Her BF is asian, her BF is shorter than her, hes poor, she displays beavior deviant from the typical girl who usually is shallow, the evidence points to the fact that she is NOT likely to be shallow. So Id say its a safer bet to beleive her than to not.

Heres a question for you: why would a woman who displays behavior rarely seen in the typical woman be more likely to be another typical girl than to just be an atypical girl? I mean, becuase your logic is implying this. Which totally defies inductive logic.

weren't you the same guy who made that big post about how it's okay to kill cops?

Thats irrelevant to this discussion.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

superchill, are you gonna answer my question or what?

come on man, if your so right, you should have no problem proving me wrong. It should be effortless

 

[lookyoung]

GOD OF GETTING LAYED- Yes of course white woman prefer white man. I bet if you polled asian woman they would probably prefer an asian man. It doesn't mean that you can't break that barrier. your shooting all these statitstics at us and u sound more like a rocket scientist than a PUA. pvssy is not that complicated.


I say fvck the logic and the statistics. If your black and want to date a white girl go for it. If your white and want a black guy than go for it. If your asian and want a white girl go for it.


Remember guys your at the top of the food chain. Be a LION . Have the balls to be a Man. Confidence

 

[Latinoman]

Actually, I disagree. I go to the club, looking nice as ****. I get solid eye contact from plenty of women. But still, I come home alone. I got money too, believe it. The last time I got close to bringing a girl home from the club, when they got to my house, they were like "damn, you have a big house," but to be honest, being 'rich' is not all it's cracked up to be. I'm not saying I'm 'rich' necessarily (although the definition of 'rich' is subject to opinion) but I am quite well-off compared to my peers and honestly, I think money has absolutely nothing to do with it.

I used to pull women a lot better when I had barely any money. Rakish, no offense, but you are full of ****.

So, you are telling me that if you are RICH with a YATCH and a PRIVATE PLANE and a PENTHOUSE in Las Vegas or Atlantic City that you might not get any woman?

Please, give me a break.

There plenty of women out there that want men for the money. Ask Anna Nicole Smith (RIP) that married a man that was almost 90 years old (an oil magnate).

 

[Latinoman]

The fact that she has an interest in posting on this site is another example of why she is not your typical woman, most women would luagh at this site and would have no interest in posting on it.

Most women like attention. Most women would post in this Forum if they were to read a few of the threads posted in the mature Forum.

Trust me on that.