CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
Hopefully this will inspire a poster to make similar post regarding their 30s!
1). Approach college differently - Unless you have a scholarship, it is better to wait until you are mature enough. A recent high school graduate lacks real-world experience and has yet to face the responsibilities of adulthood, making it unwise to make one of the most crucial decisions of your life at such a young age. Additionally, do not fall into the misconception that college is the best four years of your life; it is disheartening to think that the peak years of your life will pass by soon. The party scene is overrated and not worth risking your life for. This is not a post against going to college; it is simply acknowledging that it is okay to wait until you are older and more mature.
2). Don't waste energy on politics or ideologies - Unless it benefits you directly, these things are mere hindrances in life. Ultimately, nobody truly cares, and these topics often lead to arguments and dissatisfaction.
3). It's okay to face rejection from women, learn from it, and move on - I used to prolong hopeless situations with women and develop an unhealthy obsession. I blamed external factors like Chad, hypergamy, or the universe, but I never took responsibility for my own actions. First, determine if you had initial control over her interest level or not. Then, evaluate what you did wrong or lacked and how you can improvise.
4). Engage with more women in high school - Although this topic is more relevant to one's twenties, it would have greatly benefited me in my interactions with women during college. College is not as beginner-friendly as stereotypes may suggest. High School actually offers a novice friendly environment because girls are more open and vulnerable in High School.
5). One-night stands are overrated - It wasn't until my third relationship that I truly began to understand how to navigate relationships with women. After that, I stopped concerning myself with red pill ideologies because I realized their true nature. What was the point of having a one-night stand if a long dry spell followed or I was simping for a second round with her shortly after?
6). The true "red pill" is experiencing genuine interest from a woman - Once you encounter a woman who shows high interest in you, you will realize that mind games, tests, and hot-and-cold behavior are merely signs of low interest. A woman with genuine interest will not subject you to such behavior, as long as you maintain that mutual interest.
7). Be patient, yet persistent - Trust me, whatever reasonable goal you are working towards will come to fruition. It may not unfold exactly as you envisioned, but with time and resilience, it will manifest.
8). Stop fixating on other people - Refrain from worrying about the actions of women, your peers, rivals, and so on. While you can use them as benchmarks, avoid becoming obsessed with their lives. You never truly know what is happening behind the scenes because people often conceal their struggles. I recently discovered that a friend who married his high school sweetheart, bought a house, had two kids, and had a stable job is now going through a divorce and has lost his employment. It may sound trivial, but many individuals fall into a "red pill" mentality based on such insignificant matters.
9). Apply the 90/10 rule before complaining about women - Understand that only 10% of women are genuinely suitable for you to date in the first place. From that 10%, you need to ensure they are attractive, single, mentally stable, and so on. I am tired of seeing numerous topics and comments complaining about women who were never suitable prospects to begin with. I couldn't care less about what some superficial person on dating platforms like Fresh and Fraud, Hinge, or any other app said because I would never have considered dating them in the first place.
1). Approach college differently - Unless you have a scholarship, it is better to wait until you are mature enough. A recent high school graduate lacks real-world experience and has yet to face the responsibilities of adulthood, making it unwise to make one of the most crucial decisions of your life at such a young age. Additionally, do not fall into the misconception that college is the best four years of your life; it is disheartening to think that the peak years of your life will pass by soon. The party scene is overrated and not worth risking your life for. This is not a post against going to college; it is simply acknowledging that it is okay to wait until you are older and more mature.
2). Don't waste energy on politics or ideologies - Unless it benefits you directly, these things are mere hindrances in life. Ultimately, nobody truly cares, and these topics often lead to arguments and dissatisfaction.
3). It's okay to face rejection from women, learn from it, and move on - I used to prolong hopeless situations with women and develop an unhealthy obsession. I blamed external factors like Chad, hypergamy, or the universe, but I never took responsibility for my own actions. First, determine if you had initial control over her interest level or not. Then, evaluate what you did wrong or lacked and how you can improvise.
4). Engage with more women in high school - Although this topic is more relevant to one's twenties, it would have greatly benefited me in my interactions with women during college. College is not as beginner-friendly as stereotypes may suggest. High School actually offers a novice friendly environment because girls are more open and vulnerable in High School.
5). One-night stands are overrated - It wasn't until my third relationship that I truly began to understand how to navigate relationships with women. After that, I stopped concerning myself with red pill ideologies because I realized their true nature. What was the point of having a one-night stand if a long dry spell followed or I was simping for a second round with her shortly after?
6). The true "red pill" is experiencing genuine interest from a woman - Once you encounter a woman who shows high interest in you, you will realize that mind games, tests, and hot-and-cold behavior are merely signs of low interest. A woman with genuine interest will not subject you to such behavior, as long as you maintain that mutual interest.
7). Be patient, yet persistent - Trust me, whatever reasonable goal you are working towards will come to fruition. It may not unfold exactly as you envisioned, but with time and resilience, it will manifest.
8). Stop fixating on other people - Refrain from worrying about the actions of women, your peers, rivals, and so on. While you can use them as benchmarks, avoid becoming obsessed with their lives. You never truly know what is happening behind the scenes because people often conceal their struggles. I recently discovered that a friend who married his high school sweetheart, bought a house, had two kids, and had a stable job is now going through a divorce and has lost his employment. It may sound trivial, but many individuals fall into a "red pill" mentality based on such insignificant matters.
9). Apply the 90/10 rule before complaining about women - Understand that only 10% of women are genuinely suitable for you to date in the first place. From that 10%, you need to ensure they are attractive, single, mentally stable, and so on. I am tired of seeing numerous topics and comments complaining about women who were never suitable prospects to begin with. I couldn't care less about what some superficial person on dating platforms like Fresh and Fraud, Hinge, or any other app said because I would never have considered dating them in the first place.
