Retaliation For Being Rejected

[Ofus]

Never retaliate for being rejected.

If you are reading these tips you've got what it takes to be a Don Juan. And because you are a Don Juan, you are an extremely valuable rarity in a world drowning in AFCs.

When you approach a woman you are doing her a favor. Since you have great value a woman must demonstrate to you that she is worthy of experiencing you.

A "rejection" from a woman means nothing to you. Women are everywhere, and there is always a better and more attractive woman just beyond the horizon. Because of this, you care nothing of whether or not a particular woman rejects you, for in reality it is you who are evaluating her. A "rejection" from her proves her unworthiness of you.

And because you care nothing of being "rejected", you are not emotionally affected. You simply move on to the next one. You realize that an attempt to verbally insult her would only convey a defeat, and because you are not the one who has lost something valuable you refuse to claim a loss.

If you feel like you lose something from being rejected, a retaliation will not bring you back up. It will only show insecurity and weakness. You don't have time to waste on them anyway; there is another woman over there for you to approach. Leave the retaliations and pointless insults to the AFCs.

 

[jd782]

Exactly. Yesterday this girl I know told me in front of her boyfriend, you want me but you cant have me. I said, not only do I not want you, but I dont need you. I told her there there are only about a billion females on this planet and there is nothing she could offer me that I couldnt get from any other female.

Females need to realize, they are not special and unique. Every female I have known is basically the same. With very minor differences here and there.

 

[violator]

So true. Some of the best women I have been with I met after having been rejected a number of times, usually being superior in looks and intelligence to those who have rejected me.

The key is learning how to adopt an attitude of indifference when you are rejected. This will come after practice and a fair number of approaches and rejections.

 

[Milliardo_Peacecraft]

They speak the truth.AT first,I used to have the feeling I wanted to cry but now,its just like if I coudnt be hapier.And for a plus,I really dont fake the smile so it looks legit.

It throws them off balance.

Thats funny how they will act different in front of you because they dont know if they hurt you and feel uneasy with you from now on.

 

[IntermediateDonJuaner]

May I have your attention ofus?

It is true that we shouldn't get affected when girls reject us. And you did mention the right thing ,we shouldn't retaliate because we're the prize and we're doing her a favor when we approach her.

But think of it this way, this is all in our mind. We believe what we want to believe. Do you think the girl who rejected you will think the same way as we do?? She will probably think she has won and if we don't teach her a lesson, then she thought she's superior to us unless you have some other ways to show that you're a great catch . You need to prove to her that she is inferior and you're superior. In this way, you will boost your own self-esteem.

True, people who are insecure only takes revenge. But revenge is necessary when they begin to act like b|tches. These girls are too overwhelmed with their own false beliefs that they are always superior to us. It is time to prove them wrong and embarassed them!

 

[simplyme]

1.)By going for revenge and trying to hurt her, you prove her superiority
2.) In most cases, she won´t think, she has "won". She´ll think, you didn´t happen to be "her type", and she´ll hope, you are not too much hurt by that.

 

[Fool]

There is no need to show and tell. If you get rejected, try another time. If 3 times rejected, just get out of there and move on. Being mysteriously disappeared and go out with other girls. In the hope of her seeing you with other girl, she will be regretted.

 

[Digital Mastermind1]

she has to be worth my time

i agree learn to suppress rejection and squash it because if you retaliate you give her more reason to reject you again.

 

[-Zero_h0uR-]

Re: May I have your attention ofus?

Originally posted by IntermediateDonJuaner
True, people who are insecure only takes revenge. But revenge is necessary when they begin to act like b|tches. These girls are too overwhelmed with their own false beliefs that they are always superior to us. It is time to prove them wrong and embarassed them!

NO REVENGE... at all.

Revenge is a crutch for the inner afc. You are better than them, you don't need to prove it. You only need to know it.

 

[WatchMeWalk]

A Question

How would you handle it if the HB who rejected you is adding insult to injury by slandering your reputation?
My ex one-itis got totally *****y after I made it clear that I had NEXTED her. I avoided all contact with the ho, and pursued other prospects, until her ****wit of a new boyfriend tried to hassle me without provocation. Ever since, I set my natural sarcasm to fullscale whenever circumstances force me to talk to her, but I never go out of my way to slight her.
Is that still insecure?

 

[Ofus]

Re: A Question

Originally posted by WatchMeWalk
How would you handle it if the HB who rejected you is adding insult to injury by slandering your reputation?
My ex one-itis got totally *****y after I made it clear that I had NEXTED her. I avoided all contact with the ho, and pursued other prospects, until her ****wit of a new boyfriend tried to hassle me without provocation. Ever since, I set my natural sarcasm to fullscale whenever circumstances force me to talk to her, but I never go out of my way to slight her.
Is that still insecure?

No way.

The reason she's mad at you is your indifference. She realized that you don't care one way or the other - and this indifference is getting to her.

She is beginning to see what it was she missed out on, and she's upset by the fact that she expected you to remain an AFC towards her instead of acting like a real man - one she might've had a chance with before, only she knows that she has ruined her only chance.

If anyone is insecure about themselves now, it's definately her and her chump boyfriend.

 

[Slashco]

Re: May I have your attention ofus?

Originally posted by IntermediateDonJuaner
It is true that we shouldn't get affected when girls reject us. And you did mention the right thing ,we shouldn't retaliate because we're the prize and we're doing her a favor when we approach her.

But think of it this way, this is all in our mind. We believe what we want to believe. Do you think the girl who rejected you will think the same way as we do?? She will probably think she has won and if we don't teach her a lesson, then she thought she's superior to us unless you have some other ways to show that you're a great catch . You need to prove to her that she is inferior and you're superior. In this way, you will boost your own self-esteem.

True, people who are insecure only takes revenge. But revenge is necessary when they begin to act like b|tches. These girls are too overwhelmed with their own false beliefs that they are always superior to us. It is time to prove them wrong and embarassed them!

Most women who reject you simply don't want to be around you, it's nothing personal, for whatever reason you just don't appeal to them; they will hope you aren't too offended by it. Now there are also some b!tches out there who enjoy putting men down to make themselves feel superior. But the only way you 'let them win' is if you act hurt and/or insulted. If anything, attempting to get revenge shows they won, because they affected you and you care. If you simply laugh it off and move on, they will have nothing.

 

[Milliardo_Peacecraft]

I just incited most of the chicks in my phone number list for a party this Friday and when I called one of them....:

Me:Hello, Mary, how are doing today?

Her: Great and you!

Me:Well,Im doing fine.So,I called to let you know theres a party at my friend`s and I want you to come this friday.

Her:...well....you know...I ahve a boyfriend that lives in Montreal...and I only see him on friday....I dont think I would have the time...

Me:Ahaha,well,if you change your mind,just call me and both of you can come.

Her: WHAT!!

Me:You didnt really think I had a crush on you,did you?

Her:Well...I wasnt sure....I mean.... ...

Me: Dont take this personally but you arent really my type.You are a nice person to be with but your just not outgoing enough.I still hope you and your boyfriend will show up though.

I have to go now!

Her: Umm ok.....bye

Me: bye

*click*

I then proceeded to put a red dot next to her number(I used a color system to know wich girls are good date and wich ones are not) and I called the next number on my list.


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I learned that it gives nothing to look shocked when it doesnt really work.Just brush it off and NEXT.

 

[Lionheart]

Finally!

I've seen quite a few posts lately about 'comebacks' for girls who reject you.

I am glad that someone has finally posted something that might make all these angry RAFCs change their ways, the way of the DJ is the path of keeping calm and rolling with the punches.

Yes, I know some girls can be complete *****es....but even then, better not to lower yourself.

If you try it on with a nice girl and she rejects you in a nice way (as nice as rejection gets anway ) then don't retaliate, just smile and say bye.

If you retaliate, that girl may be more *****y when handing out rejection in the future, and you wouldn't want to do that to a fellow brother right?

Also don't forget, you may meet this girl again and she might have nice friends and could be good for social proof.

Play Nice!
Lion

 

[El brujo]

The best revenge that isn't a revenge is the fact that you just have to ignore a girl that messed around with you. she'll go mad

Nice thread

greetz

 

[SPETSA]

I don't even think extracting revenge on a girl that rejects you is a matter of being a DJ or an AFC. Geez, just be the better person about the situation.
Don't be vengeful, what purpose does it serve? To make you feel better for about 5 minutes because "you showed her"? Chances are, if she rejected you in the first place she doesn't really give a crap if you get the last "punch" in on her. And like some of the others said, when you aren't vengeful it throws them off track and they don't know what to do. What a better way to get back at them and be extremely subtle about it.

 

[El brujo]

That's what I ment Spetza, I just didnt find the words for it. I should take English classes.

Greetz

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Imagine if you rejected a girl and she embarrassed you for it.

 

[Slashco]

Good point, I've seen too many guys (here and elsewhere) get all p!ssy and offended when a girl rejects them, while at the same time talking about only dating an 8 or 9, making fun of ugly or overweight girls, etc. Not exactly objective

 

[Ofus]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Imagine if you rejected a girl and she embarrassed you for it.

Exactly. There is nothing to be gained from retaliating, all it does is piss off the girl, encourage her to retaliate against you, and make you look lame in front of everyone else to boot.