Retaliation For Being Rejected

[Bonhomme]

Taking disrespect?

I thoroughly agree one should not retaliate for rejection .

But what about calmly and firmly calling someone on diserespect, if they act disrespectful toward you?

Sometimes a woman will even disrespect you (with the appearance of rejection) to see if you have the balls to call her on it. Of course, I wouldn't want to go out with such a woman anyway. Leave them to the AFCs.

 

[Trickster_guy_2001]

Originally posted by simplyme
1.)By going for revenge and trying to hurt her, you prove her superiority
2.) In most cases, she won´t think, she has "won". She´ll think, you didn´t happen to be "her type", and she´ll hope, you are not too much hurt by that.

I dissagree with #2. The woman I've known could have cared less about how I felt as a human being. It was all about the winning.

But sometimes the best revenge is trying to live your life as the best you can be.

I admit that once, and only once, in my chump days; I got pissed and told a girl off who rejected me. I realized she was playing stupid games, and it aggravated me that I was made to look like a chump and a loser. And instead of ignoring it, I told her off. I looked especially dumb then. But, it's a lesson to learn. One that won't be repeated.

Telling a girl off, or telling her that you know she's playing stupid games won't solve much. Just leave her behind and don't look back.