Thorninmyside
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 18, 2014
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I've gone official/exclusive with one of a few girls I've been dating, a real stunner who despite being quite shy in the real world, relies to a certain extent on social media for her profile as a model, car rally girl, tv extra... you know, pretty face for hire. Her facebook and instagram show her attending events, looking sexy, hanging in bikini with her hot friends etc.. and of course it has contact details of her agent for work. I know the power of social marketing and I support her profile building.
Anyways, the comments from her online orbiters regularly consist of drooly desperado pickup attempts, sexy talk, countless requests for her snapchat, wechat, whatsapp (she doesn't have any of them), "hey, inbox me. We should talk" etc.. well you know what I mean. You've seen the type of thing.
How do I stay strong dating someone who is the target of a lot of lust from these fools? Yes, I'm the one bedding her, they're the losers on instagram thinking they stand a chance... still messes with my head a little. If someone spoke to her in person in my presence in the manner of some of the comments, I'd wanna see them eat dirt pronto.
Ignore it? Unfollow her social media? In a weaker time I probably would have used her accounts to block the morons, but this is an internal thing for me to overcome and is the nature of her work.
Anyways, the comments from her online orbiters regularly consist of drooly desperado pickup attempts, sexy talk, countless requests for her snapchat, wechat, whatsapp (she doesn't have any of them), "hey, inbox me. We should talk" etc.. well you know what I mean. You've seen the type of thing.
How do I stay strong dating someone who is the target of a lot of lust from these fools? Yes, I'm the one bedding her, they're the losers on instagram thinking they stand a chance... still messes with my head a little. If someone spoke to her in person in my presence in the manner of some of the comments, I'd wanna see them eat dirt pronto.
Ignore it? Unfollow her social media? In a weaker time I probably would have used her accounts to block the morons, but this is an internal thing for me to overcome and is the nature of her work.