Just get a free Google Voice number. Nothing could be easier. No, not really; as long as the weight is in the right places. You do realize, you are in no position to criticize any lady.. Right?
Here's your breakdown of what you offer:
Positives
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Good guy, a bit too nice though
Honest, a bit too honest though
Has a job; but is not killing it.
Negatives
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Underweight
Lives with Mom at 36
No style
No real career advancement/prospects
No social circle
Cares too much about what ladies think of him.
Contacts them way too much.
Puts ladies on a pedestal.
Needs to improve himself.
Your rating = 3 - 4
You can raise to a 6 or higher, but you need a lot of work. Could it be done? Yes. Can you do it? That depends on how bad you want it. You also do not listen to dudes who are successful in life and with ladies. So, IDK what to tell you aside from work on yourself and build up your experience with ladies. That means, any lady that will f uck you, you do so (with protection). No more paying for dinners and s hit like that.
But, I digress, you will not listen and continue to b itch and moan here while many of us are getting our d icks wet. Perhaps,
@Amante Silvestre and
@Glassguy are correct after all.