so I was dating this girl for about 3 months, everything was going good, very pretty, good personality. I'd call her sometimes and be like "what's going on tonight?" and she'd say "oh we're going to so and so party, and then off to this bar." at first I thought "this chick seems pretty cool." The problem is, this behavior continued. she partied a lot and had a lot of guy friends. now I don't think she cheated on me, I just wasn't expecting all this. she has a lot of facebook friends, and goes to a lot of different events. I kept my cool and never showed my jealousy until recently.
anyway I was out of town for a couple days at a buddies bachelor party (she never displayed one iota of concern) and decided to give her a call. this was at like 10:30 pm. so she answers and I hear music and a bunch of people in the backround. she's partying... again. I was pretty frustrated and said "You went out... again?" she said "... what?" like she was confused. I was like "You just went out. Is this all you do? she said "I'm out with my friends." in an angry tone. I was like "okay talk to ya later."
me and my buddies started drinking and I called her back. I said "seriously is there anything else you like to do besides partying? a couple people warned me about this from you. this is why your last relationship ended with your ex isn't it?" to which she replied "that's none of your business... I have no reason to talk to you right now." I could hear someone in the backround say "just hang up the phone. by this time I'm really p!ssed and hang up... I call her back again, she answers and says "you're freaking me out". I told her "whatever, you got some major issues you need to deal with." she said "don't bother calling me anymore", and hung up. by this time I was pretty drunk and even more upset. so I call her back the first words out of her mouth were "what did I tell you about calling me!?" and hung up.
in hindsight, the situation went out of control pretty quickly, but damnit, this is how I felt. any opinions on what happened here? can I salvage?
anyway I was out of town for a couple days at a buddies bachelor party (she never displayed one iota of concern) and decided to give her a call. this was at like 10:30 pm. so she answers and I hear music and a bunch of people in the backround. she's partying... again. I was pretty frustrated and said "You went out... again?" she said "... what?" like she was confused. I was like "You just went out. Is this all you do? she said "I'm out with my friends." in an angry tone. I was like "okay talk to ya later."
me and my buddies started drinking and I called her back. I said "seriously is there anything else you like to do besides partying? a couple people warned me about this from you. this is why your last relationship ended with your ex isn't it?" to which she replied "that's none of your business... I have no reason to talk to you right now." I could hear someone in the backround say "just hang up the phone. by this time I'm really p!ssed and hang up... I call her back again, she answers and says "you're freaking me out". I told her "whatever, you got some major issues you need to deal with." she said "don't bother calling me anymore", and hung up. by this time I was pretty drunk and even more upset. so I call her back the first words out of her mouth were "what did I tell you about calling me!?" and hung up.
in hindsight, the situation went out of control pretty quickly, but damnit, this is how I felt. any opinions on what happened here? can I salvage?
