Excuse, after excuse after EXCUSE.
The more you keep making them, the less progress you make.
I'm not interested in your bullsh*t Luke. I don't care why you think that you cannot do this. I'm just going to tell it like it is.
And from what I read: You keep stalling. You're scared. You are afraid to change. You are afraid of going all the way with a woman because you are not experienced.
Well, its time to man up Luke.
Find your balls.
And quit making EXCUSES. When was the last time making excuses got you results? Well?
Answer the damn questions I type instead of just skimming my posts! If you're not going to answer them on SoSuave, at least do it for yourself.
You've let fear take over your life Luke. It's debilitating. It gets you nowhere.
Luke Skywalker said:
I haven't gone to clubs, only gyms. No guys at the gym are players or obviously with girls allot except the personal trainer that I wrote about.
Then make friends with your personal trainer and go with him to the club, or the bar. Alcohol is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Even the nicest girl turns into a complete slut after a mickey. Use this if you have to.
I thought you wanted to get laid? I thought you wanted a woman? I thought you were tired of being alone, day after day after day? Well, if you really want one you have to DO SOMETHING!
Luke Skywalker said:
There are players for hire, but they charge $ 1000 US or so to learn by modeling, but I'm not prepared to shell out that cash or am able to at this time.
I'm talking about real players. The smooth, natural guys that don't use techniques. Not your mystery style AFCs in a player "wrapper" which cost you an arm and a leg. That's what you need to learn. You are too robotic. All these techniques you learned were supposed to become natural and part of you by now. Looks like it hasn't stuck.
You need some natural game.
Once you have that, you can make up stuff on the fly. You wouldn't need to sit down with a pen and paper and draw out some sort of strategy:
"Ok, If she says this... then I do this, but if she doesn't, then I go over there and do that" and so on and so forth.
Once you become natural, the right things come out of your mouth. I know a couple of natural fellas and they're pretty damn good with women. They're also super sharp and can pick up sh*t almost instantly.
Conclusion:
1. Quit whining about why you can't do it. Figure out ways that you can.
2. Nobody in the history of mankind got results by making excuses. What makes you think that you will?
3. Do whatever it takes. Otherwise GET THE **** OUT.
If you aren't commited to changing and fixing this problem of yours.. why the hell are you here? Why are you here giving advice to these people? Cause you're pathetic that's why.
Don't you think that its time to change that?
You owe it to yourself.
And quit writing more bullsh*t about whay you can't do it. Because you can. If I can, so can you. Now figure out ways to accomplish and change that attitude to a more positive one.