17 here. Just did a week-long course where I stayed with 30 other students at a university. We had a lot of free time to go into town and relax so naturally I got to know everyone and tried to hit on the hottest girl.
I seemed to get pretty well with the girl, she was super comfortable with physical interaction, although I never tried to hold her by her waist. The only time she rejected my interaction was when we were sitting down and I tried to put my arm around her shoulders. However it was in a jokey manner and I dismissed it, act like nothing happened right?
I had talked with her a great deal, and she was comfortable joking and talking about sexual topics (I didn't mean to shift it there, it just seemed to come up, and I took it as a good sign since I read that this is something you should do - get on sexual topics)
So it was nearing the end and I still hadn't found the perfect opportunity to try to kiss her, and I had no idea how to do it. There was one guy that had been doing magic tricks all week as an icebreaker and I decided to play off him, doing my own one where the 'magic' was a kiss. I tried to get her away from the others but she took a lot of convincing, finally following me out after a minute or two. It was ridiculously unsubtle - everyone knew I wanted to get her alone.
Did the trick, when it got to the part where she kisses you (just a peck on the lips) she didn't want to do it and kept asking 'why'. I told her I liked her, she just kept looking into my eyes, but she never said 'I'm not interested'. She kept smiling so I went in for the kiss myself but she moved away.
What did I do wrong? Everyone said she was playing hard to get, and berated her for giving out strong signals.
The magic trick was ****ing chumpish. I think since it was so unsubtle getting her away from everyone I should have just gone completely unsubtle, took her hands and tried to kiss her without any bull**** trick. In my mind, I'm convinced that would have worked. She never said once she wasn't interested and had smiled the whole way through.
Either way I still had a great time flirting and it was a great experience. I tried to take it reallllyyyy slowly this time since I've screwed up several times previously being too fast.
Towards the end, I stopped liking her since she was too shy, but I decided to try to kiss her anyway since I'm a kissless virgin and I need to push my limits. Yeah it was a bad idea since I didn't like her, but it was a good idea in that I learned a huge amount.
Any advice? If you need more information, just ask. I didn't spend all my time with her. I probably cut out on time I could have spent talking to guy friends to spend time with her, but I made sure to talk to other girls, play footy with the guys, take time away from her to chill after long interactions/conversations etc.
Edit: She said later to some girl friends that she had made a 'terrible mistake' but that could mean anything so I chose to ignore it. Plus female gossip isn't the most reliable of sources....
Had this one other girl hitting on me throughout the whole course though wasn't interested. Felt good that gym, confidence and posture are really working.
I seemed to get pretty well with the girl, she was super comfortable with physical interaction, although I never tried to hold her by her waist. The only time she rejected my interaction was when we were sitting down and I tried to put my arm around her shoulders. However it was in a jokey manner and I dismissed it, act like nothing happened right?
I had talked with her a great deal, and she was comfortable joking and talking about sexual topics (I didn't mean to shift it there, it just seemed to come up, and I took it as a good sign since I read that this is something you should do - get on sexual topics)
So it was nearing the end and I still hadn't found the perfect opportunity to try to kiss her, and I had no idea how to do it. There was one guy that had been doing magic tricks all week as an icebreaker and I decided to play off him, doing my own one where the 'magic' was a kiss. I tried to get her away from the others but she took a lot of convincing, finally following me out after a minute or two. It was ridiculously unsubtle - everyone knew I wanted to get her alone.
Did the trick, when it got to the part where she kisses you (just a peck on the lips) she didn't want to do it and kept asking 'why'. I told her I liked her, she just kept looking into my eyes, but she never said 'I'm not interested'. She kept smiling so I went in for the kiss myself but she moved away.
What did I do wrong? Everyone said she was playing hard to get, and berated her for giving out strong signals.
The magic trick was ****ing chumpish. I think since it was so unsubtle getting her away from everyone I should have just gone completely unsubtle, took her hands and tried to kiss her without any bull**** trick. In my mind, I'm convinced that would have worked. She never said once she wasn't interested and had smiled the whole way through.
Either way I still had a great time flirting and it was a great experience. I tried to take it reallllyyyy slowly this time since I've screwed up several times previously being too fast.
Towards the end, I stopped liking her since she was too shy, but I decided to try to kiss her anyway since I'm a kissless virgin and I need to push my limits. Yeah it was a bad idea since I didn't like her, but it was a good idea in that I learned a huge amount.
Any advice? If you need more information, just ask. I didn't spend all my time with her. I probably cut out on time I could have spent talking to guy friends to spend time with her, but I made sure to talk to other girls, play footy with the guys, take time away from her to chill after long interactions/conversations etc.
Edit: She said later to some girl friends that she had made a 'terrible mistake' but that could mean anything so I chose to ignore it. Plus female gossip isn't the most reliable of sources....
Had this one other girl hitting on me throughout the whole course though wasn't interested. Felt good that gym, confidence and posture are really working.