Red Pill Anxiety

[NeverChase]

Hi,
I have this strange phenomenon, I call it Red pill anxiety. I'll explain it, I want to know if anyone else has it.
So what happens, is that I have really "blue pill" "naive" thoughts about something. Then I found out it wasn't any true, and there actually was something bad in reality. Naturally I don't feel like I learned from this at all, so I force myself to realize the red pill truth.
When I force it, I get bad anxiety out of all proportion. I feel like I've been cheated, when something minor happened. But I really don't want to ignore whatever happened, because I want to learn from the experience.

For example - my crazy GF comes to me uninvited while I'm busy, don't talk, looks like she's about to cry. I feel terrible to make her leave, feel like she's madly in love and I did something bad to her. After wasting me half an hour, not talking and making me feel what I felt on purpose, turns out she just wanted a lift home.
Naturally my mind doesn't realize how beta\stupid\blue pill I was and I still feel what my stupidity made me feel. So I force myself to see the "harsh truth" - she came to get a ride to work and played me for no reason, I was so naive when in reality she's going to work at the same time we planned to go out, and she wasn't even supposed to work at this time .
So what happens when I force myself to see reality, I feel at least like I've been cheated on, over crap like this.
Anyone going through this fvcked up problem ?

 

[Poon King]

No woman ever has or ever will give a sh!t about you. What they care about is what you can do (for them) and nothing more. Women see men ONLY as a means to an end.

The faster you learn this the better. Then you can REALLY start living life and stop waiting around for some Disney virgin princess to fall in love with. You will live a life of abundance as you will see women for what they are and what they are worth (and act accordingly) which will actually make you more attractive to them.

Most people don't live in reality because it doesn't feel good. And if everything needs to feel good for you to do it.. then you're doomed. Living in reality is the most powerful thing a man can do. Since most people don't live in reality.. the few who do have a huge advantage in life.

So do you want to live life with a HUGE advantage or do you want to feel good today? This is the choice we must all make and most people chose the latter. Because most people are morons.

People's perception of reality is often tenuous at best.. altered by television, a desire to be cool/hip, denial of death, or the constant noise of modern life that is used in an attempt to drown out the silence.

Re-train your brain. Read, think, analyze, reason. Once you start doing so, you quickly come to the conclusion that what society is selling you is a load of sh!t and for the most part, wishful thinking. What society wants you to do is almost always contrary to your own best interests because the people pulling the strings make a lot of money this way.

 

[TarantulaHawk]

No woman ever has or ever will give a sh!t about you. What they care about is what you can do (for them) and nothing more. Women see men ONLY as a means to an end.

So your own mother only cares about you doing chores for her and cleaning your room?

 

[salinechow]

So your own mother only cares about you doing chores for her and cleaning your room?

Dude. In all seriousness. Yea. Kinda. Its out there.

God blessed you with a great mom. Yet, when she was younger, before you or your siblings came into her life, do you think its possiable that she wasnt always the angel she is to you?

I mean, I think Poon goes a little to far sometimes. Then, as I live and breath, the crazy bastard ends up getting proved right. Yep, even if we mention moms. Sad. Hard. Yet, possiably the damn truth.

 

[TarantulaHawk]

Dude. In all seriousness. Yea. Kinda. Its out there.

God blessed you with a great mom. Yet, when she was younger, before you or your siblings came into her life, do you think its possiable that she wasnt always the angel she is to you?

I mean, I think Poon goes a little to far sometimes. Then, as I live and breath, the crazy bastard ends up getting proved right. Yep, even if we mention moms. Sad. Hard. Yet, possiably the damn truth.

Believe it or not both my parents were virgins till they got married. I used to wonder if it was true but growing up and knowing them my entire life I've no reason to believe otherwise.

 

[sylvester the cat]

So your own mother only cares about you doing chores for her and cleaning your room?

Your parents certainly did not bring you into the world for your benefit. They brought you here for theirs. You were someone who'd rely on them, make them feel needed and wanted and useful in life. You gave your parents a purpose in their lives.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

So your own mother only cares about you doing chores for her and cleaning your room?

There is concept in psychology we never ever do things for free.Your mom does shyt for you because you give her emotions.If children wouldnt give emotions to women we would never procreate besides women are mentally challenged by having motherhood instinct so you missed point.

Poon King is right we give shyt only about people we can get something.Why we care about young and sexy women and not old hags ? Sex, emotions ... there are always strings attached ... always ... men miss motherhood love and expect this from a woman but forgot the love of your mom was never free so it isnt free from other women.

If you have no value for other people esp for women you are what you are worthless.The biggest catch value is never stable.It can increase or decrease, instead of crying you have no value for some btch you need go and find somebody who will find you because of some reason valuable.

Humans are like coal and diamonds we are resource.Women are basically .... parasites ... when leech sucks your blood it actualy feels very good, there is nothing wrong about that,accept it and play to own benefit.If you have use for woman she will suck your c0ck like there is no tomorrow but if you loose value she will drop you and find other host.Women dont provide unconditional love but conditional service which may include strong emotions called love.Men do it too.

Love is always conditional.There is nothing romantic about love as it's unwritten contract.If you love beautiful girl but then she has accident lets say burn with acid her resource is gone,she lost value so your love did lose value too.Blue pill men cant accept they value may decline, they are like crazy investor who can
deal with reality his stocks worth fortune are worthless now.They react same as investor who lost fortune depression,anxiety,suicide ... because they never forseen 'The worst case sceario' they always believed ...market always goes up

OP 'Why my eyes hurts ? ' 'Because you have never used them'

 

[TarantulaHawk]

There is concept in psychology we never ever do things for free.Your mom does shyt for you because you give her emotions.If children wouldnt give emotions to women we would never procreate besides women are mentally challenged by having motherhood instinct so you missed point.

Poon King is right we give shyt only about people we can get something.Why we care about young and sexy women and not old hags ? Sex, emotions ... there are always strings attached ... always ... men miss motherhood love and expect this from a woman but forgot the love of your mom was never free so it isnt free from other women.

If you have no value for other people esp for women you are what you are worthless.The biggest catch value is never stable.It can increase or decrease, instead of crying you have no value for some btch you need go and find somebody who will find you because of some reason valuable.

Humans are like coal and diamonds we are resource.Women are basically .... parasites ... when leech sucks your blood it actualy feels very good, there is nothing wrong about that,accept it and play to own benefit.If you have use for woman she will suck your c0ck like there is no tomorrow but if you loose value she will drop you and find other host.Women dont provide unconditional love but conditional service which may include strong emotions called love.Men do it too.

Love is always conditional.There is nothing romantic about love as it's unwritten contract.If you love beautiful girl but then she has accident lets say burn with acid her resource is gone,she lost value so your love did lose value too.Blue pill men cant accept they value may decline, they are like crazy investor who can
deal with reality his stocks worth fortune are worthless now.They react same as investor who lost fortune depression,anxiety,suicide ... because they never forseen 'The worst case sceario' they always believed ...market always goes up

OP 'Why my eyes hurts ? ' 'Because you have never used them'

It's safe to say you're severely disturbed if you truly believe the stuff you just typed. No wonder you're quoting red pill nonsense.

Your parents certainly did not bring you into the world for your benefit. They brought you here for theirs. You were someone who'd rely on them, make them feel needed and wanted and useful in life. You gave your parents a purpose in their lives.

Of course. Parents only bring kids into the world for their own benefits only. LMAO

Parents give a child no purpose in life but to fulfill their own benefit? Do you even believe what you're saying? A child gets no benefits out of life?

Thank God I was raised by my parents. If what you dudes responded is what you truly believe then that's your problem. Not mine.

 

[SamTheHobit]

No woman ever has or ever will give a sh!t about you. What they care about is what you can do (for them) and nothing more. Women see men ONLY as a means to an end.

The faster you learn this the better. Then you can REALLY start living life and stop waiting around for some Disney virgin princess to fall in love with. You will live a life of abundance as you will see women for what they are and what they are worth (and act accordingly) which will actually make you more attractive to them.

Most people don't live in reality because it doesn't feel good. And if everything needs to feel good for you to do it.. then you're doomed. Living in reality is the most powerful thing a man can do. Since most people don't live in reality.. the few who do have a huge advantage in life.

So do you want to live life with a HUGE advantage or do you want to feel good today? This is the choice we must all make and most people chose the latter. Because most people are morons.

People's perception of reality is often tenuous at best.. altered by television, a desire to be cool/hip, denial of death, or the constant noise of modern life that is used in an attempt to drown out the silence.

Re-train your brain. Read, think, analyze, reason. Once you start doing so, you quickly come to the conclusion that what society is selling you is a load of sh!t and for the most part, wishful thinking. What society wants you to do is almost always contrary to your own best interests because the people pulling the strings make a lot of money this way.

Great post!

I admit that I often fall into the trap of "happily ever after" but then someone or something knock me right back to reality.

 

[Embers84]

No woman ever has or ever will give a sh!t about you. What they care about is what you can do (for them) and nothing more. Women see men ONLY as a means to an end.

The faster you learn this the better. Then you can REALLY start living life and stop waiting around for some Disney virgin princess to fall in love with. You will live a life of abundance as you will see women for what they are and what they are worth (and act accordingly) which will actually make you more attractive to them.[/B]

It's more like women don't give a sh1t about you. This is an erroneous blanket statement that has no merit. Ignorant comments like this are laughable. :crackup:

Here's several articles showing women putting their own lives at risk (wives, girlfriends, and even complete strangers) giving a sh1t to save men's lives in various situations. One woman got herself killed for trying to save her husband's life.


http://mom.me/home/7767-women-who-saved-their-husbands-life/

Here’s a tragic story of a wife making the ultimate sacrifice for her husband. One Sunday morning in Wissinoming, Penn., Teresa Marquard and her husband Albert were enjoying a leisurely walk around their neighborhood. Suddenly, a minivan driven by intoxicated Eric Luciano careened around a corner and jumped the curb, headed right for the couple. Following her instinct, Teresa pushed Albert out of the path of the speeding vehicle, only to be hit by it herself. She was struck and killed instantly. Teresa and Albert had been married for 42 years, together since they were both 14 years old, so it’s not surprising they’d have a bond that amazingly strong.

http://mom.me/home/7767-women-who-saved-their-husbands-life/



Most of the wives in this story had been married to their husbands for decades before saving their lives, but the bonds of true love can sometimes form much more quickly. For Joe Carvalho, his wife Aubrey saved his life just days after their marriage. The Pennsylvania pair had been dating for four years, but Joe’s future looked dim when his kidney (he had somehow only been born with one kidney) began to fail. With just a year to live, he needed to find a donor—and that donor turned out to be Aubrey. Barely after their wedding, the couple traveled to Lehigh Valley Hospital-Cedar Crest and underwent the transplant procedure, which went perfectly and ensured a rosy future for the newlyweds.


Married couple Richard and Tina Weston were walking through Lincolnshire when they were set upon by a group of teenage boys who beganattacking Richard mercilessly. He was knocked to the ground, and three of the criminals started viciously kicking him in the head and torso. Tina, age 50, threw her own body over her husband to try and insulate him from any more blows, but the teens continued their assault before running off. If she hadn’t intervened, Richard could have sustained brain damage or worse. Thankfully, the three main attackers were swiftly caught, tried and sentenced.


http://krqe.com/2014/09/15/wife-saves-husband-from-falling-off-cliff/

http://www.krmg.com/videos/news/national/wife-fatally-stabs-intruder-saves-husband-on/v24pj/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rg0h4ntmSP4

http://www.deseretnews.com/article/...after-he-goes-into-cardiac-arrest.html?pg=all

http://www.guns.com/2015/01/31/girl...d-from-robbery-when-she-fetches-her-38-video/

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nat...ves-would-be-suicide-jumper-article-1.1773221

http://www.myfoxphilly.com/story/23898394/woman-saves-man-who-was-set-on-fire

http://myfox8.com/2015/01/26/nc-woman-called-a-hero-after-helping-save-man-in-crash/

 

[TarantulaHawk]

go back to school or get your money back

if you studied history you would know that parents throughout the planet literally had children to continue their privileged bloodline or to help around the farm/family business depending on what caste they were born into.

Of course there's ZERO benefit for the child. Born into a world where no one cares. LMAO. Everyone's out to get us. Let the cult paranoia reign supreme.

Glad I don't have your attitude about life dude.

Why listen in school? I thought you "unplugged from the matrix" and swallowed your "red pill"? LMAO