I've been keeping my frame. It's hard though.
This is more of the text conversation which happenned a few days before the other one I posted. This was all while we were exclusive. (4 months in)
Her: Definitely a happy smile ****, good to see
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Her: Sorry working! Call another time
Him: No worries doc. Take care
Her: Free tomorrow!
ps just found out I scored a **** job in **** next year! Woohoo!
Him: Sorry it's late doc. I need to tell you why I said 'let's see what happens' when you told me you'd move back to ****** for me last year. I still don't know what I want to do, where I want to be. Leave **** or what. It's one of the reasons why we broke up. Not because I didn't want you in my life, didn't love you anymore. But I know I can't keep you on the shelf until I sort myself out. I want you to have all the happy ness you deserve. I get the feeling there's more to your relationship than your letting on
(she was downplaying me and her to him?) and I'm really happy for you. Just remember that your still always on my mind, always in my heart
Him: Hey I wanted to tell you that last night, I just couldn't get the words together. It's come out a bit 'poor me' and that's not how it was supposed to. Just wanted you to know why I didn't drive to **** or **** earlier this year and lay it down to you.
(she invited him over while we were dating? maybe exclusive then?) Anyway just so you know I meant it when I said I'll be here for you if he doesn't treat you the way you deserve
I just feel disrespected. Am I in the wrong to feel like this? Maybe it's just my ego...
Anyway, I will hold my frame and not say anything.