Recovery 101: How to stop hating women

Francisco d'Anconia

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Jariel said:
You are damn right!

ALL of the women that messed me around in the past gave me numerous red flags before I even got involved, I knew they weren't what I wanted, and yet I still pursued them. So that's my own fault.
As soon as guys realize, accept and choose to own their accountability and also to change their methods, they will realize just how much control that they have over their interactions with women.
 

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Yep, it's time us DJs got that chip off our shoulder. However, I still HATE my oneitis from way back when :D
 

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V-Don said:
Good thread.

I second that. It's great to have an honest, open and productive debate without it digressing into some online bytch session.

It shows we DJ's can disagree, yet still engage in civil discourse about a controversial topic.

Kudos gentlemen.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
As soon as guys realize, accept and choose to own their accountability and also to change their methods, they will realize just how much control that they have over their interactions with women.
Absolutely!
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.

Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.

With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.

SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread. :up:
 

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DarkLight said:
Absolutely!
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.

Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.

With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.

SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread. :up:
Yawn.

I don't think even a DJ can control how a woman is going to behave. It's already been said before that the best you can do is control your reaction to her behavior. Losing the bitterness and victim mentality is a start. Tranforming yourself into another "character" is pointless, especially if you are doing nothing wrong. All you are doing supplicating and acting in a way that you think a woman will prefer, which is something AFCs do and something we shouldn't be doing.
 

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Juan_Man said:
Yawn.

I don't think even a DJ can control how a woman is going to behave.
Reread the thread, you're not getting it. This has nothing to do with having control over women.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Reread the thread, you're not getting it. This has nothing to do with having control over women.
Well said.
My post was about... effecting life as a creator (through self-transformation).
 
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